The second day of the Chinese New Year is the time for the whole family to celebrate the Spring Festival. A four-family, three-group sister-in-law, caused a sister-in-law war, not only called to attract 110. Several others were also pulled away by 120. There was a wave of heated discussion in our village.
Old Mrs. Liu has three daughters and a son, and all three daughters are married. The son also married and became a family. The old lady has been bedridden for several years because of cerebral thrombosis, and has been taking turns to take care of her three daughters. Most of the time the old lady spends at her daughter's house.
But according to our custom, when the New Year comes, the old man should go back to his home for the New Year, and the house that this son gave to the old man is really broken, or the house built with mud decades ago. It's a bit shaky from the outside. It is often heavy rain outside. It's raining a little inside. The daughters had no choice but to set up a simple tent above the old man's bed with plastic sheets. In this way, at least the place where the old man sleeps is not soaked in water. This is also one reason why the daughter does not let the elderly live at home.
Chinese New Year's Eve night, this girl from this village took care of her mother After dinner and making the old man's bed, she said to his brother, "You take good care of your mother tomorrow, tomorrow is the first day of the Chinese New Year, and we are not convenient to come over." By the second year of junior high school, I got up in the morning and came over. The brother nodded yes. The daughter returned to her own home.
According to our rules here, a married daughter should not return to her mother's house on the first day of the Chinese New Year.
On the morning of the second day of junior high school, as soon as this daughter opened her eyes, she came to see her mother. Lifting the mother's quilt, the daughter couldn't help but cry, it turned out that the mother's body had been soaked with urine, and the stool was sticky everywhere.
The daughter called her husband, who came over and helped her get her hygiene done for her mother.
The daughter was really angry, so she asked his brother and sister-in-law to theorize a few words, and the words did not speculate and began to fight. At this moment, the old lady's daughter-in-law's family was also from the village, and the nephew happened to come to pay homage to his aunt, and when he saw this scene, he immediately gave it to his father, that is, his son's brother-in-law, and rushed over a few minutes later.
After this brother-in-law came over, he did not ask questions, whether it was his sister's fault or not, and helped his sister beat the old lady's daughter and son-in-law.
Sometimes it is really not a coincidence that the son-in-law's sister also married into the village, and the son-in-law called his nephew. The nephew came to help his uncle fight too.
The final outcome is definitely a lose-lose situation. The onlookers saw that this was all a village of kinship, and the number of people was so large, that persuasion did not work at all. Had to hit 110.
Although the matter has passed, I think that such a thing can be avoided at all.
As a son, the daughter has taken care of the mother for so long, and the son and the daughter-in-law have only taken care of it for a day Is it really so difficult? Let the old man suffer so much.
The son-in-law and the daughter know that the son and the daughter-in-law themselves are not filial piety, so what role does it play in the theory with them?
If the eldest brother-in-law of the son Honmura came over and sorted things out, persuaded each other to put the battle down for him, and what happened later?
The son-in-law's nephew is also from a village, and after coming over, he did not persuade him to fight, but helped fight. It is a family affair, why should he intervene?
A small village of only a few thousand people has turned these four families into enemies, so how will they talk when they meet in the future?
Seeing this, do you still let your daughter marry into this village?