A few days ago I took my children to Wanda Plaza to eat, in a frequent restaurant, I first went to the front desk to check the order, my husband went inside to see if there was a suitable position, my 6-year-old son and my 11-year-old daughter followed me, after a while my husband came out and asked me: Son?
I subconsciously pointed to the side: Isn't it?
But as I looked in the direction I was pointing, my son was gone.
I was shocked and asked my daughter: What about my brother?
My daughter replied as she walked toward the store: Maybe I'll go in!
I followed my daughter inside to see, but there was no trace of my son. I called my son's name aloud, ignoring the strange eyes of the diners inside, and my husband saw the situation and quickly ran out of the door, running in the opposite direction when we came.
I told my daughter to let her go in again, and if she couldn't find it, she waited for us at the door of this shop and ran out with my husband.
It was almost New Year's, there were a lot of people outside, we ran about 50 meters, and saw my son walking slowly forward, next to an old lady bending down to talk to my son while walking with my son in the direction he was walking.
My husband pulled my son aside and yelled at my grandmother: What are you doing?
When the grandmother saw this scene, she said with a blank face: I saw the child walking here alone, so I asked him, thinking of helping him find his parents!
After saying that, the grandmother turned into a door next to it.
In a panic, I grabbed my son and asked him why he was going forward alone.
It turned out that he played alone at the door for a while, did not see us around, thought we were going forward, wanted to see if we could catch up with us, did not expect that after a while the old lady came to the side to talk to him, my son remembered that I had shown him before the children's self-protection picture book, which had a book that told the child not to talk to strangers, so he did not pay attention to the old lady just now, saying that he wanted to find the mall security guard to lend us a phone, and we found it.
I don't know if this old lady is a kid kidnapper, even if it's a 0.1% chance, I don't want to think in the worst direction, only that I may lose my son almost a little bit.
As the year draws to a close, traffickers are starting to run rampant again, and at this time of year, anti-trafficking is a hot topic. In addition to the palpitations, Dou Mama wants to talk to you about the topic of anti-abduction today.
Selfishness is an important reason for the occurrence of trafficking
On December 19, Sun Haiyang, who successfully searched for his son, set up a banquet in Shenzhen to welcome Sun Zhuo home and thanked all sectors of society for their help. As soon as the news came out, everyone's tense heart was also soothed Sun Zhuo could finally go home after 14 years.
Looking back at Sun Haiyang's journey of searching for a son, what exactly made Sun Zhuo's news disappear for 14 years. Why didn't anyone call the police? Why can the buyer be so comfortable in occupying Sun Zhuo? Why do neighbors in the same village also choose to hide and cover up? Subconsciously, they believe that the children they spend money to buy are their own children, and despite morality, their legal awareness is also very weak.
I have no sympathy for the "buyers" who abduct children, on the contrary, I am very disgusted with them, they hold children that do not belong to them, so that abducted children cannot enjoy the care and pampering of their biological parents, so that the parents of abducted families suffer from the loss of children.
For Sun Haiyang, finding Sun Zhuo is a blessing in misfortune. After fourteen years of searching, he finally got a happy ending, facing the camera, he just calmly recounted the process of finding his son over the years, and who could see him cry helplessly in the middle of the night? For Sun Zhuo, on the one hand, he is the "buyer" parents who have raised him for fourteen years, although there are no blood relatives, but so many years have long made him have inseparable feelings, while on the other hand, he is struggling to find his own biological parents, for a teenager, he has endured the suffering that should not be endured at this age.
Neglect of adults! Push the kids towards the bad guys
When we were still immersed in the joy of Sun Haiyang finding his son, we saw a news on Weibo that made many people's hearts just soothed: an old man did not find his grandson missing in order to play mahjong.
According to the news, the child disappeared at three o'clock in the afternoon and did not look for it until six o'clock. Suppose the child is abducted, three hours, enough to make the child disappear without a trace.
If the child is not found, these slaps are just a reason to comfort herself, and no one will feel pain. Since the child's parents are assured to bring the child to the elderly, should the elderly take on the responsibility of caring for the child? Does it have to pay a blood price to attract attention?
A second of neglect will make children fall into the "poisonous hands" of bad people.
Three hours of indifference will ruin the happiness of the child.
The Spring Festival is approaching, and parents will always look after their children when gathering with their relatives, and do not let human traffickers take advantage of it. Struggle for a lifetime is not for the sake of the child, if the child is gone due to your neglect, the shame will accompany it for a lifetime.
