Because the birthday is just a few days later, I thought that valentine's day don't go out to eat is not cost-effective, boyfriend said it is better to make steak at home, I bought a steak pot. So Happy Sam purchased steak and red wine, but also wanted to go to Ikea to buy steaks and forks and wine glasses (recently home decoration lived in Airbnb) after work boyfriend looked at the live map said too blocked don't go back and forth waste time, the door of the imported food supermarket will definitely have, but went to find that there is no time at this time has been more than 8 o'clock, the boyfriend said it is okay to call an errand to buy it quickly. Then when I got home, I found that he left the wrong mobile phone, and the courier did not open the steak pot when he did not send it today. He was a little embarrassed and said that it was better for us to go out to eat. I don't know if you can understand this feeling? It's like I'm always holding on to my feet temporarily, and I don't mind doing it myself at home, but I just can't feel the other person's intentions. Suddenly, it is a bit of a head, two years together, two Valentine's Day two birthdays, I set my own restaurant, I set my own cake, your role is to accompany me to buy a bill, your birthday which time I did not make a cake for you did not prepare in advance. Boyfriend is also on fire, so have you asked me if I like to eat omakase? (He booked Japanese food for both birthdays) Didn't you want to eat so you dragged me? Why don't you go with me to eat Chongqing hot pot? I retorted, because you said it didn't matter what to eat, then I decided on this one. What about making you a cake? Is it also myself that I like to do so by the way to do it for you? He said, I think yes, I don't like cake either. When I heard it, I felt very angry that this person could not communicate, and I was simply kind as a donkey liver lung. After thinking about it for a night, did he think that what he said made some sense? Am I the kind of person who doesn't care what the other person likes and just takes it for granted that I stuff what I think is good? A bit distressed.
Xiaosheng answered:
You really don't care if others like it or not, hard fortress past, and feel like you've spent your mind. To put it another way, it's self-touching. As for him, in your opinion, he did not have the heart to hold on to the Buddha's feet temporarily, but in fact, he is also actively preparing, just because something went wrong, making you feel as if he was not so attentive. Neither of you understands each other's sincerity, but he's not complaining, you're complaining. You complained that he felt that he also had grievances, but he didn't tell you, why do you want to go online like this? So do you understand that what you lack between you is not the heart that you love each other or not, but the lack of communication. You don't know what the other person really wants, and that's the result of the congestion.
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