My boyfriend is in the same unit as me, and I am a very attentive person who loves life. High and low love the whole point of literature and art. At present, the contradiction is that I feel that he is good at cutting, and there is no sense of ceremony, and I can't stand it anymore. We were together for more than a year, and at the beginning the circle of friends never disclosed me (saying that I was afraid of not getting married in the future, I had quarreled before, and then we were bumped into by colleagues and held hands... Later I also want to open you do not send me also do not matter) can let me look at the phone, at present did not find cheating back about the like I look more fine. And he buys only a few gifts every day, never spends holidays with me, no such thoughts, our most daily thing is to eat (go out to eat, order takeaway and the like within 30 to 300) never bought me a bouquet of flowers from the florist... Or I offered to go to the flower wholesale market, and bought it here a few times. I liked to do something loving from the beginning, and in the end I didn't want to do it, nor did I want to ask him if he could change a little, tired really. This year's Valentine's Day we are in a different place, nothing sent me, Happy Valentine's Day wishes are not, the day before my birthday is also sent a red envelope. Nothing. His birthday was in front of me, I gave him a red envelope and he sent me back. I didn't want to send him on Valentine's Day, and I didn't bother to care. I asked him last time, do you have to think about spending money for me? "Not necessarily, most of the time is more rational, depending on the degree of demand, such as what is urgently needed is to think about it" can not be completely denied, last year I survived a little difficulty, without hesitation to pay for it is also him. But I'm really tired, a lot of such strange things, I don't want to give examples one by one, I really can't understand, I don't want to theorize, I don't want to ask why, I say I love me, but I really can't get along with it. I'm not a love brain, we're in the same unit, it's annoying. How do I say break up with him now?
Xiaosheng answered:
You are together, he also did not disclose you, why do you care about so many embarrassing things. Falling in love with the unit itself should think that such a situation will occur, then now that the problem has emerged and occurred, it is best to stop the loss in time. Whether it is for you or for him, you have reached this point, rather than continuing to be together two people are not comfortable, it is better to quickly solve the relationship and continue to get along as colleagues, but it is not so embarrassing.
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