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During the Spring Festival
Parents and friends can't help but take their children to visit relatives and friends
This is the time for the child
A great time to conduct civilized etiquette education!
Today, let's take a look
How to let children learn the Spring Festival etiquette
Have a good Chinese New Year!
Ask for etiquette
Moms and Dads can teach their children to say hello with gestures beforehand: holding their fists and seeing friends and family smiling and greeting.
The traditional New Year's greeting gesture has been different from that of men and women in ancient times, and the standard male posture is a fist with the right hand, the left hand wrapped, the wrists tight, and shaken back and forth (as shown above). Because the right hand is the attacker, it should be wrapped up to show goodwill. Women do the opposite, but women do not hold their fists, only press their hands, do not hold their wrists, and shake back and forth (pictured below).
In terms of blessings, parents can teach their children to say auspicious words and greetings such as "Wishing you prosperity", "Happy New Year", "Good Health", and "All the Best".
Receive the red packet ceremony
When the elders give the red envelopes, the children should take them with both hands and say thank you to the elders. If the child is too young to do it, parents can hold the child's hand, take the red envelope with both hands, and then take the child together to say "thank you".
Parents should say good to the children in advance, accept the red envelope, and never open it in front of the guests, which is not polite. The best thing to do is to put the red envelope in Mom and Dad's bag or your own bag right away.
Table etiquette
When eating and sitting at the seat and starting to eat, the elder should be orderly, the elderly first, and the young people later. Children should eat by themselves, and the meals clipped into the bowl should be eaten, so as to cherish the food and not waste food!
And before eating, parents should educate their children: "Delicious things everyone likes, so there are good things on the dinner table that everyone can share together!" ”
Be a guest of etiquette
Parents should make a reservation by phone in advance and arrive on time before the New Year. Knock gently on the door of the New Year's eve family, if the doorbell is only heard once.
After entering the door, parents should guide their children to take the initiative to arrange the shoes they have taken off after saying hello. Remember to ask your child to say "thank you" when they are entertained.
Entering a relative's house, sitting in a standardized posture, telling the child in advance that it is impolite to move other people's things casually, and if you want to play with toys or read books, you must get the consent of the owner.
Hospitality
When there are guests, parents should guide and encourage their children to greet the guests kindly and proactively. After the guests enter the house, the older children can do some simple hospitality work, such as: the guest comes, use the "please" gesture to invite the guest into the door, and invite the guest to sit down, hand the tea to the guest with both hands, and say "please drink tea" and so on.
When talking to adults, let the child understand that quietly doing his own thing is a good child, and walking back and forth and casually interjecting is disrespectful to the guest.
When there are small guests, generously take out toys to play with small guests, which will make the young guests extra happy. When the guest leaves, the parents can lead the child to send the guest for a while, and the parent can say to the child: "Say goodbye to the ××, and come again when you have time!" "Even if parents teach their children to say it, speaking out of their children's mouths will make guests feel happy. After such a hearing, the child will surely become a polite little master.
Telephone etiquette
When the child answers the phone, he should learn to say polite words such as "hello", "please ask", "please wait"; when calling, he should first report his name and explain the person he is looking for;
When answering the phone, there should be questions and answers, be generous when answering questions, do not respond to each other's questions for a long time, and do not throw the phone away and run elsewhere when you do not know how to answer; when adults call, children should not interject or grab the microphone;
When hanging up the microphone, you should take it lightly, do not drop the microphone, or hang up the phone heavily; when answering the phone, learn to say "goodbye", and then hang up the phone, don't just hang up the phone after you finish speaking;
Pay attention to the time of the call, the call time should not be too long, and do not choose too early or too late time to call, so as not to affect the rest of others.
Shopping etiquette
Go with adults to buy New Year goods, can not taste food casually, but also follow the adults to go, the New Year is crowded, don't get lost! In case you can't find an adult, you have to stand where you are and wait, don't follow the stranger!
The above content can be summarized into the three-word tips that children are easy to remember, come and read it, remember it:
When the guest arrives, get up and greet;
Introduction seat, tea water respect;
First acquaintance, make an introduction;
With honorific titles, polite.
Visit relatives and friends, knock on the door;
People in the future, do not trespass;
Respect the tea, hands connected;
Sit in a straight posture and talk;
Don't overturn, don't break in;
When parting, there are courtesies.
Let us lead by example, set a good example of etiquette for children, let children learn traditional etiquette, and become a good child who understands the rules, is polite, and is loved by everyone when visiting relatives and friends and participating in relatives and friends gatherings!