【Emotional help】Grandma gives relatives 1000 children 500 for each of our children Is it fair?

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Take two daughters in the child's grandparents' home for the New Year, after the morning after the grandparents gave a red envelope each, this time they took the red envelope on the spot to dismantle, after the demolition to know another relative's family a boy is 1000 pieces, my two daughters each 500, my eldest daughter on the spot asked her grandparents why the red envelopes are not the same, so is not a son preference, so that we adults a bit can not come to the stage, I trained my daughter to say that she does not understand things, she is not convinced that the grandparents are unfair.

This is also the first time I know that the amount of red envelopes that the elderly give to each child is not the same, think carefully as if they are not wrong, but for children feel that the treatment is not the same psychological imbalance, and I don't know how to explain to the child, just say that the red envelope should be sent according to the family or the number of children?

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