1. Guide your child to recognize the right behavior
Children are very interesting, they often do things out of a trial mentality, and do not think too much, let alone think about right and wrong. When your child reacts or acts correctly to something, be sure to give it recognition in a timely manner. If you see other children doing the right things, you should also discuss them with your child and affirm the correct approach. When the child does something wrong (unintentional), the parent does not have to be strongly criticized, only tell the child whether it is right or wrong, and then discuss with the child to form the right practice, and if conditions permit, the parent does a correct demonstration.
2. Seek role models and rivals for your child
If the child has an example in mind, he must have a role model and a goal. If there is no role model, it does not matter, discuss with the child, look for the role model in your mind, further guide the child to become that kind of person, and cultivate yourself with the valuable character and excellent skills of the role model. The same goes for the method of seeking an opponent. The purpose of seeking opponents is to find partners with equal ability and can motivate each other to make progress together, and never to evolve into a comparison. If the child really does not want to find an opponent, take yesterday's self as an opponent.
3. Boring things are expressed in the language of image humor
Before boring tasks that have to be done well (such as homework, exams), preaching and chicken babies can play a certain role, but it is easy to bring too much pressure to children, resulting in fear of difficulties. At this time, you can change the angle and communicate with the child with humorous and naughty language. For example: "At the end of the term, how many pounds of homework are you ready to do today?" "Come on for the exam, Mommy added chicken legs to you!" "Your handwriting is eye-catching, how can I praise you?" This kind of ridiculous-sounding words is easier for children to remember.