It has only been 1 and a half months since I confirmed the relationship with my boyfriend, and now I have no more than 20 sentences of WeChat chat every day, and he said that he has to brush the question every day. We started to go away in half a month, at the beginning I took the initiative to look for him, and recently I was a Buddha, even if he looked for me, I would casually reply with a few words. I don't understand that I don't have much to talk about with him, but he and his elementary school classmates (he said he recognized someone as a sister) instead shared some daily life every three to five years. The chat history he would send me to show, it was a normal chat indeed, and both girls also had boyfriends, so I wouldn't suspect anything. I wonder if, while he'll give me gifts, he'll make me public, he'll show me chat history, and he'll even be willing to give me his Apple ID password, I just don't seem to feel the warm love. Should it be scored? Am I having a problem?
Xiaosheng answered:
The two of you have not been in love for a long time and have begun to be in a different place, in fact, the understanding and certainty of each other is not high. Judging from his behavior, he is at least defenseless against you, and as for saying less every day, on the one hand, he does have his own things to do, and on the other hand, because the two of you are not highly dependent on each other. Under such a foundation, the two people will naturally become more and more angry. If you want to continue to be with him, then openly discuss the impact of your current situation on each of you, and ask the two of you to discuss how to solve it. If you think so, then you should also make a judgment and don't let yourself continue to be affected by this matter.
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