After asking my husband to pay back the money of my mother's family yesterday, he told me in the evening that he would pay it back, and then the two of us fell into a cold war, one night no one spoke, and the next day his friend asked to take the old man with him

Yesterday with my husband to return the money of the mother's family, in the evening he told me that he would pay back, and then the two of us fell into the cold war, one night no one spoke, the next day his friend about to take his wife and children ski to eat or something, because they are all things that were set before, it is not easy to shirk, how to say it, is the whole process of participation, but the whole process of thinking is not there, feel that there is already a gap between the two sides, how to say it, is that kind of invisible, now just want to pay back the parents 200,000 as soon as possible, That 100,000 I am ready to fill in some money to buy a house for my parents in my hometown, sometimes I need to do it according to this, otherwise after a long time, I can only poke open the scar deeper and deeper, and cannot be healed