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Now many young people have become parents early, for these "happy to be fathers" of young fathers, they themselves are a child who has not yet grown up, sometimes they can't take care of themselves, and now they have to take care of their children, and the results can be imagined.
The parents take care of the children basically chickens and dogs, and they are busy. The children are in the hands of careless fathers, thankfully they can survive, and they can't expect to be well taken care of.
Recently, there is a video that goes viral, in which a dad holding a child's hand doesn't know where to put it. The people around looked at The father's anxious face, and the helpless look was very funny, and they were all sad about the child who was held in the arms of the father.
It was very uncomfortable to see the child twisting and turning in the arms of the father, and the new father was tossed and sweaty, and the child was also uncomfortable and crying. Dads really don't have much experience with children compared to moms.
For the grandfather, how can he better take the child?
1. Be more humble and ask for advice
If fathers want to bring up their children well, they must not rely only on instinct, and must humbly ask their mothers for advice. When the mother is taking the child, it is best to watch from the side when the father is fine and see how the mothers take care of the child. Only by watching more, will it not be busy and dizzy in practice.
Dads should take more parenting from their mothers, after all, it is almost instinctive for mothers to take their children, not to mention that they have accumulated a bunch of experience after a long time with children. It is absolutely wise to ask them, as long as the fathers have the right mentality and learn humbly for the sake of their children, they will certainly be able to take better care of their children.
2. Be more attentive
There are always all sorts of trivial things to look out for when taking care of children. After all, children are so small and fragile, they need to be carefully cared for and carefully cared for.
Fathers must pay more attention when taking care of their children, put the safety of their children in the first place, and it is best not to take care of their children and be busy with work. It's easy to get so busy that you forget your child, which can lead to an accident. There was once an accident in which a father was busy working while caring for his child and ended up forgetting the child in the car, causing the child to suffocate and die. This incident has sounded a wake-up call to the majority of dads: you must not be half-hearted with children!
3. Be more attentive
Most dads are very careless, after all, men don't pay attention to details like women, they are very rough in many ways. But when taking care of children, dads must be careful and cautious. Many times their carelessness often leads to irreparable results, and the news of children being lost by careless fathers is endless. Therefore, when taking care of their children, fathers must play a twelve-point spirit, pay more attention, and do not regret because of a momentary mistake.
When taking care of children, fathers should put care first, and try not to let the child out of their sight. Observe the child's expression and movement to judge whether they are hungry, thirsty, or sleepy, and meet the child's needs in time.
As long as fathers can take care of their children with humility, heart and care, I believe that they will make more and more progress in taking care of their children. Experience is not achieved overnight, as long as it is continuously accumulated, I believe that it will not be long before the parenting experience of fathers will be as rich as that of mothers. At that time, the fathers will not be in a hurry to take care of the children, but will be at ease and enjoy it.