Write to the chaser in the flames| retreat at the right time

Many of the chasers I've met have been particularly pitiful at a certain time.

There are those who cry silently. There are also howling and crying. Keep asking yourself why. Why does your flame not care about you?

From a human perspective. How can there be only one person chasing. It's so sadistic

Not from a human perspective. I'm actually hurting to chase the party too. Although I know there's a reason for all of this. Although I know that the chaser is the more spiritual side. It is often because of the chase that the fugitive party can communicate the whole line.

A lot of chasers are in the process. Gradually cold, gradually give up.

Because. Whether she knew that she and the other party were twin flames. No matter how strong her heart is. She would still be overwhelmed by the nameless pain. Even though she knew she was in an illusion. Even though she knew to get out of the illusion.

Therefore, the chasing party in the double fire will definitely have a moment when it becomes the fleeing party.

Remember when I said that it is easy for a long-distance Rongqin to produce twin flames?

There is a stage in the relationship stage of the long-distance Rongqin that is exactly the same as the pursuit of the double fire.

This stage is that Rong is extinguished by the relatives and no longer has illusions. Therefore, most of the Rong relatives will be scattered at this stage.

Whether it is Rongqin or Double Fire. Actually this stage. It is Rong Fang and The Pursuer who see the feelings clearly and feel hopeless. Feel like you can't shake the other person no matter what. Feel like someone who is always locked out. And some Rong Fang and Chaser will laugh at themselves for their ridiculous and amorous ignorance. This is because in the beginning, it is often the relatives and the fleeing parties who are attracted to get close to Rongchai. Just this attraction. They themselves don't know why. I thought it was a joke.

Whether it is a glorious relative or a double fire, it is sacred.

But I said before that if Rong Fang and Chasing Fang are too Virgin Heart. Then it is not that it will not encounter bad relatives and fugitives. In particular, some relatives who have their own karmic problems or their own problems have escaped. He may have started out with Rongchai as a real-life escape. I didn't put my feelings into it from start to finish. Always use a prodigal heart to hurt the other party.

And ordinary humans. For those who do not know about the relationship between honor and the twin flames. They don't know the cause and effect. Naturally, they think it's sadomasochism, bad luck.

The essence of honor and double fire does not produce iniquity or debt repayment.

But the abuse in the blood, after all, is because mortals do not understand the cause and effect between them.

The reason why this article is to be written for the chaser. It's because I'm really upset about chasing the party. But what I can tell the pursuer is. This stage. It's not something I can omit for you.

someday. Maybe you'll become the escapee. Although essentially you are still chasing the party. This will not change your spirituality and talent.

From that day on. You won't be so soft-hearted anymore. You won't expect anything more. You won't care anymore.

It's not all because you don't care about the other person anymore. but. You don't care what you think of each other anymore.

Maybe I'm talking a bit of a detour.

It's like someone telling you, don't think too much. But he asked you again, did you miss him? Because for him. Maybe he wants you to think about him, but don't think too much about it.

For the pursuing party. If you think about him, you think too much. Either you just don't think about him at all.

Thinking too much here is not thinking too much in the human mind. but. Sincerely hope that everything is fine for the other party. Silently watching the other person from appearance to departure. Look at your message over and over again. I don't want to think of you as a bad person anyway. Self-deception tells yourself that the other person cares about you too. But all this is too much to think about. You won't ask the other person to actually come and see you. Nor will you ask the other person to do anything for you.

All this to think about too much. Just because. Like you. Like you too much.

I once gave an example. I once replied to a girl's message and said that you are not in his world.

There are many types of worlds you are not in. Some are benign, some are unkind

For example. There was a boy. He sends good morning to girls every morning! He often shares some funny videos to girls. But the girl did not click on the dialog box from the beginning to the end.

Because. For girls. It was a common friend of his. You can also have a polite conversation on weekdays. But he didn't want to get too close to the other person. It is a kind of public socialized friend. But that doesn't mean that girls are a bad person. If it is a friend who can talk, a friend who can get along, he is very willing to talk to the other party often. But if it is some ordinary friends, she is so polite that she will not talk much, nor will she pretend to be intimate. In fact, she can feel that doing this way may not feel good for others, after all, others will feel as if they are not respected. But there is no way. Because you can't be the same for everyone. Even if it is a fraternal person. He also couldn't be enthusiastic about everyone.

The example I gave is to tell the chaser. If your escapee does the same to you. so. You can leave for a while first. Let him think for himself whether he wants you to be a passerby. If you send a message to someone. It's been a long, long time since the other person got back to you. If he is like this to everyone. So please ask yourself first. Do you want such love?

Of course, he may not love you.

If, when your escapee wants to see you, you go. When your escapee doesn't want to see you, you disappear.

It's no wonder that you're unbalanced.

If the other person sends you a message. say. Come and save me, if you don't come again, I will be washed away by the water.

You ran over with a chuckle. Find that the other person is playing a game.

If you send a message to the other person. say. Come and save me, if you don't come again, I will be washed away by the water. He said. Then you should call the police. or. Two days later he opened the information box on his phone. you. Deceased. Rest assured, he won't really come to worship you.

If so. Do you want such love?

Of course I said it at the beginning. This stage is not something I can help you omit.

The chaser has greater strength but is more likely to die in the middle of the road. The reason for this is often that the fleeing party has not yet begun to truly fall in love with you.

The escapee will love you. If it is a fugitive. However, this day is far away. This life is not yet known.

You may find it strange, aren't you supposed to comfort me? Why does what you say feel like it's trying to persuade me to leave?

Not. I'm just going to make it clear to you why.

The chaser could not stop his love. So it would be painful for you to let her not love. It's as if you make it painful for her not to think about it.

The reason why rongqin, double fire, will not see each other for many years and still feel like the first sight is because the spiritual connection between you cannot be severed.

But. As a chaser, you must not hurt yourself. Especially don't love to the point of madness, don't cry blind eyes, you let your flames sort out by themselves. Your timely retreat, your timely departure. It will also make sense.