"We've only known each other for a month or two and you were pregnant, and you told me on the day of the engagement, how do I know if this child is mine?" I don't want to see you now, there's something we'll say in court."
After saying this, the man wanted to turn around and leave, and the woman held the child and watched her helplessly go away. Why would this man doubt the origin of the child? What happened on the day of the engagement?
Engagement party storm
Jiang Ying is a very strong woman, in the early years of breaking into the society, she has not met the other half of her choice, seeing that she is getting older and older, and she has also kissed many men, but she has not found the right one, and her heart is also very anxious.
Finally, when she was 30 years old, she met her true destiny.
The man, Zhou Cong, is 5 years older than her and works as a seafood buyer in a hotel. Jiang Ying felt that this man was mature and stable, very reliable, so she was very satisfied with him, and the two quickly developed into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and soon became engaged.
But on the day of the engagement, there was an accident, and after that, the two became enemies, and even the parents of both sides had a deep grudge against each other, so what happened on the day of the engagement?
Mother Jiang
Mentioning this matter, Jiang Ying's mother scolded Jiang Ying and complained a lot, she said that Jiang Ying was already a 30-year-old person, and there were nearly 100 people on blind dates, saying that people were not good for this or that, and none of them looked up to them, and finally found a man like Zhou Cong.
What was it that made Mother Jiang have such a deep resentment towards Zhou Cong?
It turned out that the day before Jiang Ying and Zhou Zifeng were ready to get engaged, Jiang Ying and her mother went to a pharmacy, bought some medicine, and bought a pregnancy test stick by the way, but they did not expect the results to show that they were pregnant.
At that time, Jiang Ying was very happy, immediately called her boyfriend, she said that on the phone, her boyfriend was also very happy after knowing, Jiang Ying was sweetly fantasizing about each other's future, and did not expect that what her boyfriend said the next day would beat her into the abyss.
At the engagement banquet the next day, the boyfriend actually asked Jiang Ying in front of many relatives and friends whether this child was hers or not? Jiang Ying was confused at the time, she did not understand how her boyfriend who was happy yesterday suddenly had such a big change in attitude today, Jiang Ying said that she was really very disappointed at that time, and especially wanted to cry.
The relatives and friends around her looked at her, as if she had really done something unseemly, which made her feel very wronged, and she hastily ended the engagement party between the two of them that day.
Looking for a boyfriend and arguing again
Jiang Ying said that after the wedding banquet, she and her boyfriend never met again, until the birth of the child has never seen, just opened to call Zhou Cong he said that the child is not his, to the later phone does not answer, it seems that it is planning to die with Jiang Ying.
So what was Zhou Cong's idea? Jiang Ying felt that she must find out, so she took the child to the hotel where her boyfriend worked.
Zhou Cong's colleague
Seeing the arrival of Jiang Ying, Zhou Cong's colleagues all gathered around, they all knew what happened at the engagement banquet that day, they were also full of doubts and suspicions about this matter, but said that Jiang Ying was just pregnant at the time, and did not expect that now they were holding a 4-month-old child in front of them, everyone felt incredible, and everyone was talking about it.
The crowd did not see Zhou Cong's figure, do not know whether he did not go to work today, or deliberately hid, Jiang Ying asked his colleagues, colleagues have avoided this question, and finally a kind aunt can not look over, quietly told Jiang Ying, you can go to the parking lot to see.
Jiang Ying came to the underground parking lot for about half an hour, and finally found Zhou Cong's figure. As soon as they met, Zhou Cong seemed very impatient, he looked at Jiang Ying with disdain, and said that you are now holding the child to find me, nothing more than wanting child support, but also wanting me to pay you how much money at one time? Will you marry me? That's impossible, you say you don't love me, you don't have any feelings for me, so why do you have to give birth to a child?
Parking to find Zhou Cong
Zhou Cong felt that he had not been able to guess Jiang Ying's heart, his family was not very rich and noble, this woman obviously said that she did not love her, why did she insist on giving birth to this child in the first place? When Jiang Ying first argued, Jiang Ying also said a lot of ugly things to him, and Jiang Ying's approach made Zhou Cong and her family feel that she was cheating on marriage, and this child would definitely not be his own, he was a receiver.
