After exchanging identities with her daughter-in-law, I finally realized how tired she was

I was exhausted and tired outside, working overtime for a week in a row, just to give my mother and son a better life.

My wife said I was "just on a shift."

In a fit of rage, I swapped identities with my wife for a month.

It turned out that the housewife was even more tired than going to work...

After a week of overtime work, sleeping no more than five hours a day, I was so tired that I didn't even want to take a shower when I got home, and I fell back for 30 seconds to enter a deep sleep.

Today it is rare to leave work on time, I thought I could relax after going home, but I didn't think about it, but after opening the door, I saw a dirty home.

The floor was littered with toys, clothes were laid out haphazardly on the couch, and there were a lot of unwashed dishes accumulated in the kitchen sink, and the fatigue of the past few days made my temper explode like a volcanic eruption in an instant.

"Huang Yali? Huang Yali? Huang Yali! ”

My voice was too grumpy, and my wife came out of the bedroom, her hair looking uncombed and messy, wearing loose and fat pajamas, and the whole person looked very untrimmed. She was going to hit me.

"Shout what!? I just put my kids to sleep! You came back and he woke up again. ”

I didn't even have time to complain that the house was too messy, she turned around, went into the bedroom again, coaxed the child to go, and didn't even give me a straight eye.

Yes, the child is a little ancestor, I recognize.

Looking at the dirty home in front of me, I just want to clean it, but I really can't lift my spirits.

The room was now unable to sleep, so I could only move the clothes piled up on the couch into a small hill, barely squeezing out a space, lying on it, and falling asleep in a short while. But this sleep, I didn't sleep long.

"You don't know how to help me clean up my house when you come back?" Don't fold this dress? Don't take this toy? Don't drag this land? Don't wash the dishes in the kitchen? ”

My wife's broken thoughts were like mosquitoes humming in my ears all the time, making me unable to sleep soundly. I'm a person who has the gas to get up. If I had laid it on the past, I would have thrown a pillow at the other person and told him to shut up. In this way, my temper has narrowed a lot after getting married.

I had the heart to continue to sleep, but my wife's broken thoughts made me have no desire to sleep. I could only get up from the couch with a hard time.

"I'll go to the bathroom later." I grabbed my phone and headed for the bathroom. "Snap", the door closed, sitting on the toilet lid, I finally got a trace of purity.

But I have to say that taking a mobile phone to the toilet is really not a good habit.

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"Lin Chao, did you grow up on that toilet?" When my wife's wonderful voice sounded in my ear again, I looked at my phone,, I didn't pay attention, half an hour passed.

In order to prevent the tigress from losing her temper, I quickly packed myself up and opened the bathroom door.

The clothes on the couch were neatly folded, the couch was empty again, I sat down on the couch, and was about to take out my mobile phone to prevent sleepiness from coming, and my wife beat me back to my original form with a word.

"Lin Chao, do you think I'm very idle now?" As soon as you get home, you lie on the couch, you can't go to the kitchen and wash the dishes? I haven't had a day off. ”

Oh, got it, fate!

I walked over to the kitchen, picked up the dishes, and quickly washed them up. But there was only one thought in my mind: When will I get a good night's sleep?

I don't remember much about that night, but I feel very tired. After dinner, I took a quick shower and fell back into bed.

In my consciousness, these are actually small things, but I didn't expect it at all, because of these things, our marriage is going to come to an end.

The company I run is a start-up company with less than ten people, and the project is barely running smoothly. The company was as busy as usual that day, and I could say that I was driving at full capacity throughout the day, but I was still busy until ten o'clock in the evening to get home.

When I got home, the living room was pitch black, and under the cover of the street lamp, I could faintly see a black figure sitting on the sofa, motionless. This strange scene made me feel hairy in my heart, and I quickly pressed the switch of the living room light, and after seeing who it was, I secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

"Wife, why don't you turn on the lights here?" It scared me. ”

But when I got closer, I noticed my wife sitting on the couch with a gloomy face.

Unlike last time, the living room was still as messy as ever, but the clothes on the couch were already neatly folded. On the floor of the restaurant lay a bowl broken into eight petals, and the porridge was scattered on the ground, looking good.

As I watched this scene, I inevitably felt some unpleasantness. I was tired of working overtime, and when I came back, I was still facing a dirty home.

"You said that you don't do anything at home, and you can make such a mess at home."

I swear that when I said this, I didn't really mean anything else, and I even prepared to pick up the mop from the bathroom, intending to clean up the mess in the restaurant. But my words seemed to prick one of her sensitive and fragile nerves, and she grabbed a pillow on the couch and slammed it at me, and also smashed my steps towards the bathroom.

"I don't do anything at home?"

