Are Gu Ailing and Quan Hong chan a kind of champion?
No.
01
These days the Winter Olympics,
Many parents are asking their children a question:
Why hasn't all the red chan played in the Winter Olympics?
It's a laugh to death.
I'm writing this,
Not to answer that question, of course.
I just think All Red Chan is quite famous,
So many parents and elders know.
The Summer Olympics, the fire of an all-red Chan.
The Winter Olympics, a gu Ailing, was on fire.
Today's article,
I just want to talk about Gu Ailing and Quan Hongchan.
02
There is a question online:
The proportion of middle-class families producing creative talents,
Why is it the lowest?
Rich families and poor families,
the proportion of creative talents produced,
Why are they all much higher than middle-class families?
03
Before answering this question,
I want to talk about Quan Hong Chan and Gu Ailing,
Let's start with Gu Ailing.
Gu Ailing's parents are rich people,
They are all elites of the elite.
Gu Ailing's mother Gu Yan,
Graduated from Peking University,
Graduated from Peking University in the 1980s,
Later, he studied at Stanford in the United States,
After graduation, I stayed on Wall Street,
After that, he successfully turned into an investment bank,
Later, he opened his own venture capital firm.
China Science and Technology Information Magazine,
An article was published in 1998,
It's about Gu Yan and her venture capital career.
In a word,
Gu Ailing's family has long since achieved wealth freedom.
04
Gu Ailing grew up,
In addition to skiing,
I have tried many kinds of "stylistic" training.
For example, basketball,
For example, football,
For example, rock climbing,
For example, archery,
For example, riding a horse,
For example, gymnastics,
For example, long-distance running,
Like singing,
For example, ballet,
For example, piano,
In short, as Gu Ailing himself said:
"I'm just trying this and trying that."
After a variety of attempts,
She found something she liked and excelled at – freestyle skiing.
So to speak,
The reason why Gu Ailing was able to turn out,
In addition to its own efforts,
Mainly thanks to her family's wealth,
There is money for her to try all kinds of things,
After various attempts,
She found her strongest talent.
05
And Quan Hongchan's family is very poor,
You have to rely on eating low insurance to get by.
Mom was in a car accident because of a car accident.
Perennial need to cure diseases,
It all depends on my father to work as a farmer to support the family.
Quan Hong chan and her brother and sister,
The family's life is very difficult.
From small to large,
Quan Hong Chan has never even been to the amusement park,
Not even the zoo.
Her biggest dream,
Is to be able to eat spicy strips,
Achieve 5 cents of spicy strip freedom.
06
Quan Hong Chan doesn't like to read,
Reading grades are also not good.
In 2014,
Zhanjiang Sports School diving coach Chen Huaming,
To Zhanjiang Maihe Primary School to select seedlings,
At a glance, I fell in love with Quan Hongchan,
"I found that the full red Chan Liding long jump was particularly powerful,
She's only a meter tall,
But he jumped out of the 1.76 meter,
The bouncing force is very explosive. ”
So the school informed Quan Hongchan's father Quan Wenmao:
"Quan Hong chan was selected by the sports school,
Go practice diving,
Don't you guys agree? ”
Quanwen Mao said to the school:
"As long as the child is willing."
Of course, Quan Hong Chan is very willing,
In response to a reporter's question, she said:
"I just couldn't read the book, so I chose to dive."
The child is willing + the parents do not block,
In this way, he became a diving genius.
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Why middle-class and petty-bourgeois families,
Is the proportion of creative talent produced the lowest?
Because creative talent,
Mostly unconventional geniuses.
Rich families,
Because there's money,
So I won't force my child to die reading,
Don't worry about what will happen to children in the future when they "can't read",
They can hire the best teachers,
Let the child make all kinds of attempts,
Do not waste any of the child's talents,
If it is found that the child has some kind of unconventional talent,
It will cost money to develop this talent to the extreme.
This is the case with Gu Ailing.
And poor families,
Most parents read to their children,
In fact, there are not many expectations,
So they rarely have chicken babies.
They earn money very hard,
It is not easy to feed the child,
Therefore, there is no spare energy and leisure to discipline the child,
So some genius kids,
Instead, you can grow freely,
Burst out the unconventional talent.
This is the case with Quan Hong Chan.
Really full of chicken babies,
In fact, it is a middle-class family in the city and a petty bourgeois family.
Because I have a strong sense of crisis in my social class,
Feeling that your dreams have "ever been fulfilled/almost fulfilled",
The child must "reproduce/complete",
So I forced the child to die reading,
And it doesn't matter if the child is suitable or not.
If the child's reading grades are not good,
They criticize the child for not working hard enough.
Also the story of grinding a pestle into a needle to educate children.
It is precisely because of the full force of the child to take the road of reading,
So the child's unconventional talent in addition to reading,
All are forcibly ignored by them.
Why middle-class and petty bourgeois families,
Because of the child's unconventional talent,
They were all strangled by their parents.
08
Let's think about it:
If Quan Hong Chan was born in the city,
If Quan Hong Chan's parents are middle-class,
That 14-year-old Quan Hong chan,
Almost doomed not to become a world champion.
Because at the age of 14,
Under the pressure of my parents,
Brush questions every day,
Cram school every day.
Nor does he have the talent to read,
Even under the pressure of parents,
She can get into college,
Even admitted to 985/211,
But so what?
She is destined to become a very ordinary one among hundreds of millions of students,
Destined to become a very ordinary one among hundreds of millions of workers,
It will never be like this,
At the age of 14, he won the Olympic gold medal,
At the age of 14, he has become a national celebrity.
09
Why am I writing this?
I'm just trying to say:
A person's development and talent,
It's not just about reading.
In addition to reading,
In fact, there are still many ways to go.
So as a parent,
We should discover where our children's interests and talents lie.
As a general family,
Although we can't be like Gu Yan,
Have your child try it all.
But if you find that the child is really not the material for reading,
It is better to recognize the reality earlier,
to discover the child's other talents and guide them,
That's the way to go.
If the child has a strong love for something,
Then it is even more important to understand him and support him.
Don't stifle this hobby of your child,
And forcing children to learn what they are optimistic about.
Because of your children,
It is likely to be another all-red Chan.
The biggest misunderstanding of current family education,
It's just that children with different talents have to be brought in.
They all compete on the track of reading.
As a result, there are many full red chans,
They were all crushed into mud on the track of reading.
10
Before Quan Hong Chan touched the diving,
Is a "bad boy" who does not like to learn,
He is a "backward student" who does not know how to be motivated.
Before Li Ziqi touched "shooting videos",
It's a big idiot who can't get into college,
Is a very ordinary restaurant passer.
Before Li Jiaqi was exposed to live broadcasting,
is a "non-graduate" who dropped out of college,
Is an extremely ordinary cosmetics shopping guide.
But after they found their talents,
They have all become "geniuses".
The so-called "scum children",
In fact, many of them are misplaced "gems".
The biggest problem of Chinese-style family education,
It's that parents don't really care.
What kind of life does the child want to live,
They're more concerned,
Have your children lived the way they wanted them to?
Parents are always worried that their children are unhappy,
Don't ask the child to go according to his own ideas,
In fact, it is the root cause of children's unhappiness.