Looking back at the entertainment industry in 2021, it can really be said that a wave of unevenness and a wave of rise.
This year, Zhao Liying Feng Shaofeng, Chen Sicheng Tong Liya, Big S Wang Xiaofei, Li Xiang Wang Yuelun, Li Lianglei Wang Lihong, officially announced the divorce.
Wu Yifan, Li Yundi, and Wang Lihong have collapsed because of improper relationships between men and women.
Zhao Wei, Wei Ya, and Zhang Ting were investigated one after another.
Almost every month, there are fierce news bursts, frequently rushing to the hot search list of major platforms.
And I think these ordinary people are more worthy of a hot search than stars.
"Zombie Brother" Old Du: The body can stand unsteadily, but people cannot be unstable
On the streets of Xuzhou, there is a vendor who sells roasted sweet potatoes for a living, and his appearance looks a little scary, and people call him "Old Du".
In the early years, he was driving a large truck to transport coal in the mine, and suddenly, a large lump of coal fell down and hit his head hard.
His life was saved, but his head was smashed, his nerves were damaged, his speech was slurred, his body could not control himself, and he always danced unconsciously.
After that, he walked like a "zombie" we saw in the movie.
Therefore, the people around him gave him a nickname - "zombie brother".
A good body, into the current look, can not avoid being talked about.
His wife also left him on the grounds that she didn't like to be treated like a joke."
After that, he simply put on his trousers so that he wouldn't feel so scared.
On one side is the elderly mother, on the other side is the young son, and the whole family depends on him for its financial resources.
Thinking about it, I made a stall and started selling roasted sweet potatoes.
He had calculated an account, a medium-sized one, which could be sold for five or six pieces, sold for a basket a day, and made two hundred yuan, and there were more than three thousand yuan a month.
Because the hands and body are always shaking uncontrollably, doing things is particularly slow, and you have to prepare early every day.
Chop the firewood to be used on the day, and bake a stove at the same time, and bake a sweet potato for an hour and a half, so that the stall will not be delayed.
The stalls are out at 11:00 in the morning, and when a basket is sold out, it is often 11:00 midnight when the stalls are closed.
That day, a guy bought a sweet potato for 19 yuan and handed him a 20 yuan piece.
Seeing the old man's pocket, he couldn't turn over a dollar to find change, and said: "Forget it, don't look for it." ”
The young man picked up the sweet potato and turned around and just left, the old man quickly took a small one, chased it shakily, and forced it into him, not forgetting to hand over a cigarette to apologize.
He felt: going out to beg for a living, you can't take advantage of others, your body can stand unsteadily, but people can't be unstable.
In stark contrast to The Old Duo, young people who make a living begging are often met in the subway station.
They are well-rounded and could have earned money by labor, but they had to "sell miserably" to get handouts from others.
The most painful thing in this world is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of faith;
The most desperate thing in the world is often not the blow of setbacks, but the loss of self-confidence.
A piece of coal fell down, so that the life of the "zombie brother" old duo fell to the bottom from then on.
But he did not lose his self-confidence and his faith.
The old duo who can bravely accept the test of life is not a zombie, but a dancer of life.
Uncle Jiang: The son died, and the father paid back 300,000 in 17 years
Uncle Jiang, 76 years old, is now alone and farming for a living.
At the age of 58, my 34-year-old son unfortunately developed cancer.
To see his son, he spent all the family's savings and borrowed more than 300,000 yuan from relatives, friends and neighbors.
When he first became ill, his son just didn't have much strength and didn't want to eat, and he felt that as long as he lived, even if he didn't do anything, he could stay at home.
Later, the son became more and more emaciated day by day, swallowing food and breathing became difficult, and the most unbearable thing was the pain in his body, even with the strongest analgesics, which could not be relieved.
In the end, Uncle Jiang still failed to snatch the child's life from the hands of the God of Death.
Cancer is a desperate thing, and before you have time to enjoy the blessings of your children and grandchildren, you have already experienced the pain of sending white-haired people to black-haired people.
To Uncle Jiang's regret, before his grandson could erect a monument to his father's grave, he was taken back to his mother's house by his daughter-in-law and never came back to see him.
Although his son passed away, in the face of the money borrowed by the four parties, Uncle Jiang always had a fierce spirit in his heart.
He believes that others are willing to lend you money when they feel sorry for you. Therefore, it should be repaid, and those who have not written an IOU must also be repaid.
The year after his son's death, the owner of a woolen sweater factory in Wuxi, seeing that Uncle Jiang was working hard to repay debts, specially left him a position as a mechanic master, 280 yuan a day, signed a lifelong contract.
This proposal was rejected by Uncle Jiang on the spot, on the grounds that it was too little to live, and it was not good to take other people's wages and not work.
Pay off 300,000 yuan, it took 17 years, although the speed is a little slow, but Uncle Jiang feels that the money earned by his own labor is solid.
In the first two years, relying on the two sows raised, planting 20 acres of land, and then doing odd jobs, I could earn a total of more than 30,000 yuan a year, and I had to be faster.
Later, when I got older, the land was planted less and less, and the only ones that could really be repaid every year were eight thousand to ten thousand, and no amount of money could be squeezed out, and I could only pay it back slowly little by little.
So, every time I send money to the creditor, I will carry a voice: I'm sorry, I'm in arrears for too long.
As the saying goes, "a man does not stand without faith", "a small letter becomes a great faith." ”
Uncle Jiang, a strong and great father.
