The enthusiastic topic of relatives and friends during the New Year, the most talked about is how is your life? Have you ever been treated coldly by relatives?
Different reactions to human nature, see which one you are?
The first, people who live in general, but love face. Exaggerate your strengths to everyone, and say nothing about the bad. For example, the husband is capable, the position has reached what level, and he has made a lot of money. The in-laws do everything, they will not do anything, they will secretly play, just enjoy the blessings.
Ordinary people listen to it, smile on their faces, and feel a little sour in their hearts, after all, others are better than themselves, it is not a happy thing.
Second, I don't live very well, and I don't like to pretend to be facetious. Generally like to talk about things that have nothing to do with life, meet show off people, silently echo, like people with similar temperaments, talk, speak their hearts, and will not be ridiculed.
The third kind of person, a good life, and a low profile. Basically, he is the kindest, even if someone says that he is strong where he is, they are all modest: "Wherever, just eat with a mouthful." "It is also possible to be mixed badly, but enthusiastic relatives and friends point out and teach him to recognize reality, be down-to-earth, and not be afraid of hard work."
Fourth, the well-lived, high-profile people. This kind of person, most likely to pick a circle, may already disdain to participate in the gathering of poor relatives, only willing to meet with people who are beneficial to themselves or feel that they are at the same level as themselves.
Spring Festival is a national gathering, more is the ordinary people's human feelings, during the New Year, many people will most likely encounter a variety of socializing, good at social people or the source of hilarity, not good at social people or silent.
Visit relatives in the New Year, but they are all in the comparison, to see how others are doing, to see who is worse than themselves, who is better than themselves.
