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Sometimes, whether a woman loves a person or not is extremely obvious. If you like you, you will take the initiative and will enjoy the time with you; if you don't like you, even if you are really idle and bored, they will tell you that there is no time when you look for her.
Where a person's time and energy is spent, the heart is there.
For a woman, if she has feelings for a member of the opposite sex, she will put him in a very special and important position in her heart. She has become not only extremely brave in front of you, but also extremely active, which is a way for her to express love and a powerful force that love gives her.
Usually, if a woman treats you as a future lover, she will often give you two hints, the second of which is particularly obvious.
One: Take the initiative to ask you out and treat you differently in terms of timing
Women treat you as true love, what you see in your eyes and think in your heart is often only you, she will take the initiative to ask you out, take the initiative to create time with you. Lying to others that you are busy, but always free, this kind of differential treatment is actually the most direct manifestation of loving someone.
In the process of interacting with the opposite sex, if you find a woman, often take the initiative to chat with you, often ask you out, it can be seen that you are very important to her.
Modern people are very busy, time is precious, where to invest time costs, it shows where her heart is; who invests energy costs in it, it shows who is the most important person in her heart.
The person who takes the initiative to ask you out and treats you differently in terms of timing may love you more than you think.
Two: Take the initiative to give, give you certain privileges in gender interactions
Ethicist Rabbi Dessler said:
"One of the big misconceptions people have about love is that you think you can give everything for your loved ones. In fact, the real answer should be that you fall in love with the person who can make you give everything. ”
If a woman meets true love, then she will willingly give for the other person.
After Xiaolu and her boyfriend were together, they felt the long-lost heartbeat and happiness. Falling in love, she will always silently write down her boyfriend's various preferences, from the taste of eating to the model that her boyfriend likes.
Every once in a while, the little heron would pick out a gift from her boyfriend's exclusive memo as a small surprise. The boyfriend is very impressed, but he also feels a little overwhelmed:
"You see you always prepare surprises for me, but I don't prepare you, have you needed anything lately?" Can I buy it for you? ”
Every time the little heron waved his hand and said: If you are happy, I am not short of anything.
This sentence is not against her heart for Xiaolu, she enjoys the process of preparing gifts for her boyfriend, and sometimes just writes a letter and starts laughing.
She said: "I am financially independent, mentally independent, and I have no other intentions for him than to hope that he will like me." ”
Even if her friends around her occasionally advise her, she must have a degree of payment, and do not always know how to give and do not know what to receive. But in reality, a woman is really in love with someone, and that's it.
She loves you, so paying for you is something she is willing to do, no matter how you treat her, as long as she still loves you, she will give, it will be good to you.
If a man meets a woman who is willing to pay for himself, please cherish it, because once she is hurt and no longer loves you, then she will be like a changed person, cold and rational to you.
No matter how brave, persistent, and willing to give, women should also remember that the person in the world who deserves your love is yourself, and don't hurt yourself because of a man.
Love is not a one-man show, and if you find that a woman has feelings for you, think carefully about what you think of her.
If you also like her, then you may wish to respond positively, so as not to miss a real love; if you don't like it, you will refuse it at the first time, so as not to get deeper and deeper, and finally be hurt a lot.
Love between adults, sometimes not so complicated, like to be together, do not like to keep a distance.
If everyone could face love with such an honest and frank attitude, there would not be so many idiotic men and women and the tragedy of love.
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