Don't let your child fall into the market of buying and selling because of neglect.
Sadly, abducted children are not in the minority
Out of sympathy and curiosity, I went to Baidu, and the results I got were so long that I couldn't calm down – more than 15 million children are trafficked every year.
What makes these kidnappers lawless, and what makes their industrial chains enduring? It's an increasing number of buyers, and there's a high deal! These have made them lose their minds, lose their final bottom line, and resolutely and resolutely go to the road of no return for child trafficking.
If, parental neglect is the reason why the child is abducted, then the strong demand in the buyer market will be another important reason. As we all know, there is no harm in not buying and selling. Therefore, Sun Haiyang appealed: buying and selling the same sin! I raised my hands in approval.
However, with the improvement of laws and regulations and the strengthening of supervision, the number of abducted children has declined sharply in recent years.
"According to article 240 of the Criminal Law, whoever buys an abducted woman or child shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention or public surveillance."
Fortunately, we live in a country with a rule of law, and in order to ensure the safety of children, the state has successively promulgated child protection laws, which have added more protection to the growth of children. To be fair, I think the sentence of less than three years is still too light and should be severely punished for these bad guys.
How to prevent abduction?
(1) Prepare a recent photo of your child
Take a picture of your child with your phone before you go out, make a card with your parent's contact information and home address for your child, and put it around your child's neck.
(2) Information security
Be careful not to reveal your child's details to strangers. Do not disclose your itinerary when traveling, so as not to be targeted by people with hearts.
(3) Conduct safety education
Safety education for children is not limited to allowing children not to talk to strangers, but to enhance children's self-defense awareness.
Recommend a large anti-abduction and anti-deception children's self-protection picture book, very suitable for young children to see, this set of picture books has a total of six books, all of which teach children how to protect themselves, how to identify various dangers in life, such as "No! I Don't Go with Strangers", tells the story of a child who was instigated by his classmates and was afraid that others would laugh at himself as a coward, so he deliberately left the supervision of his parents and was eventually abducted by human traffickers.
This picture book is to tell children that the deceptive means of traffickers are endless, at any time do not intentionally or unintentionally break away from their parents, even if it is a short breakaway, it will also give people with hearts to take advantage of the opportunity, no matter when they go out, they must hold the hands of adults tightly, even if they are acquaintances, without the permission of their parents, do not easily go with others.
In addition to paying attention to fraud prevention, children should also pay attention to other aspects of infringement between acquaintances, such as "No! I don't like this kind of secret", that is, to teach children what kind of secrets do not need to be kept, what kind of secrets belong to "bad secrets";
And "No! I don't like to be touched by you, "No! I don't like to be kissed by you", then tell the child what kind of physical contact is a violation, what kind of touch you can use to refuse, how to ask your parents for help;
"No! I don't indulge myself casually" tells children that many unconscious dangers are due to overindulging themselves, so they lose their boundaries and let the bad guys take advantage of it;
"No! I don't lose my temper casually" tells the child why he should manage his emotions and what kind of dangers his out-of-control emotions will bring to himself.
This set of picture book content is simple and easy to understand, very suitable for 2-6-year-old children to carry out safety education science use, so that children understand what are the dangers around them, how to do what they encounter, it is strongly recommended that there are preschool children to prepare a set for the baby, the link is placed below, parents who need to take it.
(4) Learn to ask for help
Teach children to identify uniformed people and seek help from uniformed staff if they are separated from their parents. Especially now that the year is approaching, the flow of people in major places is large, and the bad guys will have an opportunity. However, these establishments will have staff who can ask their children for help.
(5) Bring communication equipment for your child
In the case of conditions, you can arrange a positioning children's watch for your child, which is convenient to pay attention to the child's movements at all times.
(6) Strengthen security drills
It is hoped that major schools can strengthen safety drills, especially kindergartens and primary schools, and children at this age are not strong in safety awareness and are prone to abduction. Schools schedule exercises that allow children to feel the danger in an immersive way and allow them to avoid it in their lives.
Looking at the children's innocent smiling faces, I really can't understand how the traffickers can get their hands on it. Children are born angels, why let angels go through this kind of tribulation. For the future flowers of the motherland, we should love them and let them grow healthier and happier!
As a mother, I hated traffickers immensely, and I was very distressed about the abducted children, who should have lived in a happy family, enjoying the love of their parents and the love of their grandparents.
May the children of the world have a carefree childhood, let them thrive in the sun, and the future of the motherland must rely on them to create, and must not let human traffickers become the "roadblocks" for their growth.
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