So she now insists on her own idea, he wants to go to the court to sue Jiang Ying, but also to do paternity testing, absolutely will not be the wronged head.
Jiang Ying said that we can do a paternity test now, there is no need to go to court, and she knows that his family has no money, and it is impossible to go to Zhou Cong's house every day with the child to ask for money.
She only asked Zhou Cong's attitude to be better, she said that now Zhou Cong is so noisy, just want to take chances to say that the child is not his, so that there is no need to bear any responsibility, he always says that I calculate him, he has nothing, and what is worth my calculation?
But Zhou Cong said that he did not believe anyone now, only believed in the results of the court, and now it was useless to say anything. So why is Zhou Cong so insistent that this child is not himself? Does he have any basis?
Negotiations fell apart without success
Zhou Cong said that he and Jiang Ying had not been married for two months from acquaintance, and he felt that the woman could not get pregnant in such a short period of time, so he would feel that Jiang Ying as a person may not be innocent enough, and the child is certainly not his own.
And after the engagement banquet, the contradiction between the two gradually deepened, he and she obviously had no feelings, but she still insisted on giving birth to a child, why was she so insistent? The purpose is to ask for money from yourself.
Zhou Cong has always insisted on his own opinion, so what is the truth? Is it Zhou Cong's suspicions, or does Jiang Ying really have some ulterior secrets?
Jiang Ying held the child
Jiang Ying felt that everything he did was reasonable, and now Zhou Cong did not have any evidence to prove that the child was not his, he just used this excuse, did not want to bear the child's maintenance, and did not want to delay his future marriage because of this child.
The two argued again for a long time, and Zhou Cong did not want to waste any more time arguing with Jiang Ying and fled the scene. Zhou Cong's attitude was completely broken Jiang Ying's heart, originally he was 30 years old, belonged to the elderly unmarried, and blind dated so many men, did not expect to finally pick such an irresponsible person for himself, but also by his mother has been scolded, she does not know where to go in the future.
Jiang Ying recalled that the two met during the Dragon Boat Festival last year, and then less than two months later, he found out that she was pregnant, and at that time she felt that happiness came too suddenly.
Later, after the engagement storm, Zhou Cong ostensibly apologized to her, but behind his back, he was actually secretly investigating himself, and all his previous things were turned over by him.
Not only that, Zhou Cong even came to my house to publicize everywhere, so that everyone knew, so that my family could not lift their heads and lose their faces, and our family hated him very much. It is also because of this that our contradictions have deepened, from 4 months after the birth of the child, to the present there is no contact.
The man presents "evidence" that the woman is unruly
Jiang Ying said sadly, "He really did a lot of extreme things, I don't feel like he cares about this child, I don't know where he investigated me from, investigated my former boyfriend, what I did before, and some seven seven eighty-eight." Sometimes I also like to travel, have been to many places, and know a lot of friends, and sometimes when they come to my side, I will use my ID card to help them open a house. In this way, he also investigated the people and asked me why I wanted to open a house and who else was there. He was extremely distrustful of me and had been suspicious of me. I also said that although I opened the house, I didn't do anything to be sorry for you. ”
Because Jiang Ying had a boyfriend before, Zhou Cong had always doubted Jiang Ying's innocence.
Jiang Ying feels that everyone will have their own past, and it is very normal to have one or two relationships before, but since they have broken up, they should let go, so that they can have a new start.
So Jiang Ying did not tell Zhou Cong about her former boyfriend. But because of this, Zhou Cong felt that Jiang Ying was unwilling to tell himself and deliberately concealed what had happened in the past, and because of this, Zhou Cong and his family felt that Jiang Ying was not a simple woman.
Zhou Cong's father
Zhou Cong's father said that Jiang Ying had been living in other places before, and they had no idea what happened to Jiang Ying outside and what the real situation was like. She only investigated what happened to Jiang Ying in the past, but her experience was too complicated, making them think that this person was not so simple.
