In 2019, Brother Wu, who lives in Luohe, Henan Province, was shackled to bed by his wife, Ms. Wang, and could only be solved in bed for a week. The eighty-eight-year-old mother saw her son's appearance and cried and begged someone to save her precious son.
What's going on here?
Brother Wu and his wife have been married for more than 40 years, the two have a son and a daughter after marriage, and now the children have established a family, each working outside, and will give the old two some money every New Year's Festival, so that they can have a little more money on hand and enjoy the blessings.
Family
But what I didn't expect was that after Brother Wu had some money in his hands in the past two years, he became addicted to alcohol and became a well-known drunkard in the village.
Every morning, the first thing Brother Wu does when he gets up is to drink, drink at least one pound in the morning, drink until noon, eat some food to fill his stomach; and then drink a bottle of liquor at four or five o'clock in the evening, every day.
After a long time, The physical condition of Brother Wu is not as good as a day, and drinking alcohol and hurting the body is not a joke.
In the process of Brother Ang's alcohol addiction, he suffered along with his wife, Sister Wang, and his eighty- and ninety-year-old mother.
Old mother
It turned out that As soon as Brother Wu finished drinking, he couldn't control himself, often played drunk madness, and after drinking wine to see who was not pleasing to the eye, it was a fat beating.
His wife, Sister Wang, has not been beaten by him over the years, usually by him dragging his hair and slapping him wildly. Usually, After Brother Ang woke up drunk, he found that he was abusing himself, and he was upset.
Big Brother Ng
I thought there was definitely no next time, but when the addiction came, he lost his mind again, and the cycle went on and on, and the addiction became more and more difficult to quit.
When it was serious, Brother Wu even had to do something to his eighty- or ninety-year-old wife, which made it difficult for his wife, Sister Wang, to accept, and she said that her husband really should not do anything with the old woman.
Sister Wang (left)
It turned out that because of drinking, Brother Wu had spent almost all his savings on his body, and he couldn't pull down his face to ask his children for money to buy wine, so he called the old woman's attention.
Taking advantage of his mother's lack of attention, he secretly sold her chicken cage, which made the old woman very angry, and he hated his son for iron and steel.
She did not know that drinking alcohol can have such a great impact on a person, and in the eyes of her mother, her son is still relatively filial. Whether it was sunny or rainy, Brother Wu would go to his mother's house and sit for a while and talk to her about his family.
The old lady feels that her son is not bad, that is, the stink of drinking cannot be changed, in order to get her son back on track, she asks for help to quit drinking, and this maternal love is moved by no matter who looks at it.
Most people drink alcohol for socializing, have to drink, or encounter any troubles in life, need to borrow wine to dispel their worries.
After asking Brother Ang, it is not because of these two situations that he is addicted to alcohol, but because he is addicted to alcohol. As soon as the alcohol addiction came up, he was like a demon, even if he was sneaky, he had to drink a little to relieve his hunger.
When it is serious, it is even necessary to drink half a pound, the body will become stronger, and the spirit will be better.
Ms. Wang, the wife of Brother Wu, said: This family is almost scattered because of her husband's drinking. He said he was going to quit drinking every time, but he was the first to rush up whenever there was a stubble. Even the death of an old man in the family is related to his drinking and trouble.
Brother Wu's father was gone when he was six or seven years old, and one of his uncles worked tirelessly to take care of it, and a year ago the old uncle was checked by the hospital for cancer and was pulled back home.
The night before his death, Brother Wu not only did not serve him at the bedside, but ran out to secretly drink. After getting drunk, Big Brother Wu couldn't control his mouth and began to make trouble at his uncle's house, and endless quarrels also accelerated his uncle's death.
Whenever a large family mentioned this matter, they would complain about Big Brother Wu. The death of the old uncle has also become a regret that Can never be repaired in the heart of Brother Wu.
In order to help Brother Angkor quit his addiction, the family can be said to have worked hard. His wife, Ms. Wang, once bought a pair of shackles with two-meter chains, and whenever her husband was drunk and crazy, she would use the handcuffs to lock him to the bed, sometimes for a week.
Brother Wu was in a hurry to hit the wall directly with his head, and the thought of dying was gone, but no matter how hard his husband Brother Wu begged his wife, Madam Wang, he would not untie the chain.
In this process, although Ms. Wang can often hear her husband's wailing, she can't help it. For the sake of her husband's health, she must endure the pain in her heart and try it out in this soil method.
Unexpectedly, after being locked for 7 days, Brother Wu ran to the commissary to buy wine to drink, this time it is not as simple as a pound and a half, and Brother Wu who ran out can drink a few pounds of liquor in one breath, and the alcohol addiction is more serious than before.
Whenever he was sober, looking at the heavy chains would also feel very painful, but he did not know what kind of methods to completely quit drinking, which also made his children who worked thousands of miles away very worried.
Later, the son said: Otherwise go to the regular hospital to see it, the doctor may have a better way. Many people in the village said that the reason why alcohol addiction could not be quit was because of mental problems, so Brother Wu went to Xuchang Psychiatric Hospital.
mental hospital
Since most of the patients in the psychiatric hospital were patients with mental problems, Brother Wu was locked up after he entered. In the 19 days of hospitalization, Sister Wang ran 5 times. She couldn't bear to watch her husband suffer inside, but there was nothing else she could do.
Brother Wu, who came out of the psychiatric hospital, still failed to quit his addiction. Again and again, in exchange for disappointment, but the Wu family did not give up, and Brother Wu, as a party, was also actively seeking help from the outside world.
Later, the son learned that there was a rehab center in the regular hospital in the big city, so he consulted with his father and asked him to leave for the hospital for treatment immediately. Brother Wu listened to his son's words, and without saying a word, he immediately began to pack up his things.
Pack your things
In order to let him have no worries, his wife, Sister Wang, told him before Brother Wu went to the hospital that he would take good care of his old mother, and everything in the family did not need him to worry about, only that he went to the hospital to cooperate with the doctor for treatment, and when he came back, he could completely quit drinking.
Brother Wu has owed a lot to his wife over the years, and after hearing these words, he can't help but shed tears, and also strengthens his determination to quit drinking.
After meeting Director Zhai of the Alcohol Rehabilitation Center in the hospital, Brother Wu briefly introduced his wine history, and Director Zhai said: Most patients with alcohol addiction have symptoms such as Brother Wu, and their willpower is not firm and they cannot control themselves.
Director Zhai (left)
It turns out that the damage to the nerves of the brain by drinking alcohol is endless, and over time it will also touch the addiction center in the brain, resulting in people unable to control their behavior.
Modern medical alcohol abstinence will find the cause and prescribe the right medicine, and the purpose of treatment is to wake up the brain and repair the brain nerves that have been damaged by alcohol.
Then the doctor told Brother Ang that the treatment required 2 to 3 courses, usually a course of treatment in 10 days, and Brother Ng also accepted such an arrangement.
Later, in the ward prepared by the doctor, Brother Ang met a drinking friend who had the same symptoms as him. The brother has already treated two treatments for alcohol addiction, and now he has no desire to drink alcohol at all, which is also the result that Brother Angkor is looking forward to.
Patient (left)
Do you think That Brother Ang can completely quit his addiction in the hospital during this time?
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