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In general, people and society tend to criticize the ladies who value and pursue material things more, and some even call them "gold worship", marrying money rather than love. To be honest, such women are really not a minority. Sometimes they can't be blamed, it's the society, and the various demands of their parents, that make them have to do so.
If a girl does not worship gold, pay attention to the spiritual level of the other party in love, such as whether to be self-motivated, how big the future is, etc., people will think that this girl is good, thinking that they are married to love.
So the question is: will the woman who pursues the spirit really get pure love? Will you really be happy? We are not in a hurry to answer this question. Let's start with a real-world case.
This case is the case of two young children in Chongqing who fell from a building in November 2020.
Two young children fell from the building, and the father of the child was deeply sad at the scene
In early November 2020, a video of a man crying went viral in the circle of friends. The video shows that on November 2, on the ground in the Huafu community of Jinjiang, Chongqing, a man cried in front of the bodies of two children (one of whom had lost his breath on the spot; the other was dying and died after rescue was ineffective).
"They all blame me for my negligence, for not taking good care of you and letting you fall from the stairs!" The man was barefoot, crying and rolling, completely disregarding his personal image.
Everyone present sighed. It turned out that after the man heard the dull crashing sound, he panicked so much that he couldn't even put on his shoes and came down.
People soon learned that the crying man was called Zhang Bo. A pair of children on earth are his children.
However, soon after, Zhang Bo was controlled by the police because he was suspected of murder. Also controlled together is Zhang Bo's girlfriend Ye Chengchen.
Wait, people who are fathers of two children should have wives, how can they still have girlfriends? Reading this, some readers may have doubts. That's because long before the accident of the two children, Zhang Bo had divorced Chen Meilin, the mother of two children.
Zhang Ye group photo
Marriage of the spirit of the city and the son of the rural man
I have to explain the background of the two people.
Chen Meilin, a native of Chongqing, whose mother has retired, worked in research and development at a major automobile company before retiring, and her father is a logistics manager at a state-owned enterprise.
Chen Meilin's education is a junior college.
Compared with Chen Meilin, Zhang Bo was "frustrated" to the end: his home was in a village called Fengzhuang Village in Gelan Town, below the Changshou District of Chongqing In the Far City of Chongqing. This place was probably unheard of before Chen Meilin knew him. It is about 100 kilometers away from the main city of Chongqing, which is just in time for the distance from Beijing to Tianjin. At that time, his father had died, and his mother was also doing manual work as a casual worker.
Zhang Bo's education is even lower than the unbelievable kind - primary school.
Therefore, such a "birth", to let Chen Meilin marry Zhang Bo, normal parents will not agree. Chen Meilin's parents are normal parents, and naturally do not agree.
But Zhang Bo has the means. At that time, Chen Meilin had just quit her career as a kindergarten teacher and joined a small loan company. Most of these companies are private companies, and everything depends on performance. As a novice and simple Chen Meilin, the performance will naturally not be good.
At that time, Zhang Bo had just left the company where Chen Meilin worked, but there were still many contacts with this company, and Chen Meilin was one of the people he contacted. After Chen Meilin asked him a few questions, he took advantage of the opportunity and used the time to run back to help her contact customers and use the system, in short, it was the kind that did not tire of being bored and doing everything.
To say that Zhang Bo does have a few brushes, while helping Chen Meilin, the performance has not yet fallen. This stems from his diligence – he often keeps running clients after work and stays busy late into the night.
Further development, Zhang Bo went to pick up Chen Meilin to commute, and then the two developed into a lover relationship. Then there was physical contact, and then Chen Meilin became pregnant. She told her parents that she was getting married.
It is conceivable that Chen Meilin's parents will react. They have one attitude – no, it's a big deal to beat the kids off.
But Chen Meilin said that the child has been for many months, after all, it is a life, and it is impossible to beat it off in conscience. In the end, her parents could not resist her and had to agree to the marriage.
The child's own child is currently suing Zhang Bo (video screenshot)
The family tragedy brought about by the negative male affair
But happiness did not last long, after marriage Chen Meilin quit her job and concentrated on taking the baby. Zhang Bo also opened a small loan company on his own, for the so-called business, he was infected with the "successful men" that often do things like late return or even often do not return, talk about pomp and pageantry, and love high consumption.
