For the future other half, some people will feel that it doesn't matter if the other party is not as good as themselves in all aspects, they just like it.
Some people are bent on finding a person who is much better than their own conditions and rewriting their fate through the other party.
And more people, than high or low, just want to find a similar to themselves.
Whether it is education, family background, ability, or insight, it is best to be on the same level with each other. This is what people say, two people just happen to be in the right place, evenly matched.
Most people want their marriage to be just like that, and it makes sense that they think.
In marriage, two people are almost the same in all aspects, and it will really be a very good thing.
It can even be said that this is really important for each other's marriage.
Only when the economy is similar can the status be more equal.
In the marriage relationship, it is reasonable to say that two people are actually a whole, and all the ownership is also the joint property of the husband and wife.
But in fact, when one person has no income and depends on another person to support them, or when one person's income is very low and the other person's income is much higher, it is often difficult to really have much mutual respect for each other.
In a family, more often, a person's income really determines a person's right to speak.
When the disparity between each other is too big, even if they love each other at the beginning, the days are long, one of them will always feel very wronged, the other party will always appear to have some hesitation, and the relationship between the two people will easily be unbalanced.
On the contrary, if each other's conditions are not too different, the income is relatively equal, no one has to look up to anyone, no one has to feel how great they are, and the two people will really respect each other more.
Not only that, in addition to respect, there will also be a reverence, everything will take care of each other's feelings, always have a discussion with each other, and live a good life together, rather than always excluding each other.
I agree with a sentence that only economic independence can have a straight soul, and the same is true for living a life, and we all have the ability to appreciate and cooperate with each other.
Between men and women, the status in the family, that is given by the other party, in fact, it is also up to themselves to fight.
With the same level of thought, communication will be fine.
When it comes to falling in love, the more different two people are, sometimes the more they will attract each other.
Because I am curious about another way of life, which I have not experienced, I will feel very fresh, because the other party is living a life that I have not touched at all, and I will also want to see it with my own eyes.
In such a situation, two people with a particularly large disparity do have the opportunity to start a relationship, but even if they are together, it does not necessarily mean that they will be happy in the future, and many problems will only come to them.
For example, living habits will be very different, and for some problems faced, each other's ideas will always be very inconsistent.
No one can understand anyone, no one can convince anyone, and each other just feels very tired and doubts the vision of the past.
Two people whose ideas are not at one level, the feelings are really difficult to maintain, and only each other's thoughts are really quite similar, even if they are not similar, at least at the same level, they will be more harmonious together.
It is easy to fall in love, it is never so simple to get along, and it is not enough to want to get along more pleasantly, just to have love.
We must recognize each other, each other can flow, and each other can really communicate well for many things. In the depths of the soul, each other is the same kind of person, or rather, each other is originally the same person.
No one suffers a loss, and the relationship can be more long-lasting.
Over the years, everyone will have relationships with many people, but many relationships, walking and walking, will not be there.
It may be that they have different directions for each other, so they go to different places, and perhaps in that relationship, someone feels that they have suffered losses, so they choose to stop losses in time and simply quit.
Any relationship is good, but where there is not so much balance between each other, there is always a person taking advantage, a person is losing, for a long time, this relationship, often only helpless.
Even if it is love, it is the same, at first it is fresh, no one will be so calculated, after the freshness, each other will begin to calculate gains and losses, and begin to think about what the other party has brought for themselves, whether they have suffered a lot.
Mutual benefits are great, just a slight loss, which does not matter, but if one party feels that they have lost more, once they have this feeling, the feelings will often become precarious.
Basically, the two people are not much different, that is, in order to feel that it is more cost-effective to choose each other, so as to make the relationship more stable.
Marriage seems to be because of love, in essence, it is also a cooperation, this cooperation, everyone is the same, what they want is to win.
It is with each other that I will live better, and I also long for this relationship to be relatively happy and long-lasting.
Indeed, when it comes to marriage, the door is really important.
Not only is it important in the beginning, but later on, it is also important.
It is best to find a partner, find a similar to yourself, feel more satisfied, after marriage, but also try to maintain the same pace with the other party, do not fall too far behind.
In unison, in tandem, naturally, each other will feel nourished and their choices worth it.
Otherwise, this relationship may really have problems at any time, and it is difficult to end well.
It is not that the other party is weak, but that each other is not so matched, not so compatible.
There are some problems that may be hidden for the time being, not discovered, and become a gap between each other, but with the passage of time, the problems will only become clearer and clearer, and each other will only become more and more unable to tolerate and settle.
Text/Tan Meng
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