He used actions to explain what is called fatherly love, and he used 17 years to fulfill his promises.
This dedication and integrity is admirable and impressive.
Abdu: No matter how hard it is, we must take good care of and cultivate our children
Abudu, 38 years old, came to Nanjing from Xinjiang in 2004 to sell grilled buns, and it has been 18 years.
5 yuan a baked bun, a day can sell 400 ~ 500 pieces, on this number, he feels that it is still not enough.
In 2010, he was born with twin sons.
At 8 months, they found that their son could not even turn over, always lying quietly, not interested in everything around him.
The result of the medical examination is: cerebral palsy. Caused by compression of the nerves in the posterior head, congestion of blood vessels, damage to cerebral hypoxia. And it can not be operated, can only be controlled with drugs.
The younger son was not spared, but the symptoms were milder and his intelligence was affected.
It's not easy to raise a normal child, let alone two children with cerebral palsy.
The cost of one treatment for cerebral palsy is several hundred. Over the years, it has cost half or sixty thousand just to see his sons.
Economic pressure is one thing, and more importantly, mental pressure.
The eldest son can't take care of himself, needs adults to feed him when he's hungry, needs adults to help him get dressed when he's cold, and needs adults to change diapers when urinating and defecating.
A little mistake, the child will be hungry, frozen, hurt.
What is even more painful is that the eldest son always likes to hit his head, scratching his face full of wounds, but he does not feel pain.
His grilled bun stall is the main source of income for the whole family, and he can't help it; the eldest son needs to be taken care of and can't do without people.
Therefore, during the interval between treatments, the eldest son will be sent back to his hometown in Xinjiang and specially cared for by his grandmother. Wait for a while to pick up and continue the treatment.
As for the second eldest, he has always taken him with him, and he has suffered a loss of no culture, no matter what, he must let his son study well.
His son had a problem with his intelligence and could not keep up with his studies, so he specially asked the teacher to help him with his homework, even if it cost thousands of dollars every month.
He can't teach, and the only thing he can do is encourage his son over and over again, telling him to study hard.
Now, the eldest son rarely beats himself, and the younger son has also read junior high school, which makes him feel very pleased.
But there is no way to cure the disease of cerebral palsy, how to let the two sons have a dependence, can get the best care, has always been the most reassuring thing in his heart.
Three years later, he and his wife thought twice, gave birth to the third older, and the economic expenditure increased, but they preferred to see it as a hope.
He said: "Cultivate the second and third elders well, and they will be able to have a good future in the future; they can let the boss live as well as them, get the best care, and the hard work in their lives is worth it."
In fact, life is very ordinary, very simple. No matter what you encounter, you need to rely on firm faith and optimistic attitude to face.
Just like Abu Du, the grievances in his heart have nowhere to say, the pressure on his shoulders is not shared, and the only thing he can do is to do his best to make the children's future life better.
Although this strong father's love is invisible, it is experienced with the heart, and it is deeply touching and worthy of respect.
Brother Bing: The purpose of doing takeaway is to not do takeaway and be the boss
Brother Bing, who is now the owner of a mutton restaurant, retired from the army in 2009 and served as a soldier in the armed police mobile unit for five years.
Unlike other bosses, he wants to be a boss, not only to make money, but also to have time to participate in rescue operations.
It turned out that he had another identity, a volunteer of the Blue Sky Rescue Team, who provided free help to those in need.
In his own words: "Opening a lamb restaurant is for life, and doing blue sky rescue is for the lives of more people." ”
Everyone's life is good, I am happy, and drinking is beautiful.
The Blue Sky Rescue Team, many people are not familiar with it, but they must remember the heavy rainstorm in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, on july 20 last year.
In that rescue operation, the Blue Sky Rescue Team sent more than 1,000 volunteers, arrived at the first time, and the last one quietly left.
(The Blue Sky Rescue Team immediately transported the search and rescue boat to the scene of the disaster and prepared to transfer the masses.) ）
(On the way to move the crowd, members of the Blue Sky Rescue Team dragged search and rescue boats and walked hard in the water.) ）
If you want to become a volunteer, you can participate in the rescue at any time, you must be free of time, and you must be the boss yourself.
Just after retiring from the army, Brother Bing worked as a security guard, sold too early, worked as a cook, and finally chose to run takeaway.
Running a single takeaway, like sending an egg fried rice, others will give five yuan, at most, a day can run more than 110 orders, earn five or six hundred yuan.
After three years of crazy running, I made some money and finally realized my dream of that year.
Brother Bing is just a microcosm of this group of people, in the past two years, after experiencing the test of the epidemic, let us understand better:
The so-called good years are just someone carrying the weight for us.
When Ms. Song Qingling gave the preface to "Bethune's Biography", she wrote this passage:
The hero of any era is such a person:
With astonishing loyalty, determination, courage and skill, they accomplished the important tasks that were placed before everyone in that era.
Such a person deserves our admiration and gratitude.
Mr. Yang Dai said in the "Speech of one hundred years old": "In this materialistic world, life is really bitter enough. ”
On this road of life, each of us has stumbled. Whose life is not a chicken feather, not a slow hammer?
Tear apart the true face of life, you will find that the adult world has long been devastated and vulnerable.
Compared to celebrities, they are all ordinary people.
Those small things that are not worth mentioning for celebrities will be insurmountable big things for them.
They occasionally wretched, still brave enough to live well.
Such a person deserves respect, and it is more worthy of a hot search.
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