Parents should agree with their children the rules of playing the game, and do not turn the game into an enemy of the body, vision and learning. But it should be noted that it is an agreement, not a regulation, nor a formulation, and the agreement is a two-way communication, not a unilateral decision by parents. The agreement is mainly divided into four aspects, which game to play? When to play? How long do you play each time? What if I don't follow the agreement?
First of all, which game to play? Our country has no rating system for games, the online environment is not safe, and violent and pornographic games must not be played by children.
Secondly, when to play? If the child knows that the homework is to be done and the game is to be played, it is okay for him to arrange which one is to be done first. But if the homework is not completed or sloppily completed because the game is scheduled first, the parents can propose: Why is this result happening? Is there a problem with the order of the arrangements or is there something else? The rules are not unadjudicable, and if there is a problem, it must be adjusted and improved.
Again, how long do you play each time? There is no absolute standard for the length of time, which is related to the age of the child, the level of schooling and the amount of spare time, but for visual health, at least half an hour is a break.
Finally, what if the agreement is breached? We recommend that we firmly enforce the rules, say that an hour is an hour, and when the point is reached, sorry, it is the agreement first, and we must abide by our common agreement. Some parents say that he has played more, then deduct from tomorrow's time, it is not impossible, each family has its own agreement, but there must be a key: do not compromise in the face of the agreement, to insist.
In fact, the child will soon understand the parents' insistence, and may not be happy at first, but it will soon be able to adjust. We must allow the child to have his own emotions, do not say words of criticism of him, firm and at the same time simply say no, such a method parents may as well try, I hope to help you solve the puzzle!
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