A few days ago, I saw a hot search article "The most controversial president of Peking University Affiliated Middle School leaves class: is it a hero, or a sinner?" 》。
Wang Zhen was formerly the principal of Shenzhen Middle School. After eight years in office, he came to Peking University High School as president. 12 years later. He was dismissed.
On December 14 last year, a notice of dismissal was published on the "Intramural Announcement" section of Peking University's official website: "The school has decided to dismiss Wang Zheng from the post of principal of the secondary school affiliated to Peking University." ”
When Wang Zhen was the president of Peking University Affiliated High School, he continued his reforms in Shenzhen: the implementation of the shift system, the tutor system, the establishment of four colleges, eight colleges, student autonomy, encourage students to actively participate in clubs, allow students to fall in love, allow students to bring electronic products into the campus, you can play games in school...
This series of measures that sound very "experimental" at Peking University High School have made it seem quite unique and have also caused great controversy.
Some people have great respect for Wang Zheng, and the students affectionately call him "Brother Zheng", calling Peking University Affiliated High School "Great Mud Bay Magic School", believing that it is the "Hogwarts" in reality, and many students do not regret their original choice even if the college entrance examination is not ideal.
Some people also regard it as a heresy, believing that the "flashy" reform has caused the performance of Peking University High School to decline year after year, almost falling out of Haidian Liuqiang, delaying many outstanding children, and even many parents strongly demand that he be removed from his position as principal.
This is a rare attempt at basic education in China.
The results of the matter can only be left to others, to time, and to history to comment.
In this news, in addition to the students being able to play games with mobile phones and electronic products at school, the most surprising thing to me is that they can love freely.
In fact, I am not against free love, and I am not against early love. But if my child goes astray because of early love. Then my heart will be painful, because life is only once.
On the question of whether middle school students should fall in love, as early as a few decades ago, when readers were confused and wrote to consult Xie Bingying, she gave a clear answer.
Falling in love also depends on the object.
This reader is a smart child that Xie Bingying knows. But she doesn't recommend that she fall in love early. Because the variability of early love is really too big, the risk to bear is also very large.
Especially in adolescence, in such a critical reading age, we have no time to waste and cannot afford to pay such a painful price.
In Xie Bingying's reply, she told a true story.
At that time, an 18-year-old girl who did not graduate from the girls' middle school became a little third who was spurned by everyone because she fell in love with her husband. In the end, it tired his own family, and his parents were tired.
Read such a reply. After watching "Green Window Message", I can't imagine that what happened in Taiwan a few decades ago can also reflect the current society.
Xie Bingying's wisdom can also come to us through history to teach us, how to cope with life?
Xie Bingying, a nice name. A cheerful and enthusiastic Hunan girl.
Although Xie Bingying, a great female writer, has left us, her words still accompany us.
Xie Bingying (September 5, 1906 – January 5, 2000), formerly known as Xie Minggang and Fengbao, was born in Duoshan Town, Xinhua County, Hunan Province (now part of Lengshuijiang City), and began publishing works in 1921.
Among the writers of the "May Fourth" period, her life and creative path were the most magnificent and bumpy, and the one who was most closely linked to China's destiny.
She was the first female soldier in China's modern history and the first female soldier writer in Chinese history.
According to incomplete statistics, Xie Bingying published more than 80 kinds of novels, essays, travelogues, letters and other works in her lifetime, nearly 400 works, and the total number reached. More than 20 million words.
Representative works include "Autobiography of Female Soldiers", which has been translated into more than 10 languages such as English and Japanese, and has been circulated in the world.
This "Message from the Green Window" can be said to be one of Xie Bingying's most popular collections of essays.
Because this collection of essays does not have sad autumn and sorrow, there is no disease-free groaning, there are real problems and doubts that each of us will encounter.
In this book, dozens of letters exchanged between the author and the reader's friends are included.
The themes of these letters include ways for young people to go out, such as love, divorce, and feelings, how to answer how to write, how to read, how to talk about ideals in life, how to live each day well, and unique insights into the world's classic masterpieces.
Xie Bingying is an independent woman, although her lifelong emotional road is relatively bumpy, but she has experienced three relationships in her life.
But she is still an independent and idealistic woman, not attached to anyone, not attached to the times, and living her own style.
Arranged marriages by parents were popular back in their time.
But Xie Bingying was not willing to do so, but could not escape her mother's grinding claws, and could only marry the blind date.
But she waged a revolt of power.
After talking to her titular husband for several days and nights, the other party was finally persuaded, and she was free.
Later, after the war years, she and true love were eventually separated by the times. In desperation, the other party married her, and she was forced to leave.
But no matter what she experienced, no matter how devastated the times were, she still insisted on her original intention.
In a letter replying to the divorce, her best little sister.
Middle-aged and betrayed by her husband, she wants to end her life or escape into the empty door.
While Xie Bingying sympathized with pity, she also looked like she hated iron not steel.
She advised her that your bad environment symbolizes the light of your future. You should understand the true meaning of life, not for the individual, but for the society. You are suffering misfortunes, of course, deserve sympathy, but you should open your eyes, look around you, find out those who are more bitter than you, more worthy of sympathy to compare yourself, why they can survive, why they can endure such pain, why they can struggle and I can't.
No matter how hard it is, you have to struggle to survive. Why, you ask me? The reason is simple, we live not for individuals, but for society.
This is Xie Bingying's sincere words, and it is also a portrayal of her life.
Even after experiencing a hard and difficult life, she survived, not for personal happiness, but for the happiness of the whole society.
It is precisely because there are female soldiers like Xie Bingying, and it is precisely because of female soldiers like Xie Bingying who are struggling with the whole human race, that we have the happiness and well-being of our current society.
In "Green Window Message", Xie Bingying replied to the reader's confusion and bitterness in great detail.
But she also honestly pointed out the bitterness of the present youth, many of which are disease-free groans.
Always keep in mind the mission in mind.
Young friends should always think of such a good life, study hard, and be a national warrior who stands tall against the sky and strives for turbulence.
Although the background of each era is different, the problems encountered by young people in each era are similar.
Xie Bingying's words are also a respectful teaching for the youth of our time. It's something to keep in mind.
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