A man's life is more exciting, because the man's world is relatively broad.
After the man has just become an adult, the man will have the beginning of his love, at this time, the man is also more bold, and there will be many brothers around him, and these brothers will talk about women when they are with this man for a long time.
From this aspect, men know more about women, and men are more exposed to women.
After getting a man who is slightly older, this man has to run for his career again, and when he is running for his career, he will meet some people, and there will be some women around at this time, and it is inevitable that some women will talk to this man, and men will once again understand a lot of women.
In this respect, men come into contact with more women than women of their own age.
A man will have many women around him in his lifetime, but he only loves one the most, and in this regard, men are also more dedicated.
01.
When I was in college, there was a classmate surnamed Liu, this Liu classmate is a very magical figure, each time the object of conversation will not exceed a month, after a few days of talking, there are few hasty scorers, so everyone thinks that this is a scumbag.
When I was not very familiar with Liu, I felt that the other party was also a scumbag, and later, by chance, I participated in a club activity with Liu, and since then, the two of us have left contact information, and in the future club activities, the two people will also cooperate.
After the two of us became friends, Classmate Liu suddenly pursued me, and at that time I was still wary of Classmate Liu, and I felt that this person was a bad person.
Later, the other party's sincerity touched me, half a year later, the two of us established a relationship between male and female friends, Liu and I talked about the object, but talked for two and a half years, and still maintain a relationship of lovers.
Later, I asked Liu: "Why did your previous girlfriends break up after talking for a few days or less than a month?" ”
Classmate Liu told me: "Those are all casual looking, and you are the real, and you talk to the longest, before I did not know what I wanted, with you, I found out that you are the right person." ”
Liu told me: "In a man's heart, there is always only one woman who loves most, although there will be many women around, but the person who loves most is always only that person." ”
So we Liu classmates: "What kind of person do you love the most?" ”
Liu said that time will tell me the answer.
02.
Maybe a man is always surrounded by some women, and the relationship with these women is not long, so you have colored glasses for this man, you feel that this man is not a good man, or a scumbag, and you are not willing to talk to this man.
In fact, sometimes, it is not that this man is particularly bad, but that this man has not yet met a woman who makes him particularly concerned, so every relationship is gone after a few days.
I have been with Liu classmates for more than two years, almost three years, the feelings of the two people are particularly stable, but just a few days ago, the two of us had a conflict, I proposed to break up with Liu classmates, in fact, I just scared each other, but scared each other not lightly.
After I said this sentence, the other party did not sleep for two or three days, and kept coming to me, and his eyes were red, and I found that a man can really pay for a woman, and it also confirmed that this person is not a scumbag.
After the two of us reconciled, I asked Liu why he was so kind to me? Did you change for me?
Liu said: The woman who will always love deeply in her heart is the woman who makes herself hurt and hates, but lets herself love it.
Maybe many people think that this is an ordinary love sentence, and it is also a sentence that men prevaricate women, but when you really reach that step, you will find that what this person said is true, because some of the performances of the other party are enough to explain everything.
After I was with Liu, I was also a very individual, in my heart, there was always a fire burning, when I was with each other, the other party had many girlfriends before, so I was insecure, so I proposed to break up with each other in three days.
But the other party still did not agree to break up with me, pestering me again and again, just like this, I knew more and more about the other party, but felt that this was a good person.
Although I sometimes get particularly bad and ruthlessly propose to break up with each other, I am a girl with principles and a bottom line, I have my own self-esteem and self-love, and I also have my own feelings and feelings.
I don't have an improper relationship with my boyfriend within a few days like other girls, and I feel that this kind of thing should be reserved until after marriage, and I think this is one of the reasons why this man can always be with me, because my self-esteem and self-love will also make the other person feel that I am a particularly precious person.
03.
Girls must first love themselves well, and when you love yourself very much, you can expect this man to love you.
On the other hand, don't judge a man with colored glasses, maybe the man's previous emotional path was not smooth, but this does not mean that the man will fail you after being with you.
As a woman, you must believe in your own charm, maybe others did not take this man down, but on your side, this man will be taken down by you.
There is also that women must have self-respect and self-love, because in this way, men will be impressed with you, especially some men have talked about a lot of girlfriends, many women are not self-respecting and self-loving, and less than a few days with men, they give everything to this man, so men feel that such women are very ordinary, all on the street.
So after you are with a man, you are a particularly conservative person, everything is left until marriage, men will feel that you are different from other women, things are rare and precious, men will feel that you are a particularly rare person, and they are also willing to be with you, because men find it difficult to find a girl in this world who thinks like you.
Women should also learn to love men well, when you pay well for this man, men can love you well, good and good are mutual.
Of course, girls should not hang on a tree, if you find that this man really does not love you, then at this time also know how to stop the loss in time, do not think to move each other, because your youth is limited.
In love, you must think more about yourself, especially a girl, girls are already in a weak position in love, if you don't think more about yourself, you give everything for each other, and in the end you have nothing, which is a fatal blow to a woman, and it is also a nightmare for a lifetime.