"For the sake of my children, I have been busy from morning to night, I have not stopped for a moment, and I have not eaten dinner until now..."

Her eyes were red.

"I had a high fever a few days ago because of the milk blockage, you came home and saw me lying on the bed, didn't ask, the next morning, I had a hard time getting rid of the fever, and when I got up, I found that the clothes in the washing machine were not dried, and the dishes in the kitchen that had not had time to wash were also placed there." I dragged my tired body and finished these things, and I couldn't rest yet....".

I listened to her words, and my heart was not a taste.

"I'm not idle..." I tried to explain, but my wife wouldn't even give me a chance to speak.

"After the birth of the child, I have no job, the focus of life is all around you two grandfathers, you just need to go to work, after returning from work, you can spread out on the sofa to charge the grandfather, and I, I am all day, all year round, my tiredness, you never see." 」

When I heard this, I didn't have time to think about it, and my heart was on fire.

In the past nearly half a month, I have been working overtime, I have met the project partners outside, have I rested? No. But when I got home, what awaited me was not a hot meal, not a gentle greeting of "husband is hard", but an endless accusation.

Do I have an easy job?

No.

The tiredness that has accumulated for more than ten days seems to pour out at this moment, and I really feel tired, tired, and tired. So I said divorce.

"If you're tired, let's get a divorce!"

As soon as the words came out, I looked at her eyes that suddenly widened, as if I couldn't believe it, but in fact I regretted it.

My wife and I were in our sophomore year, and it has been 5 years since we got married and had children. She accompanied me to start a business, suffered a lot together, and only began to retreat into the background after giving birth. I know better than anyone that this woman means nothing to me.

However, the wife was only stunned for a while.

"Okay." She actually responded to it.

At that moment, I looked at her calm expression, and a thought suddenly appeared in my heart: If I regret it, I will not be able to lift my head in my life.

After the argument that day, the oppressive atmosphere in the house made me not want to stay for even a minute. I rushed back to work with my briefcase on my shoulder and slept on the couch.

I thought, maybe the wife calmed down, she regretted it, and forgot about it? However, I did not expect that my wife's decision to divorce was so firm.

At 8:30 in the morning, the employees arrived one after another, and I slept on the couch all night, and my back was sore. Open the mobile phone, see the text message sent by the wife, the consciousness returns, the whole person can be said to be instantly awake.

"I'll be waiting for you at the Civil Affairs Bureau at nine o'clock." Huang Yali

Wife she actually came with me really! She is really going to give up our 5 years of emotional divorce!

Even if I had the heart to redeem it, when I saw my wife's cold tone, I was angry for a while.

"Leave is away, who is afraid of whom?" After leaving, I was still happy to be alone. ”

I got up quickly, washed up, stopped eating breakfast, and drove to the Civil Affairs Bureau. After that, the wife was already standing outside the door. Today, she even has a rare makeup, which is a big increase in her entire temperament compared to the untrimmed edges when she was at home before.

When I looked at such a wife, I couldn't help but feel a trance. I was trying to say hello to her routine, but who knew that she glanced at me slightly.

"Child, I entrusted my mother to show me for a while, I was in a hurry, so I hurried inside to get this done." After saying that, he turned around and walked towards the hall of the Civil Affairs Bureau, feeling without any nostalgia.

This attitude of my wife undoubtedly stimulated me, and I did not bother to talk to her again.

I don't know what time it is today, but there are not many people in the divorce registration office, but there are not many people at the marriage registration office on the other side.

"Divorce is so common now?" I looked at this phenomenon and couldn't help muttering.

"Can it not be low?" When my husband got home, he did nothing like he didn't have a long hand. The child is a mother's life, a person to raise, such a widowed marriage, do not stop. ”

The wife finished speaking in a strange way, and looked at me with mocking eyes, as if I were the kind of husband she said. I had the heart to argue with her for two sentences, but the staff called out the names of both of us.

Yes, that's it.

My wife and I thought that divorce was just a simple thing like stamping a seal and getting a divorce certificate, but the result was not the same. After understanding the general situation of our marriage, the staff told us that according to the current marriage law, there is a one-month cooling-off period for divorce, and after one month, let's see if we still insist on divorce.

Honestly, I'm actually a little happy about this result. Looking at my wife's instantly gloomy face, I forced myself to suppress the smile in my heart, but I still pretended to be as reluctant as her.

Neither of us spoke along the way, and seemed to return home and work very calmly.

My wife doesn't talk to me, and I don't like to deal with her.

On the third day of filing for divorce, I had to go home because I hadn't showered at the company for three or four days. My wife seemed a little strange about my sudden appearance at home, and I looked at her slightly surprised expression and felt a little uncomfortable in my heart.

