It is difficult to think of writing Gu Ailing these two days, this 18-year-old girl who lives more wonderfully than the heroine of the novel has fiercely dominated the screen.
The introduction of "Strange Force Girl" needless to say, it is estimated that everyone has been popularized by the article of the screen. There are [Harvard Dad Stanford Mom Basketball Player's Grandmother Football Player's Grandpa] a variety of academic bullies and sports genes to play the bottom, is the world's top professional skier, or sat close to the full score of Stanford's school bully, or the new favorite of the fashion industry.
More importantly, the emergence of this "other people's child" once again struck all the parents around me. Even the lying father of our family who "doesn't matter" began to look at his 3-year-old daughter who was rolling around because he couldn't eat chocolate, and began to think about "where is my girlfriend's talent, as a pu dad, am I dragging my girlfriend's hind legs", it can be seen that he finally has a hint of chicken power.
Very good! Thanks to the emergence of Gu Ailing, we can see the ceiling of parenting, or more possibilities.
In addition to the shock, everyone pays more attention to how this child is cultivated, and then will benchmark themselves to see if there is still room for effort. If so, let's take a breath and work hard.
Of course, gene & talent, 99.9% of our parents will not think about it first, genetic modification of this matter we can not take the turn in this life.
And the other key elements of cultivating a bully, Gu Ailing himself summed it up like this.
After eating well and sleeping well, Gu Ailing said:
I think the most important thing is to have love.
Because there is love,
Nothing bothers you
Don't feel tired,
I don't feel like work either.
This reminds me of the same with reading. To cultivate a successful reading doll, the core point is to build confidence and love for reading.
Why we say that before everyone did reading and took a detour, it is to ignore how to make children fall in love with reading first, but they are full of thoughts about teaching children words and grammar through reading.
But everything needs to be loved, and love is sustainable, sustainable, and good results will follow.
How can I make my baby fall in love with reading?
Extensive reading!
First of all, extensive reading advocates "simple enough", simple enough to love.
Simple enough, children can get it, can read fluently, can read and understand, can enjoy the fun of I can read, can build reading confidence, will have a better self-drive, will read this thing autonomously, and enter a positive reading cycle.
On the contrary, if we all want children to read books that seem to have more "strange words and knowledge points", children can't read fast, can't read, and can't enjoy the fun of reading at all, reading has become a task, and it has become an "anti-human" learning, which will only make children bored.
Secondly, extensive reading gives children a lot of opportunities to try different themes and themes of reading, which is to give children the opportunity to find their own love.
It's like Gu Ailing's mother let Gu Ailing try more since she was a child, piano, ballet, fashion, basketball, football, equestrianism, rock climbing... Try everything, try more to know where the child's preferences and talents are, only if you try to know the love.
The same is true for extensive reading, which emphasizes that children should try more and read everything, so that children can easily find the topic they love to read and attract reading interest.
Love to read, it is easier to develop reading habits, but also easier to structure the child's knowledge map, commonly known as reading through.
Moreover, extensive reading emphasizes the role model role of parents, and with parents as role models, it is difficult for children not to love.
The biggest variable that affects a child's growth is the parents. Gu Ailing once said: My mother is the best mother. This is best not to say that the appearance of academic wealth, but the mother set an example, put in attention, and gave companionship.
Reading is the same reason, if you want to cultivate a child who loves to read, parents also need to become a reader, which is our consensus.
Reading this requires the teacher, parents, and children to work together. We know that it's easier said than done. So in 2022, we will provide more solutions for everyone, so stay tuned.
Read on the road, walk up! We are doomed to cultivate the second Gu Ailing, but I hope we can all cultivate a baby who loves to read!