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Loving beauty is a woman's nature, but I never expected that a little big little girl can also pinch this nature to death, and there is a unique set of weather-related wearing skills.
One mother is very touched by this, her daughter has just turned three years old this year, and after a weekend nap, she plans to take her daughter to the supermarket.
As soon as the little girl heard that she was going out, she immediately began to rummage through the boxes and cabinets to find clothes and shoes, and finally matched the whole set of clothes to show in front of her mother, and her mother was helpless.
In our aesthetic, shouldn't princess shoes be paired with leggings?
Her daughter, on the other hand, paired princess shoes with warm pants, and the key was that the burgundy, bare-chested princess shoes were covered with emerald green woolen socks, and the upper body was wearing a sleeveless skirt with camouflage bladders inside.
Considering the minus a few degrees of weather outside, she also arranged a down jacket for herself to put on the outside, which was colorful at a glance, and this set of combinations undoubtedly wore the spring, summer, autumn and winter seasons on the body.
The aesthetic of children is always unique
Before becoming a mother, if we see a glamorous mother with a child dressed strangely, we will definitely not understand it very much, and even some people accuse this mother of being selfish and only know how to dress herself.
But it wasn't until I personally experienced it that I deeply understood what it meant to be involuntary.
Pink, diamonds, bows, glittering things, all of which are in the aesthetics of girls, but once these are combined, I am afraid it will be a little unsatisfactory.
The mom uploaded a video about her daughter showing off her new sandals, and the way the little girl jumped and jumped was enough to show how much she liked the shoes.
If the shoes were a simple pink, that would be nice, but the pointed toe also has a bow full of diamonds, and it can sparkle when it jumps up.
Mom disagreed, but in order to buy this pair of extreme sandals, she did not hesitate to use her own killer skill - sprinkling and rolling.
With such a unique aesthetic daughter on the stall, the mother can't help but worry about her daughter's future.
In winter, you have to wear sandals, pink pants with green socks... These behaviors are not specific to a child, but are common.
Why is the child's aesthetic so strange?
In fact, there is a reason why the child's aesthetic sword is biased:
Children's aesthetics belong to a single aesthetic, they like to pursue bright colors, big red, big green, this kind of deeply liked by them.
Children are good at creating and combining, and their combination and creation are completely illogical and regular, in their view, as long as it is in line with their aesthetic can be combined.
Like is the only criterion that determines the aesthetics of children, it is difficult to buy I like, I like it, what I like must be the best. Therefore, in the eyes of children, even the most advanced patterns are not as good as "Peppa Pig", "Ultraman", and "Superman".
What should parents do when their children don't cooperate with their clothes?
First of all, let the child participate in the process of dressing, have the right to choose clothes, not the parents command to specify a certain piece of clothing, there is freedom before he is willing to cooperate.
For example, we can take out two pieces of clothes that the child likes, ask him which one he wants to wear, and the child will have a full sense of participation when he chooses the clothes he likes, and he no longer feels that wearing clothes is an adult's business, but their own business.
The second is to interact in the process of dressing children, not to choose mechanically for the sake of choice.
When dressing a child, we can use exaggerated expressions and language to describe the pattern on the child's clothes, or introduce his body.
If we put pants on our child, we can say, "Where are your baby's feet?" Hurry up and come out oh, I'm going to catch you guys. ”
The last thing is to respect your child's ideas and never compete with them.
Children with age, more and more ideas, if we blindly compete with children, will only stimulate the child's rebellious psychology.
So, when children choose what they like, we can first tell where it is inappropriate to wear this dress.
If the child still insists, we must respect their ideas, because the child has his own ideas, and when he is older, he can learn to choose the person, thing and life he likes.