The daughter-in-law always said: If a person's emotional intelligence is low, nothing can be done.
Family, trivial things, will become a chicken flying dog jump war, and eventually good things will become a chicken feather. Career, will not read people's hearts, will never know what the other party wants, will answer the question, will be in the people want to drink tea you handed a cigarette past, in the end can only be everywhere to hit the wall.
So is there a solution to this?
Yes!
If you want to have high emotional intelligence, you must first know what high emotional intelligence is:
One. Inward transparency:
Have a strong sense of self,
Know your emotions,
Can manage emotions,
can be revived from sorrow and misfortune,
Can control impulses,
Also know how to delay gratification,
Thus avoiding rash decisions and inappropriate behavior;
Two. Empathize outwardly
Be able to recognize the feelings of others,
Build good relationships with others by understanding and responding to each other's emotions.
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