Right now. Parents pay more and more attention to their children's learning problems, in order to create a good learning environment for their children, many parents do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy school district houses for their children, and some parents will even have the heart to observe the friends made by their children.
Parents have a concept, that is, with whom to learn what it is, so parents are very afraid of their children and poor learning classmates to make friends, parents feel that this will affect their children's academic performance, so many parents will secretly observe their children and his partner chat records.
In fact, parents are also doing this for the good of their children, after all, the child is still young, lack of judgment, if you make friends with classmates who are not learning well, then it is likely to affect their children's learning. Parents peek at their children's chat history in order to be able to find out the mistakes made by their children in a timely manner, so that they can be corrected in time.
Such an educational method may still be used when the child is very young, but when the child grows up a little, this method of education will be resisted by the child. Because with age, the child will have his own small world, he does not want his parents to enter his small world.
When encountering some things in school, they don't all talk to their parents, so parents start to be anxious, so they start to find ways to understand the current situation of their children. In order not to let parents know their little secrets, children play "little clever".
In order to prevent the mother from peeking at the chat history, the primary school students chatted in "English" throughout the whole process
Now the network is very developed, primary school students and their friends chat have begun to use chat software, they chat with their friends online to maintain their friendship, but for primary school students, there is not enough self-control, mobile phones often become a tool that hinders them from learning well.
Therefore, in order to prevent their children from indulging in mobile phones, many parents will stipulate the time to use mobile phones, and will also keep mobile phones for their children, and parents will also do this for the sake of their children's learning.
Parents keep their mobile phones for their children, you can view the children's chat history, so that you can find some of the child's small secrets, but in order to avoid parents to discover their own small secrets, primary school students began to fight with parents. However, as the saying goes, "ginger is still old and spicy". No matter what means the children use, they will be cracked by the parents one by one.
Recently, a mother secretly checked her child's chat history, but found that it was all English, the mother knew that the child did this to prevent their own peeping, and now the parents' education level is not very high, and they basically did not learn English when they were studying.
Therefore, the child seized this weakness of the mother, so he began to learn English, and then he could finally chat with his little friend in English, and when the primary school student confidently handed the mobile phone to his mother, he did not expect that this could not be difficult for the omnipotent mother.
Although this primary school student practiced English hard to prevent his mother from peeking, although his mother's English level was not high, it was more than enough for primary school English. When the mother saw the child's operation, she began to complain about her son. But netizens began to complain about this mother: WeChat has a translation function.
It is normal for parents to know their children, but pay attention to the way
In the process of children's growth, there will certainly be some difficulties, if parents can not be timely guidance, children are likely to learn badly, so parents in order to prevent their children in the growth process of detours, will understand the child's personal life.
Parents' starting point is right, but in the process of understanding their children, we must pay attention to the way we understand our children. If the method is not correct, it is likely to bring psychological distress to the child, which will affect the child's learning. Parents must pay attention to protecting their children's privacy and leaving some private space for their children in the process of understanding their children.
If parents ignore their children's privacy and leave no private space for their children, it is likely to cause the child's rebellious psychology, and even lead to the child will never trust his parents again.