He also bought a 400,000 Mercedes for his so-called career (face). Most of this money is bank loans.
And these phenomena, Chen Meilin is not accustomed to, and it is indispensable to quarrel with Zhang Bo. Sometimes quarrels occur in social venues such as banquets where the two attend together.
Slowly, Zhang Bo began to re-examine his relationship with Chen Meilin. He thinks that he and Chen Meilin are not suitable: the other party is just a small woman who wants a small and stable life, and he is a big man who wants to open up a new big career territory.
So, soon the two filed for divorce. However, at that time, Chen Meilin had already given birth to her second child.
It was also when the two divorced that Zhang Bo met another woman in his life on an occasion - Ye Chengchen.
Ye Chengchen's hometown is also in The Town of Glen in changshou District, but her family is well-off, the rows of houses in the town belong to her family, and she can live a life of a superior person just by renting out the houses, and her father also does food and real estate business in the city. Ye Chengchen also does administrative work at her father's company, which is said to be just to let her have something to do, not to play too wild.
With such a background, Zhang Bo's newly started "grassroots" is naturally difficult to enter the eyes of Ye Chengchen and his parents. At this time, Zhang Bo used the momentum of treating customers in the business field again, and he was stubbornly beaten, and in the end, Ye Chengchen was still moved. However, she put forward one condition: if she wanted to marry me, she would not have children.
But when he divorced Chen Meilin, the court asked him to raise his second child until he was six years old, and at this time he was less than one year old.
What to do? Ye Chengchen thought of a vicious plan - to kill both children (about this, Ye said in court that it was deliberately mentioned, with the intention of making Zhang Bo retreat).
To say that there are many vain men, hearing such unreasonable conditions, it is a big deal not to communicate.
But Zhang Bo was not only vain but also mad, and in more than half a year, he actually tried a variety of means to murder his own child. Finally, in November 2020 (with this heart, there will be a day of success), he threw down the 15th floor of the Jinhua Community in Jinjiang, where his children lived. The results are predictable.
Simple girls should polish their eyes before marrying
At present, Zhang Ye and his wife have been sentenced to death for intentional homicide.
The first third of this story is very beautiful, and the back is very bleak. I don't know if anyone asked Chen Meilin, did she regret marrying Zhang Bo? It is estimated that the reporters interviewed are embarrassed to ask.
I think the probability of regret is definitely very high.
The author only saw in the history books that Wu Zetian plotted to kill his own daughter, but Wu Zetian only killed one child, and the price was to seek the position of empress. Today's story male protagonist, in order to please a new girlfriend, actually killed a pair of his own children. He can only be described as a beast!
How to say it? Maybe tragedy was planted from the beginning. In the face of boys with such a bad family background and background, it is inevitable that simple girls will be moved. But if you have children with each other easily, you will lose the bottom line.
Another point is not to say that men with poor congenital conditions cannot be accepted, but just ask themselves a few more questions before considering entering the marriage hall: Are the personalities of the two really matched? Are the two people really like-minded and appropriate?
The reason for this is that there is no such case as Zhang Bo's murder, and a simple girl is not suitable for marrying an ambitious boy, and it is still a man who is deliberately trying to rely on women to ascend to the throne.
It is no exaggeration to say that a man like Zhang Bo, whose morality is too poor, and his pursuit of the first woman is to value the other party's simplicity and conditions. When there was something better, he thought of finding something better.
He only used women as ladders, and had no idea of sharing happiness and suffering at all. It is no exaggeration to say that even if Ye Chengchen agrees to marry him without mentioning such a condition that he wants him to kill his son, once at the right time, such as a slight favor for him when he meets a woman with better conditions within 3 years, he has a great probability of pursuing a new woman and abandoning Ye Chengchen. Because in his bones is such a person who uses women to ascend to power!
As for how to identify such people in life, the author cannot give good advice in view of his vision and insight. I can only warn thousands of female compatriots that we must stay away from the cunning man, otherwise there is only one result waiting for you - tragedy!