"Why, I can't step into this house until I'm divorced?"

Maybe it was my tone of voice that was sarcastic, and my wife turned around a little embarrassed.

I had taken a shower, was in my pajamas, and was about to go to the bedroom to get my clothes, open the closet, only to find that all my clothes had been cleaned out.

"Huang Yali, what about your clothes?" Lost? How do you do not do anything about personnel? ”

I screamed angrily.

"Second bedroom, find it yourself."

I followed her answer to the second bedroom, good fellow, and there was a lot of mess on the bed, all of my clothes, because it was completely untied, and the shirts even looked crumpled.

"Huang Yali, you see you got my clothes, how can I wear them?"

My wife didn't give me any response, as if I was talking to the air.

When I managed to find a barely able dress to change into, my wife spoke again.

"Lin Chao, there is a one-month cooling-off period for divorce, this month, we may as well swap identities, I go to work at the company, you do housework at home with children."

Well? What is Huang Yali planning?

I knew that she did not have good intentions, but when I thought of this woman, I did not understand the hard work of getting up early and working in the dark to support their mothers and children, I was angry.

Therefore, embracing my wife and feeling the feeling of having a hard time supporting my family, I should do this.

The new day began, I had already told the company staff that my position was temporarily replaced by the hostess, and after the work that needed to be handed over was handed over, I began to live the life of a housewife.

It's not about doing housework, it's not about taking children, it's so hard.

In the early morning, when I watched my wife walk out of the house in a glamorous professional outfit, I also snorted at her in disbelief.

You think being at the helm of a company is such an easy thing to do? Back there you cried to me.

I thought that if my wife did not do well in the company, she would definitely ask me for help in time, and then our relationship would be able to break the ice smoothly.

I hugged my one-year-old son and kissed him the cheek. But the truth didn't go as I thought.

After my wife left home, I threw all the clothes, hats, shoes and socks I had changed last night into the washing machine, and just wanted to throw my son's small clothes into it, but found that there was a post-it note in the basket:

My son's clothes should be washed by hand.

I had just fetched water and was going to wash my clothes, but my son, who was lying in the car, was crying again.

Broken, it's time to eat complementary food.

Once I was busy surviving, I could say that I was in a hurry. I opened the refrigerator and found only eggs and carrots inside. How to do complementary foods? I followed the tutorial and studied it at the same time. But maybe I was born with no talent for cooking, and in the end I not only scrapped the ingredients, but also almost set the kitchen on fire.

After scrambling to extinguish the fire, I had only one thought in my mind: grass, how is it so difficult to make a meal!

In the end, the child did not eat complementary food, I could only feed him some rice noodles, while I myself could only eat takeaway.

After that, I found that solving the problem of eating for children is not the hardest. Washing clothes, cleaning the living room, kitchen, bedroom hygiene, none of them are simple.

I was so busy all morning that I didn't even have time to go to the bathroom.

On the first day of his tenure as the head of the family, he was extremely unsuitable and in a miserable condition, I, Lin Chao, and pawn.

It is precisely because of the tragic situation on my side that I am more curious about the current situation of my wife, who has entered the workplace again after giving birth.

My wife is not a shrewd person, and I have experienced this when I was in college and when I was with her. My wife and I studied finance in college, but I was a bully in other people's population, and my wife was a scum of other people's population. In the final exam of that year, she needed me to take a few days to study the habits of the college teachers over the years, and to give her the key points, so that she could fly low.

After graduation, we started a business together, but within a few months, my wife became pregnant.

At that time, because of the bad pregnancy, the wife had to raise a fetus at home, and the workplace experience was actually not particularly rich. My parents don't care about things, don't say follow to take care of the daughter-in-law, they don't follow the trouble, even if it is good, the wife she even confinement, it is under my repeated insistence, only to live in the confinement center.

After the confinement came out, it coincided with the company's financial constraints, she did not hire a nanny, and she was responsible for everything about the children.

After the birth of the child, me and the child became the focus of her life. Thinking of this, I suddenly stopped the heart that wanted to see the hilarity, but the company was the brainchild of several of us, and we couldn't let our wives "do something wrong".

I secretly made a phone call to the vice president of the company and asked my wife about the first day of work, which was not very wonderful. Sure enough, the vice president used the phrase "two eyes and one black" to describe his wife's working state.

I told the vice president to take more care of her, and I didn't want to admit that I would do this because I couldn't trust her. But the vice president said in a tone of understanding: I understand that I understand, and I will take more care of my sister-in-law.

I combed through the business that the company may have involved in recent times, and found that the overtime work some time ago has been roughly processed, the mature project has been operating at a high speed, and only one project has just begun, and the project manager Xiao Wang is still serious and responsible