Text/An Dongyue
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They are wandering in the world, just waiting for the most beautiful encounter of their lives. —— "You're my best encounter"
01.
Life is one encounter after another, and all encounters are the arrangement of fate and the destiny of fate.
Encounter is fate, and there is a depth of fate. However, no matter how deep or shallow, it has its own unique significance.
Some encounters, amazing time.
Some encounters, gentle years.
Some encounters soothe the loneliness.
Some encounters enrich the soul.
Most people are very emotional, often sighing for the gathering and dispersion, and sentimental for the cold and warm of the world. In the face of certain people and certain things, they always can't let go, can't see, inner entanglement, contradictions, and pain.
Some readers left a message saying that between her and him, the fate is too shallow, although they have feelings for each other, they are at the wrong time, they can never be together, and they can only get along in an awkward identity. Many times, she is not willing, why does fate have to arrange it this way?
In fact, many people in the world have the same confusion. Obviously, the two hearts know each other, but there are thousands of rivers and mountains between them. Even standing face to face under the same sky, it is still out of reach.
Maybe it was once missed, and when they were reunited, they were already human and could not go back.
Maybe it's too late to meet, and no one is qualified to follow their hearts and love wantonly.
In this life, it can only become the biggest regret in each other's lives...
02.
Different life stages will have different encounters. Different encounters give themselves different feelings.
When I was young, just a back shadow became the most beautiful scenery in my eyes.
That simple yearning, that pure love, looking back on it many years later, still feels very beautiful.
If you didn't meet them in the first place, how could you have good memories later? Without such good memories, how boring should life be?
A friend, while studying, met a girl who made him particularly excited. They weren't the same major, they just met very accidentally in the same car.
Because of her, he believed for the first time that there really was such a thing as love at first sight.
Unfortunately, the person who fell in love at first sight was him, just him, and she didn't have any good feelings for him.
He made a lot of effort to chase her. For example, after the evening self-study, the first time to run to the intersection she must pass, just to see her, to say a few words to her; help her line up for hot water; when she has a cold, take the initiative to buy her medicine and send it to the classroom door; ask her out shopping on weekends; send her roses in public; write lyrics for her; ask her to take a group photo...
However, she was always rejecting him, rejecting him, not giving him any hope. After graduation, she broke off contact with him. He had looked for her, looked for a long time, and when he contacted her again, she already had a boyfriend. He finally died and stopped demanding.
She was his love and could not be loved, and it was also the eternal white moonlight in his heart.
The encounter is a fate, but it is too shallow. But he did not regret meeting her, she was a bright color in his youthful memory, unforgettable.
03.
After half a lifetime, you will understand that all encounters in the world are the gifts of fate.
It is precisely because of those encounters that you have a colorful life.
It is precisely because of those encounters that when you look back on the past, your heart is full and your feelings are deep.
Although there are many unspeakable pains in those dappled memories, after the passage of time, you are still full of nostalgia for the past.
We often say one thing: Grateful to meet.
Why be thankful to meet? Because, meeting is a cause, no matter how deep or shallow, it will leave you with something, or let you understand something.
Meet, let you grow, let you mature.
Meet, let you live in vain in this life.
Be grateful to meet and cherish what you have. The past, present, and future are all indispensable to life. If there is no past encounter, how can there be everything in the present; everything encountered now will become a memory in the future.
Encounter is fate, do not ask the depth. At least at the moment of encounter, the heart fluttered. At least for the time I had, I was happy. How to develop later, is providence, no one can change, the only thing we can do, but two words: follow fate.
May you calmly face the dust of the world, cherish when you meet, and look down on you when you lose. Only in this way can we live an easy life, live freely, and live a happy and peaceful life.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, with warm brushstrokes, writes heartfelt words, and is willing to meet you in the deepest red dust. Welcome to follow.