Logically, Mi Shu and Mi Yin grew up together, spending more time together than Mi Yue, and it should be that Mi Shu should be closer to Mi Yin.
However, whether it is a TV series or a novel, Mi Shu prefers Mi Yue but hates Mi Yin, why does Mi Shu have such a big attitude contrast between Mi Yin and Mi Yue? In the final analysis, there is a weakness of human nature behind this.
1
It seems that one of the main reasons why Mi Shu hates Mi Yin is because Mi Yin loves to fight with her too much.
As a princess of the Chu Kingdom, Mi Shu grew up being held by the stars and the moon, and although Wei Hou was fierce, she was extremely spoiled for Mi Shu, so that Mi Shu developed an arrogant and strong character.
Mi Yin's personality has always been strong and her age is one year older than Mi Shu, her physical development is also earlier than Mi Shu, she likes to dress up, and she is full of contention, but she can only be reluctant to pretend to retreat because of her identity as a princess.
Mi Yin thought that her awkward careful thinking was well hidden, but Mi Shu was not completely unaware, and her hidden appearance fell into Mi Shu's eyes, but it made Mi Shu more jealous and wary of her.
Mi Shu was originally a princess with a noble status, and from the bottom of the family, she only had a flattering share of her, but Mi Yin was naked in appearance and wanted to compete with her, and Mi Shu was full of disgust and vigilance towards her.
And Mi Yin, instead of knowing how to keep a low profile, is becoming more and more assertive and strong.
When dancing the dance of sacrifice, Mi Yin deliberately did many difficult moves, the purpose was to compare herself with Mi Shu, so that the female teacher could not praise Mi Shu for dancing better than her.
However, her proud smile revealed her narrow mind, which made Mi Shu hate her even more.
Compared with Mi Yin, Mi Yue is much more exquisite.
Mi Yue is one year younger than Mi Shu, looks shorter than her, and develops later than Mi Shu, in terms of dressing, Mi Yue intends to dress up ugly, and does not compete with Mi Shu for beauty, although there was a period of time later when Mi Yue grew faster than Mi Shu, but because of her thin physique and rugged like a bamboo pole, it is naturally not as good as Mi Shu in terms of posture.
Therefore, compared to Mi Yin, Mi Shu actually has a wonderful condescending tolerance for the low-key and obedient Mi Yue and even advises Mi Yin to tolerate Mi Yue.
In a simple way, the contrast between Mi Shu's attitude towards Mi Yin and Mi Yue is because Mi Yue knows better how to humble Mi Shu and Mi Yin is fighting with Mi Shu everywhere, but to put it more deeply, mi Shu's attitude towards Mi Yin and Mi Yue is because of a weakness of human nature: human nature is generally accustomed to sympathizing with the weak with a sense of superiority, but it is involuntaryly jealous and wary of the "strong".
Like in a movie I've seen before, The Beautiful Legend of Sicily, there's a plot that supports this.
The heroine, Marina, is a beautiful and charming widow, and her appearance makes men fall for her and makes women jealous and resentful.
Jealous of Marlena's ease of capturing men's hearts, the women of small Sicilian towns seized the opportunity and brazenly humiliated and beat Marlena in public.
Marlena was seriously injured and forced to leave the Sicilian town, and many years later, Marlena returned to the Sicilian town with her surviving husband in the war, when Marlena's beautiful face was no longer beautiful, and the women who had cruelly hurt her accepted Marlena in a friendly and polite manner.
Seeing that no, human nature is often more likely to produce a sympathetic and accepting psychology for people who are the same or worse than themselves in some ways.
Therefore, the reason why Mi Shu's attitude towards Mi Yin and Mi Yue is so contrasting is that it reflects the weakness of human nature.
And it is precisely because Mi Yue saw this clearly that she chose to cover up the sharp edge in front of Mi Shu, deliberately not pulling out the tip and not taking the head, and winning Mi Shu's favor, so that Mi Shu was under the clutches of Wei Hou and sheltered her.
