I will miss you and remember to follow me at the top
Author: Seven Seven
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In fact, in our real life, we will always be called by the people around us with a variety of different titles, some call themselves in their hearts feel very like, but also quite good, the other party uses this title to call themselves, let themselves listen to very happy, but also close the distance between the two of you, increase the feelings between the two people.
However, some titles are very unreasonable, because ta makes you feel very uncomfortable, of course, it is very difficult to hear, and the most important thing is that it will hurt your self-esteem and leave a bad impression on this person.
Therefore, everyone must pay attention when giving other people a name, do not take any title, do not call any name, some of the titles may feel good themselves, but the other party may not like it, and even feel very disgusted!
Especially in the process of interpersonal communication, male friends for female friends to call, often the two people in the heart to establish the first impression of the starting point, if at the beginning you use the wrong name for female friends, in fact, it can be said that it is like "out of the teacher unfavorable", but also let the other party to the man disgusted, and even in the heart of the man to leave a bad impression.
Imagine if the initial acquaintance of the two of you did not have a good start, but also meant that the interaction between the two sides did not get a good starting point, then the male friend wanted to pursue the woman's business halfway, wanted to get the woman's heart, the love field is like half the failure.
Even if the male friends try to save the relationship with the female friends later, it may be that there is no effect, and in the end it is just useless. Generally speaking, female friends are more disgusted with the following 4 titles, male friends can remember, then do not hit the muzzle of the gun!
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Big sister or aunt
Seriously, any woman in the world is good, as long as the other party is a woman, there is no one who does not love youth, does not love beauty, and of course, I hope that I will always be only eighteen years old, always young, always beautiful. If a man does not know the actual age of a woman, or if a woman is only a few years older than a man, a man simply calls a woman a big sister or aunt.
Even if women will not say anything ugly to men on their lips, in fact, women may have scolded men in their hearts to the point of bloodshed, and have long unloaded eight pieces of men to vent their anger, and even in their hearts they want to scold men in person: "You are only old, your sister is still young, you think how tender you are, your eyes are not good but you are sick, don't give up treatment."
Housekeeper
Whether in love or marriage, men should never call a woman a "housekeeper", because this will make women feel very unhappy to hear, and they will feel that men are not abandoning themselves, feeling that they are nosy, not caring about men, and not taking their own words to men seriously.
A title like "housekeeper" will only make female friends feel that men are disgusted with themselves and are disrespecting themselves, so male friends should know how to always pay attention to their words and deeds, in the face of a woman who cares about herself and has done so many things for herself, you should know how to remind yourself all the time, what is called the measure and the bottom line.
If you always call women like this, always do not care about women's feelings, always blindly enjoy each other's efforts but do not know how to cherish them, but also dislike women to manage the east and west, dislike women too many things, then it will only ruin women's feelings for men, then men will sooner or later feel extremely sorry because of the loss of a good woman who truly loves himself and cares about himself.
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Miss
In fact, in real life, many women will dislike the title of "Miss", the reason must be that each of us knows that this title is really not a good title, there is another layer of meaning, you should all understand it, and it sounds really strange, so if men use this title to call women, then the result is naturally self-evident.
Remember, don't directly call a woman "Miss", especially when the two of you meet for the first time, there may be many men because they don't know how to call women, which leads to their own urgency to use the title of "Miss" to women, but do not know that the title of "Miss" is not pleasing at all, and even make them feel disgusted with men.
So you male friends, do not use this title to call women, perhaps men themselves feel that it is just a title, and there is no malice, why can not be called, but after female friends hear, they will feel that men do not respect themselves, the heart is very easy to have opinions about men, in order to avoid causing misunderstanding of women, you still do not casually use the title of "Miss" to call women.
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Little princess
Some men may feel that calling women "little princesses" is a very good and pleasing title, but in fact, it is not so for female friends, women may think that men call themselves this way, is not saying that they are willful, not sensible enough, not reasonable enough, and even a little "princess disease", so many women do not like to have the opposite sex to call themselves.
So, male friends, if you like a woman, want to pursue women, want to make each other happy, have a good feeling for yourself, then usually in the process of two people in contact, you must pay attention to your own name for women, it is best not to use the title of "little princess" to call women, otherwise the consequences you know, not only will make the other party unhappy, but also will leave a bad impression on yourself for no reason, why should it be so, right?
The famous great writer Shakespeare once said: "Men fall in love with their eyes, and women fall in love with their ears." ”
Deeply believed, like "dear", "little cute", "little fool" these are more pleasant and fleshy titles, male friends call female friends countless times a day, they will not be angry and mind. Because they like to hear this call in their hearts, and every time a male friend calls himself this way, the female friend will smile at the man.
And like "big sister", "aunt", "miss", "little princess", these are their more disgusting and taboo titles, even if male friends want to call each other, they must not call out. After all, in the relationship, female friends and male friends are not the same, they are very easy to think a lot, but also because of these names of men to themselves, resulting in insomnia and sleep, and even serious, will also leave a bad impression on male friends, but also disgusted with male friends, directly disgusted with you.
If female friends always think more, then they will not love male friends, and they will not pay so much to male friends, and once the days are long, the feelings between the two people will fade and become shallow, and the two of you will become strangers who have no relationship.
Therefore, when male friends get along with female friends, you must have a long snack, be careful, don't always want to say anything, just say anything, how to call ta, how to call ta. Don't want to end the relationship between the two of you in advance, if you want to develop the relationship between each other well, you must know how to think more from the perspective of ta, and you must know how to manage it with your heart!
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