I am a stay-at-home mom, a stay-at-home mom who is constantly fulfilling her self-worth. Reject anxiety, refuse "inner volume", easy parenting, rational treatment of married life, tolerant response to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I hope that some of my views can make you suddenly enlightened, can bring you positive energy, and solve your practical problems.
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When I was a child, there was a boy with the bottom in the class, who was often named by the teacher, whether it was math or Chinese, he learned a mess, but the accounting was first-class.
He couldn't learn the arithmetic in the books, but when it came to money, he could calculate it very accurately.
At that time, he was often taken out by the teachers as a negative teaching material, and every time he held a parent-teacher conference, his parents were discouraged.
In order to improve their son's academic performance, the parents also tried their best, but there was no effect, and later the boy dropped out of school when he was in middle school.
Nowadays, he has long been soaring, the business is getting bigger and bigger, there are 5 houses in the city, married the best girl in the class at that time, the girl graduated from college, or stained the light of the husband who did not graduate from junior high school.
Not everyone will be good at learning, but every child will definitely have his own strengths, and if this advantage is discovered and developed, it will become a skill for him to stand on his own in society.
The son's final exam was not ideal, and the father found the reason from the bag
These two days there was a boy who was on fire online.
The boy's final exams were not ideal, and Dad looked for reasons from him, and as a result, he pulled out a booklet from his bag, which was full of hand-drawn herbs and recorded the efficacy of the herbs in detail.
Netizens have liked it, saying that this is the reincarnation of Li Shizhen, and some netizens say that the revival of Chinese medicine is just around the corner.
Netizens are naturally joking, but the boy's painting function and this persistence and endurance are really not easy, there is talent, willing to work hard, if you can stick to it in this regard, parents give some support, should be rewarded.
The boy's father revealed that he had communicated with the boy before, knew that he liked to draw, and hoped that he could study these things on the basis of learning a good culture class.
The reason why this father insists on this is because he himself is also a talent for painting, he has not been exposed to systematic education, he has previously lived by part-time work, and later relied on live painting, painting is all based on hobbies and self-awareness, and has not received professional training.
He said that he was restricted everywhere because he had no culture, and if he had a systematic education and a good cultural foundation, he would have a completely different life.
It is precisely because of his own experience that he will limit his child's interest, see that the child does not work hard in the culture class, privately study flowers and herbs, mixed feelings, afraid that the child has taken his old path.
Find the direction that your child is good at, and then give your child the opportunity to learn
This child was lucky because his specialties were discovered early.
As long as his parents give him some support, on the basis of learning a good cultural lesson, he can grow up in the direction he likes.
It is enough to study well in culture classes, and not all people can achieve excellent results in culture classes.
A child has his own strengths, and he will be able to have a foothold in society in the future.
Discovering this specialty is the most rare.
When the child's strengths are excavated, for example, the child in the above article, who is interested in Chinese herbal medicine and has a talent for painting, will develop in this direction in the future.
After applying for the art major, the requirements of the cultural class will decline, but the courses related to the professional course must be learned well, so that the future can be carried forward professionally.
If the direction is found, the child is interested, and he will be able to learn this subject well.
Parents should not suppress their children, should not force their children to learn mathematics, physics and chemistry, should give children a certain choice of space, give children a certain opportunity for development, and let children grow in the right direction.
In this way, the child's growth has an internal driving force, and the child will become an active learning person.
In the era of double subtraction, tap more of your child's strengths
Teaching according to aptitude is the highest state of education.
We can't treat all children in general, each child has each child's strengths, and different children will shine in different areas.
Good education is good at finding the shining points in the child, allowing the child to have deficiencies, not forcing the child to learn the subjects he is not good at, and finding the right direction for the child, so that both education and children can be achieved.
In the past, children were too stressed to learn, homework, extracurricular training, waiting for them is endless courses, high-pressure learning environment, and endless homework and extracurricular training, so that children do not have time and opportunities to shine in the areas they are good at.
In the era of double subtraction, homework in schools has been reduced, off-campus training courses have been cancelled, and children have enough time.
This sufficient time is not wasted or wasted by the child, but gives the child enough time to do interesting and meaningful things.
When the child has a relatively rich time, he will naturally do something interesting, and this time is the best time to tap the child's talent.
In this best era, mathematics, physics and chemistry is no longer necessary, and children who do not learn mathematics, physics and chemistry, have genius in writing or language, and can also have a good future and have a foothold in society.
The blossoming of culture requires talents from all walks of life, and the reserve of these talents comes from our current children, allowing children to do what they like, and guiding children to develop good habits, learn good professional knowledge, and make full preparations for children's future professional direction.
Parents do not have to be anxious, enter the era of double reduction, not to give up their children, but to urge children to develop good living habits and learning habits, and to make sufficient preparations for their children to shine in the field they are good at in the future.