Jiang Ying herself has not attended any class, she said that she does her own business, but no one knows whether she really does business or not? And what kind of business?
And since the wedding banquet fell out, Jiang Ying's attitude has taken a sharp turn, just like a changed person. The two people did not say anything at all from the beginning of the quarrel, the feelings slowly faded, but suddenly changed, which made them have to doubt the child's origins.
Zhou Cong also came up with evidence, he saw that Jiang Ying had been to many places, basically all the scenic spots in the country had been visited, and all of them were five-star hotels, and even the records of opening houses had hundreds of times. Even she has been to the United States, all check the entry and exit records, she did not go alone, all went with her ex-boyfriend, the number of statistics are more than 20 times, they often go out together.
Jiang Ying's travel records
Zhou Cong felt that Jiang Ying did not have a stable income, often traveled, and stayed in high-end hotels, which made him feel that Jiang Ying's past was not so simple.
But this was only Jiang Ying's past, how could he be sure that the child was not his own based on this alone?
In the face of these questions, Jiang Ying scoffed, she said that she did not graduate from junior high school and went to work, and she originally let her father take her out, which was about 15 years old. Because I didn't study well and didn't have the heart to go to school, I thought not to waste my family's money and simply go to work.
It turned out that she had been doing clothing business with her friends, and now she could actually afford to raise this child, and she didn't have to let Zhou Cong pay child support. But she was so denigrate herself in front of outsiders and ignored her children, which she could not accept.
The mediation fails to be unsuccessful and the parties are ultimately in court
Finally, the two came to the court's mediation court, and Zhou Cong brought a friend, and he did not say a word on the side, and let his friend and Jiang Ying mediate the whole time.
Friends said that if this child is Zhou Cong's after paternity test, he is also willing to raise, will not ask Jiang Ying for maintenance fees, the child is willing to recognize Jiang Ying in the future, Zhou Cong will not block. And the gift money paid before will no longer be recovered, but if this child is not Zhou Cong's, then Jiang Ying will not bother Zhou Cong's life again.
Mediation room mediation
Zhou Cong's attitude made Jiang Ying even more angry, he didn't personally handle his own affairs, what did it mean to ask his friends to open their mouths.
Remembering all kinds of doubts and suspicions about her in the past, as well as her irresponsibility now, Jiang Ying was very disappointed in this. Jiang Ying's attitude is also very strong, she is sure that the child is Zhou Cong's, saying that she can also afford to raise the child and does not need his money, but he must apologize for his previous behavior and have an explanation for the child.
The mediator hopes that the parties can talk calmly and advise the woman to take the man's opinion into account.
But Jiang Ying was even more angry, scolding the mediator for saying that why the child must give it to the man, if he really wants to compensate, then let the man pay 1 million.
This kind of gambling is obviously unrealistic, so that the two sides can no longer continue to communicate, and Jiang Ying also left angrily.
After 10 days, the results of the paternity test came out, confirming that the child was related to Zhou Cong, and as for the child's future support, Jiang Ying still decided to solve it through legal channels. Regarding Zhou Cong, she no longer had any expectations for this man.
brief summary
In this case, the most innocent is the child, and the immaturity of the parents makes the child have no complete family after birth.
As a person who has worked hard in society for many years, Jiang Ying knows that there is no possibility of marriage with the father of the child, but insists on giving birth to the child, so that the child lacks complete fatherly love in the process of growing.
And Zhou Cong is even more irresponsible, Ming Ming and Jiang Ying belong to free love, not only do not trust their lovers, but also deny it after the birth of the child, if the child grows up to know these things, how sad it should be.
Now many older young men and women are facing the pressure of being urged to marry by their parents, and some people can't resist finding someone to marry at will, but it is easy to have problems without understanding each other, and in the end it will backfire.
Each of us should take feelings seriously, it is not easy to form a family, from strangeness to acquaintance to love, will experience a lot of ups and downs, should trust each other, respect each other, such a marriage and family will be happy and happy.