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Title: Shenzhen man always has a headache, the inspection found that the culprit is a bullet buried for 20 years: hours injured dare not say
When I was young, I was always afraid of being scolded by my parents, and my fear of adults was good or bad.
The good thing is that children will not do things unscrupulously, and whether they can do it or not will first think about the consequences.
The bad side is that it may be unfavorable to yourself, but you dare not say it, for fear that adults will scold and bury hidden dangers.
I'm afraid this has a lot to do with the way adults educate their children!
A 28-year-old man in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, always has a headache, has not known what the reason is, recently, finally by the doctor found the culprit, found a bullet under the scalp.
And this turned out to be an accident that had been buried for 20 years, when I was afraid of being scolded and did not dare to say it, which led to such consequences.
For a long time, perhaps the man himself forgot about his childhood, so he never thought that it could cause himself a headache until he was pointed out by the doctor.
It turned out that 20 years ago, the man and his brother were playing with air guns in their hometown, but because the air guns misfired, they were shot in the head by a lead bullet.
After the injury, he was afraid of being scolded by his parents and did not go to the hospital for medical treatment, but only used the powder to stop the bleeding and did not care anymore.
When this happens, the child will certainly not know if he does not say it, and there are usually no symptoms, and this hidden bane will fade with the passage of time.
In daily life, men can also touch a hard object with their hands, and if it were not for the recent headache, they might not have come to the doctor.
The man calmly kept a bullet for 20 years, but he frightened the doctor.
During the examination, it was found that the hidden bullet was only 2 centimeters away from the temple, and when the bullet was shot, it did not rotate, but was blocked by a hard skull.
Moreover, the kinetic energy of the air gun bullet was relatively small, and it did not hurt the subcutaneous artery, so it did not endanger the man's life at that time.
Now the bullet has finally been removed and the headache is relieved!
However, this has also led to deep thinking, and the way many parents in China educate their children can easily cause similar problems.
There is no shortage of such parents around, good things will be encouraged, bad things will be loud criticism and even scolding, over time, children also learn to "be good", will only take good things to "coax" parents to be happy, others are hidden.
Even if parents have been stressing that children must be honest and tell adults the truth. Maybe it was done at first, but after being reprimanded by adults, I risked being discovered and told a lie.
Anyway, to tell the truth will also be scolded, found will also be scolded, it is better to bet on whether the big will find out, if you are lucky, you will be fine.
Therefore, if you want your child to tell the truth, parents must first give their children a brave environment to tell the truth, and no child dares to take the step of telling the truth.
I have seen on the Internet that because the child conceals what happened to him, causing irreparable harm to his own body, this is a pity.
Relatively speaking, Shenzhen men are still lucky, because they dare not tell adults the truth, it was safe at that time, the consequences caused by the big are not too serious, and the foreign body will be fine after surgery.
It can be seen that educating children is a long way to go, every parent needs to reflect on the way of education, especially in the New Year, firecrackers, play with toy guns, play with slingshots, etc. are all dangerous, and special attention must be paid to the child's condition!
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