#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method#
The first time I saw the name Gu Ailing was on XHS, and the "Gu Ailing Imitation Makeup" and "Gu Ailing Wear" written by major bloggers can be seen everywhere.
I think this must be which fashion circle or variety circle newcomer is on fire, just like Song Zhiya before, the variety show is out of the circle, and the whole network is her imitation makeup and wear.
It wasn't until Gu Ailing won the Winter Olympics that I learned she was a freestyle skier and a mixed-race child, still only 18 years old.
So, I checked a lot of information about Gu Ailing.
What an envy!
What I envy is her confident sunshine and open-mindedness.
The whole network is also recommending us to learn the parenting method of Gu Ailing's mother.
I summarized it below: companionship + support + trust + role model + emotional stability + financial support!
Today, I would like to talk about why her smile is so bright and her thinking is so wise.
The 18-year-old girl is out of the ring in makeup and dress, and some of her outfits are open shoulders and belly buttons, which is extremely unlikely in China. If it is such a dress, it will be said that "bad girls" or "little sisters", it is girls who are "mixed society" outside to have such a dress, and "serious people" girls are wearing fat school uniforms and wrapping themselves tightly.
Look at how many children can't guarantee normal sleep time because of homework. Judging from my own learning experience and the current children around me, the light in the eyes of many children is slowly disappearing with the increase of academics.
As long as there are many articles or videos on the Internet that recommend learning methods or how to chicken babies, they can quickly become explosive articles.
Just like some time ago, the national football team failed, and some people on the Internet ridiculed: if football becomes a college entrance examination project, everything can be handed over to Haidian mothers, which can definitely make the national football team go to the world.
Look at Quan Hong Zen, she is also a gifted diving girl, but she still looks like a child, has no makeup, and even her hair is cut short.
Her studies were delayed a lot or she gave up her studies because of the intensive training.
Look at Gu Ailing's answer to the reporter's question, the logic is clear, the thinking is active, published in the "New York Times" "I admit, I fell in love with fear", the whole article is well structured, the words and sentences are atmospheric and calm, the thinking is profound, and the emotions are delicate! This is beyond the reach of many big coffee.
In China, because of academics, many children have to make choices in hobbies and learning rather than both. Often in the end, it is hobbies that make way for school.
Therefore, Gu Ailing's success is not something that can be copied casually.
We can learn from Gu Ailing's mother's parenting style, but we can't let this become our new source of anxiety. As long as we are down-to-earth, our children are unique.
