When I came home for the New Year and met my ex-husband's family, I was silent, and quietly transferred a sum of money to him a few years later

There is a saying, "A couple will be grateful for a hundred days in one day."

The friendship between husband and wife, just like friends, whether they have been together or have loved each other, will become our most precious memories.

Nowadays, marriage seems to be an unpredictable variable.

Young people are increasingly reluctant to get married, while middle-aged people are increasing the divorce rate every year.

These are two clichés, and we care more about the latter: divorce.

There is a saying: "It is common for humble people to have a good ending to good things."

I was impressed. Everyone wants their marriage to have a happy ending, which is the common sentiment of people.

As for divorce, there are too many joys and sorrows.

Just like a divorced man a few months ago, because his ex-wife was sick and no one took care of him, he resolutely chose to remarry and take care of him.

Every day there is a warm emotional story. Perhaps, many partings are insincere, but feelings, at the moment of separation, become a kind of sadness, which can only be hidden in the heart forever.

Just like Chen Jia, who has been divorced for many years, she is still single, just because she can't let go of the person in her heart. Let's hear her story.

1. The first time I went back to my mother's house after the divorce, I met my ex-husband.

My name is Chen Jia. I am 28 years old. I am an accountant at an accounting firm in Shenzhen. I met my husband Li Jian when I was 24 years old. He is my client and now my ex-husband.

I saw him again when I came home during the Spring Festival.

Because I have been afraid of my parents' worries after the divorce, coupled with the serious epidemic situation in Shenzhen, I have not returned to my mother's house for a long time.

Just this year, the epidemic improved, I got off the plane and went straight to my hometown.

I live in a small town. Before I got home, I met my ex-husband, Li Jian, who was selling New Year goods with his new lover. I have a child next to me. He was four or five years old, his face was frozen red, and he sat quietly, silently.

Watching Li Jian busy in his stall, I felt a little happy. Turns out he didn't do a good job.

My heart ached a little when I mentioned him.

When I first met him, the job was unstable and there was always a risk of being fired. It was he who became my first customer and introduced me to many customers in the follow-up, allowing me to gain a firm foothold in the company and stabilize in Shenzhen.

Later, to thank him, I also invited him to dinner. During the conversation, I found that I was in the same place as him.

Don't say how to hit it off? Love will come. We keep in touch when we exchange contact details.

When he confessed to me, I had been looking forward to it for a long time. So, we found a time to settle the marriage.

After marriage, we all worked in Shenzhen, because the work was on the rise, so we didn't have children.

But when I was 26, he went home without saying a word, and I didn't think much about it.

However, later I received a divorce agreement from a courier and a letter he had written to me.

He said in the letter, sorry for me, but he has more important people to take care of, and he wants me to be happy.

At the time I didn't ask him why, I just bore the pain alone.

Coming out of my memory and looking at the scene in front of me, I smiled. It turned out that this was the person he wanted to protect.

I walked indifferently to his stall and he just said, "What do you want?" Then he looked up and saw me, with a sense of surprise and a hint of guilt.

I didn't have much emotion and just said, "Hope you're well." Give me a few pounds of melon seeds. ”

After paying the money, I left without nostalgia.

There is a saying: "Marriage law does not protect feelings, and the law does not stipulate that one person must love another person for a lifetime."

Deeply believed, marriage is like this.

You can promise the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance, or you can turn around and leave without a word.

I have no reason to complain because I am not qualified right now.

2. I don't want to. After asking about my ex-husband, I was silent.

There is a saying: "Women remarry because they hate their ex-husbands, and men remarry because they love their ex-wives too much."

There seems to be some truth to this statement. At least every woman who cares about her ex after a divorce will have this expectation.

I can't say how sympathetic I am to my ex-husband's current situation. But compared with his previous scenery in Shenzhen's big city, he is now staying in a small town to set up stalls, which can really be called a downfall.

Back home, I responded to my parents' enthusiasm and just wanted to tell them about my divorce.

I didn't expect them to say, "We all know."

I felt a little guilty and had to change the subject to chat with them.

Not long after, my dad asked me, "Did you see Li Jian when you came back?"

I don't know why my dad mentioned him, but I nodded anyway.

My dad went on to say, "Li Jian, kid, though I feel sorry for you. However, his situation is really difficult. ”

"Huh? Why? "I don't understand.

"The woman you saw in town today was his sister, and the child was her sister's child. Two years ago, his brother-in-law died in a mining accident at a construction site. The child suddenly fainted one day in kindergarten and was taken to the hospital because of leukemia. ”

"Then why didn't he tell me?"

"Li Jian is a child whose parents were born when he was very young. Growing up with my sister, I have a deep affection, and it costs a lot of money for my child to get sick. In addition to the compensation given by the construction site, Li Jian's savings in recent years are also about to be hollowed out. ”

"So, he came home suddenly two years ago. The money to see a doctor is like a bottomless pit. He doesn't want to get into trouble with you, so he chooses to divorce you. Mom sighed and told the truth.

Listening to my parents, my eyes turned red. But at this point, I hate and love Li Jian. What I hate is that he lied to me, and what I love is that he finally thinks of me.

Even if I am unwilling, I don't want to hurt men's self-esteem. Maybe he didn't want me to know these things.

So, in the beginning, he would not quit.

3. Although he was injured by his ex-husband, he still transferred a sum of money to the other party.

Once, he filed for divorce and I was really hurt.

However, my grief is insignificant compared to the responsibilities he has assumed.

I don't know how he feels about me now. Perhaps, in the hardships of life, he no longer has the luxury of immersing himself in love, and I, for him, have become a passer-by in life.

Knowing the truth, I just wanted to do something for him.

So, I inquired about the hospital that Li Jian's nephew had checked before and asked about some information. Doctors said the child was in hospital for three months. Later, because he owed hospitalization fees, he chose to go home for conservative treatment.

Hearing this, I suddenly realized that I couldn't say anything.

So, through the hospital, I contacted the local Red Cross Society and commissioned volunteers to pass on a little of my heart to Li Jian.

It is said that the volunteers of the hospital applied for a charitable fund.

Later, after the customer contacted Li Jian to explain the situation, the money was quickly transferred to Li Jian's card in the name of the Red Cross.

The little boy was hospitalized again.

I think, though Li Jian didn't know what I had done. But, just as he had once thought of me and left silently.

I just want to love him in another way.

Someone said, "Hurt in the name of love is still hurt."

It is true that Li Jian has really hurt me, but true love does not need to be explained at all. Since you have loved, let this love remain in your heart forever.

Xiao yuan's message: In the vast universe, there is a story of sadness and joy every day.

Some people get together, some people are separated. Either way, it is not only our choice, but also the arrangement of fate.

We can't expect everything to be perfect, nor do we have to expect the uniqueness of love.

After all, in everyone's heart, you have to protect yourself.

Perhaps, in this lifetime, we will miss out. However, once loved, is not a precious memory?

If possible, I hope that you and I can reconcile with the past, cherish the people in front of us, and bury the love that cannot be together forever in our hearts.

Encourage each other!

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