2
If we can recognize the weaknesses of human nature and exploit them like Mi Yue, we can make our lives much more comfortable and smooth.
Mi Yue's birth mother, Xiang Shi, although timid and cowardly, I think she knows how to exploit the weaknesses of human nature better than Mi Yin.
As Ju Ji's concubine, Xiang Shi knew that she was humble and weak in nature, and her wisdom was not enough, and many things had to rely on Ju Ji's support.
Therefore, the persona that Xiang Shi has been creating in front of Ju Ji is obedient and obedient, because only in this way can Ju Ji have no guard against her and treat her as his own person to protect and promote.
If Xiang Shi was like Mi Yin and Ju Ji everywhere to fight and win, imagine that Ju Ji would still promote Xiang Shi? I'm afraid that Ju Ji has long been jealous of her, and at that time, it would be good not to say that she would not be promoted or suppressed.
Therefore, Xiang Shi's obedience in front of Ju Ji is essentially a wise choice after seeing the weaknesses of human nature.
On the other hand, Mi Yin was more stupid, and after wei hou attached some importance to her, she was so angry that she wanted to compete with Mi Shu.
As everyone knows, the weakness of human nature is inherently jealous of the strong and sympathetic to the weak.
In addition, Mi Shu was born with a noble status, and she could not tolerate her climbing on her head.
Of course, this psychology of Mi Shu also exposes her ugly nature, love to fight and win, and jealousy is intolerable.
And her so-called "good" to Mi Yue is only because Mi Yue is obedient and clumsy in disguise in front of her, once Mi Yue shows a stronger side than her, Mi Shu is bound to reveal her own nature and hate Mi Yue as much as she hates Mi Yin.
The different attitudes of Mi Shu to Mi Yin and Mi Yue described in the novel also laid the groundwork for mi shu and Mi Yue's future enmity.
Insert a small point here, in fact, in terms of authenticity, the novel's Mi Shu is more real and full, and the TV series at the beginning of the TV series makes Mi Shu a gentle and kind person, which is inconsistent with her growing environment and family education from childhood.
First of all, Mi Shugui is a princess, and she must have grown up in the stars and the moon and the brocade and jade food, so her arrogance and willfulness are more in line with her personality background.
For Mi Yue, she can't have as much care and thoughtfulness as in the TV series.
Secondly, Mi Shu's mother Wei Hou, she herself is a very jealous, fierce woman, under the influence of such family education, Mi Shu's nature should also be as jealous and strong as in the novel, but in the TV series, the image of Mi Shu in the Chu Kingdom is made into a kind and generous, which makes the later to the Qin Palace, Mi Shu and Mi Yue's opposition to each other, somewhat abrupt and far-fetched.
Back to the main topic, because we don't know whether the people we meet are as in line with human weaknesses as Mi Shu, so in daily life, we had better keep a low profile and not be too ostentatious, otherwise we are likely to be jealous and suppressed.
Not to mention that a proper low-key can also leave some room for yourself, and maybe the key moment can also help you a big favor.
Take the plot of Zhen Huan dancing the Shocking Hong Dance in "The Biography of Zhen Huan", Cao Qinmo originally planned to use the Shocking Hong Dance to embarrass Zhen Huan and make her ugly in public, who knew that Zhen Huan would really dance the Shocking Hong Dance.
If Zhen Huan had spread the word about her dancing in advance, I am afraid that this level would not have been so easy for Zhen Huan to pass.
Therefore, being vigilant about the weaknesses of human nature, keeping a low profile appropriately in daily life, and not easily exposing one's strength in front of others is also a way of self-protection.
Unfortunately, Mi Yin couldn't see this clearly, and had to be strong with Mi Shu everywhere, which eventually attracted Mi Shu's disgust, making Mi Shu always use Mi Yue to suppress her.
PS: This article is based on the analysis of the original novel, and there may be discrepancies with the plot of the TV series.
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