The ancients said that men avoid mothers and women avoid fathers, saying that children should keep a distance from their relatives of the opposite sex when they grow up, and their behavior when they get along should not be too intimate, so as not to be unnecessarily gossiped. So, in the 21st century, should we continue to observe the "etiquette" of the ancients?
Recently, a netizen in Meizhou, Guangdong Province, uploaded a video to the online platform with the text "Eat my woman who wears me and hugs me." Seeing this copywriting title is indeed easy to make people think wildly, read the comments to know that this netizen is complaining that the son is only close to the mother, so that the old father is jealous.
Once the video was issued, the comments did not stop, the opinions of netizens were divided into two factions, netizens who opposed such a mother-hugging behavior or quoted the old saying of "male big avoiding mother", thinking that boys should keep a distance from their mothers when they grow up, can not hug their waists like lovers, and really want to be close to their mothers, and they can put on their shoulders.
As soon as the opponents' remarks came out, they immediately attracted the complaints of supporters, saying that these people were wrapped in their brains like small feet. It is believed that today's China is no longer a period of feudal superstition, and there is no need to abide by the ancients' set. Some netizens even commented and asked: "As soon as my son is born, I will commit suicide in order to avoid suspicion?" ”
After reading the comments of supporters, Xiaobian was also completely impressed by their humor. Chinese society has always been progressing, there are some old rules that really need to be changed, the ancients must pay attention to etiquette in everything, require children to have the appearance of adults, and abide by various rules in front of their parents. But now we have always advocated cutting out the complicated and simplifying, and the rules that do not conform to human nature must be changed.
The son's walking with his mother is nothing more than a good relationship with his mother and closeness to his mother, which is an expression of love and does not have to be on the line.
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