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"Do you believe in the Light?" I believe that most boys will say the affirmative answer, this Internet buzzword comes from "Diga Ultraman", the so-called light refers to "Ultraman".
Of course, we know that Diga Ultraman is a fiction, and defeating monsters and rescuing humans is just a beautiful story, but such a non-existent character has become a heroic dream in the hearts of countless boys.
The boy loves Ultraman and gathers the Ultraman family
Netizens posted a video with a copy called "Children's Annual Summary", and the video was full of Ultraman. Ultramans of all sizes and sizes are neatly arranged on sofas, TV cabinets, coffee tables and floors.
Netizens who saw the video could not help but leave a message: Ultraman's ancestors have all been eighteen generations. This video is simply the childhood dream of all boys, who wouldn't want to own a room of Ultraman?
It sounds ridiculous, but almost every child has a dream of becoming a hero when they are young, especially boys, Spider-Man, Ultraman, and Captain America have been regarded as idols by boys, why do these non-existent characters have such great power?
Why do boys like Ultraman toys?
Most boys crave control and power
Unlike the quiet sweetness of girls, boys are active in their bones, and the male hormones in their bodies are even more surging like a dark tide to promote their pursuit of strength. Ultraman is as tall as a building, and it is the embodiment of justice, and in the eyes of children, Ultraman is the perfect character.
From a psychological point of view, Ultraman's salvation and control of the world invisibly attracts children, and that kind of strength and absolute king style is what every boy dreams of.
And Ultraman, like other heroic characters, has a fighting aggressive nature, which is why boys prefer Ultraman to girls, and hormones in the body are also at work.
Heroes can satisfy a child's sense of accomplishment
Children will pursue idols according to their psychological state and preferences around the age of 3, and while worshiping idols, they will build their own personality forms.
Especially in the game, boys like to play Ultraman, as if they have become heroes, defeating monsters and saving humans, and this sense of identity can enhance their confidence and sense of accomplishment.
I like Ultraman not only because he is a hero, but also because of his responsibility, bravery, and great love, which are also attractive to children. Therefore, when the child has an unrealistic heroic dream, parents should not rush to deny and ridicule, and the potential in the child's bones may be stimulated at any time.
However, there is one thing that parents need to pay attention to, it is good to have heroes in their hearts, but we cannot blindly worship and imitate heroes. A survey by the American Psychological Association shows that the great scenes of heroes of the century who did good deeds and saved humanity also risked teaching bad boys.
Because children have not yet formed a correct concept, all that can be remembered for the fight scene may be violence, and it is difficult to remember the storyline clearly, which may sow the seeds of violence for the child.
Blind imitation and worship of the behavior of heroes in film and television works or cartoons will bury dangers and hidden dangers for children. But parents cannot completely deny their children's heroic complex.
Make good use of your child's heroic complex and promote your child to be better
Create a relaxed and healthy growth environment for children
Hero complex is related to the child's environment, if because of interpersonal relationships, learning and other issues, let the child have psychological pressure, then the hero complex in the heart may bring negative guidance.
But if parents create a relaxed and happy growth environment for their children and release pressure reasonably, they can avoid the hero complex from becoming negative pressure.
Timely guidance and education of children
Heroes often appear in war, that is to say, all heroes have violent behaviors or tendencies, that parents need to pay attention to guiding their children in time when watching such film and television works with their children, and make a correct distinction between the heroes' violent behavior, rather than blindly imitating.
Let children know more heroes who exist in reality
In addition to the virtual heroes who slay demons and save mankind in film and television works, there are many heroes who dedicate themselves to the country and the people in real life, such as Grandpa Yuan who feeds all mankind, Tu Yo Yo, who keeps children away from diseases, and firefighters who stubbornly resist natural and man-made disasters... The actions and spirit of these heroes are also worth learning from children.
The hero complex is like a seed, at any time will erupt infinite energy, reasonable guidance can make children make a achievement, parents also have to do through their own guidance, let the child become their ideal superhero.