The school is about to start, parents and teachers cooperate well, and children cry less when they return to the kindergarten

Why do children always like to "cry" at the beginning of the new semester? What is the "back-to-school syndrome"? Parents and teachers quickly cooperate to let the children say goodbye to discomfort and start the new semester healthy and happy.

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What is "Back to School Syndrome"?

At the beginning of the school year at the end of the holidays, the children show a non-organic pathological manifestation that is clearly not suitable for the new semester's learning and life, which psychologists call "school start syndrome".

Kindergarten children are in a period of rapid development, young and weak, immature brain structure, after a holiday of relaxation, the change of living habits is more likely to make them encounter "school start syndrome". Children often use "crying" to express their psychological resistance and physical discomfort.

At this time, parents and teachers should fully cooperate, stand together from the perspective of children, understand and acknowledge their uneasiness about the unfamiliar environment, give children full encouragement and comfort, and let children welcome the arrival of the new semester in a healthy and sunny way.

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How should teachers and parents cooperate?

Coordination 1: Share the child's negative emotions

The teacher does this:

Communicate with your child in advance

While informing parents of the precautions for the new semester, they also communicate with the child on a separate telephone to talk about the child's nervous worries about the new semester, praise the child's performance in the previous semester, encourage the child to improve, and enhance the relationship with the child.

Comfort the child, but not send it home

"Children cry and take them home" is taboo. Don't let your child have the idea of "I can go home if I cry", and lengthen his adaptation period.

Communicate with parents about their children's situation in a timely manner

In the new semester, children come to the kindergarten with excitement and nervousness about environmental changes, and teachers need each child to pay more attention, communicate and talk with children who are not in a good state in time, and spend more time doing parental communication work, while adjusting the child's state, establish trust with parents and children.

Parents do this:

Recognize your child's separation anxiety

Children resist going to kindergarten, often reluctant to leave their parents, indicating that the parent-child relationship is good, the child is very trusting of the parents, therefore, do not blindly emphasize that the kindergarten is very fun, and deny the child's feelings, should acknowledge the child's uneasiness about the new environment, and encourage the child to face.

Reminisce about kindergarten life together

No longer mention the scene of leisure and entertainment during the holiday, and recall the life scene of the kindergarten with the child, such as the favorite game, the favorite teacher, etc., to arouse the child's yearning for the kindergarten life.

Cultivate good interpersonal relationships in children

Let the child contact the teacher and classmates with good feelings by phone, express "the teacher and the parents are good friends" in front of the child, enhance the trust between teachers and students, and let the child regard the teacher as a friend.

Don't say bad things about kindergarten, and don't be afraid of children being bullied and teach children to learn to 'tit for tat'", which will increase the psychological burden of children entering the kindergarten and affect the cultivation of interpersonal relationships between children.

Cooperate with two: jointly restore the child's living habits

Kindergarten schedules are available

In advance, parents are allowed to obtain the standard schedule of kindergarten, including the plan of one-day activities such as children's meals, sleep, games, and learning, and give children time to gradually adapt before the start of school.

Relieve your child's strangeness

Have your child bring a favorite item to the kindergarten. It can be a small towel, a small toy, or even a photo with parents, sharing the feelings contained in the item with the child.

Ending "Premium Treatment"

During the holidays, the "special treatment" of "food to open the mouth, clothes to reach out" has caused the child to become inert, and now from now on, it is necessary to consciously train and consolidate the child's self-care behavior! Such as eating with a spoon, eating without playing, drinking water from a cup, washing hands and wiping mouths, putting on and taking off shoes and socks by yourself, and so on.

Teach your child to express needs

To start a happy life in kindergarten, we must first teach children to express their wishes more clearly, such as: I am hungry, I am hot, I want to drink water, I am uncomfortable, I want small (large) poop, etc., you can use scenario simulation and role play, and children practice to boldly tell the teacher about their needs.

Refer to kindergarten routines

Refer to the work and rest time in the park, formulate a scientific schedule for the child, let the child go to bed early and get up early, take a nap at noon, time the lunch is quantitative, etc., and insist on implementation, so that the child can adjust the work and rest habits as soon as possible, so that the child is easier to adapt to the collective life of the kindergarten after the school starts.

Cooperation 3: Jointly ensure the health and happiness of children in the new semester

Encourage the child in the ring trauma

The new semester means that the child has grown up again, and the encouragement for growth is reflected everywhere in the ring creation! Use a creative height scale to measure your child's height; "I've grown up!" "Welcome home!" "My progress!" "And so on, the theme of the ring will definitely make the child feel happy.

Prepare small gifts for children

Children's anxiety comes from the uncertainty of the unfamiliar environment, and they prepare a welcome gift for the child for the new semester, so that the child feels the warmth of the kindergarten and the love of the teacher.

Lower the fire for your child

In the early stage of entering the kindergarten, many children will be on fire due to anxiety, and even cry to hoarseness, parents should pay attention to adjusting their children's diet in advance, easy to light nutrition, improve immunity, while allowing children to drink more water, boil some heat and fire soup.

Buy new stationery

Prepare school supplies in advance, go shopping with your children, let your children choose their favorite color pens, small school bags and other essential products, in the process can also increase children's expectations for school.

Pack your school bag with your child, help him learn to organize things, and remember to put some practical personal items such as small hand towels, water bottles, etc. In particular, pay attention to cutting your children's nails before school starts, and do not let your children bring small items into the kindergarten to avoid danger.

Do a good job in the above three cooperation, so that parents and teachers can use understanding, sincerity and trust to jointly create a good start for their children! Take action now!

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