1. Do not owe economic debt
Brother, settle the account. Friends and relatives, even brothers, should not owe economic debts, and conflicts are often the curse of "wealth".
Regarding money, no matter how good the relationship is, it must be clearly distinguished.
Many two brothers who are very close to each other have fallen out because of money, and there are too many such examples.
Chinese like to talk about human feelings, and I am embarrassed to put interests on the table.
People's different ideas often cause differences, not to mention their own calculations?
So, the better the relationship, the more you should pick your ideas clearly.
Instead of letting interests contaminate family affection beyond recognition, it is better to distinguish between the two and not interfere with each other. Affection belongs to affection, and interests belong to interests.
This is the greatest protection for family affection.
2. No liability debts
When people reach middle age, they gradually understand that there is no easy word in adult life.
When you return home, you are the husband of your wife, the father of your children, the son of your parents.
Every role means a responsibility, and every responsibility cannot be shirked.
For children, we must do a good job of guardianship responsibilities and obligations, so that children receive a good education.
For parents, we must fulfill the duty of filial piety of a child, support the elderly, and take care of the diet and living of the elderly.
For the wife, we must do a husband's loyalty, tolerance, understanding, and face life with the wife.
Relatives can not owe responsibility debts, should bear their own responsibilities, must strive to do a good job.
3, do not owe human debt
There are no parents in the world who do not love their children, and the efforts between relatives are selfless and willing.
But that doesn't mean we don't need to reciprocate, we need to be grateful.
Crows feed back, lambs kneel, animals are still like this, let alone people?
From babbling to toddler, every step we take has our parents silently paying behind us.
The parenting grace of parents is a debt that can hardly be repaid, and we need to do our best to repay it with our lives.
4. Do not owe time debt
The greatest expectation of parents for their children is not to achieve success, but to be healthy and happy.
It is more important for a family to live happily together than anything else.
When the money is gone, it can be earned again, and there will be no chance for relatives to leave.
The family is together, no disease and no disaster, and live a kind life, there is love and companionship in the heart, and coarse tea and light rice can also have taste.
We should take as much time as possible to spend with our loved ones and not owe them time debts. Don't wait until "the son wants to raise and the kiss does not wait", and then regret it.