preface:
"Don't look at the red frame, you think that the human world is not worth it, the loose gang is the norm in the world, how can you and I be an exception, but unfortunately, did not become your exception and preference, Ms. Gao and her husband have been married for many years, but her husband is a slow heat type, and does not know romance, so he cheated on the male boss, and finally became notorious, let's take a look at what happened to the story."
Ms. Gao's statement:
Hello, hello everyone, I am 40 years old this year, has been married for many years, I and my husband are blind date, in fact, the first time I met my husband, I did not like him much, because at that time I did not think about getting married and having children, because I thought I was still young, when I was only in my twenties, so I also wanted to play for a few more years, but my parents knew me too well, knew that I was more playful, more open, afraid, I was unmarried and had children, etc., so I always gave me pressure, and finally I was forced by them to be uncomfortable, So he embarked on the road of blind date.
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And the object of my blind date is my current husband, when I first met, I felt that I had no interest in him, dark skin, not very tall, the only thing that can be said is that his family conditions are better than mine, but I look beautiful, I originally wanted to go through a formality with him, but my husband fell in love with me at first sight, began to pursue me, and finally I was with him under the pressure of his pursuit and my parents, originally I planned to go through a formality with him, and finally proposed to break up, That way my parents couldn't help me, but in the end I still underestimated my parents, and I had just been in love with my husband for two months, and I was forced into marriage by my parents.
After a month of marriage, I also gradually accepted my husband, but I found that he did not have romantic cells, did not understand romance at all, after coming home from work to eat, just watch the news there, or busy with some work, with him, no matter what I do, it is my initiative, but fortunately he really loves me, soon after marriage, I was pregnant, after the birth of the child, it is also my husband who is taking care of the child, I am a mother, changing diapers is not even as skilled as he changes, I even sometimes seriously doubted whether he had ever been married and had children before, so he told me the truth, and it turned out that he had searched the Internet during his work break.
Originally I thought that I would not sleep well after having a child, but I found that I not only slept well, but also slept very fragrantly, because every time the child woke up in the middle of the night, my husband would run to coax him for the first time, so during the confinement period, I did not suffer much grievance, but very happy, I also felt the warmth of my husband to me, and this matter of course I also want to show off with my girlfriend, my girlfriend also began to envy, saying that I married a good husband, but also became the target of my girlfriend husband's yearning, In the end, I also slowly accepted my husband's slow heat type.
When the child was six months old, I also began to look for a job, not because there was no money at home, but because I wanted to re-enter the social track, mainly because I was at home, too boring, so I would go crazy, after all, I was naturally playful, idle, my husband knew, and did not say anything more, when I entered the work, every day I and my husband are also busy, the communication between them is getting less and less, I even sometimes can't stand loneliness, looking for my husband, But my husband is also perfunctory so a few words, I was angry, asked my husband, can't we have more communication between husband and wife, my husband said, do the same thing every day, in addition to work or work, what is there to communicate, my husband said so, although I want to refute, but I don't know what to refute, the truth is also true, do the same thing every day, face the same person, just like a robot.
Even so, my husband will give me a sum of money every month, of course, the purpose of his doing this is to let me like what I like to buy, do not envy others, others have, I also want to have, this is what he said to me personally, at that time I was excited for a long time, but now I feel that what I need is not money, because I also work, I also have a job, what I need is communication between husband and wife, but my husband feels that there is nothing good to communicate, so I feel that I and my husband are not on the same channel, People who are basically two worlds, unconsciously, ten years have passed, I don't know how I have lived this ten years, boring, as if this life is like this, seeing the end of life.
But I am not willing, I do not want this life to be gone, just when I was confused, I met my boss, he is a few years older than me, but the ability is many times stronger than me, and he also has special care for me, every time I have not understood, he will teach me by hand, and he is very handsome, and is a high-achieving student, is the type I once liked, and his appearance also makes me full of vitality in life, for this reason, I also deliberately often apply to stay and work overtime, and my husband also found that I am not normal He also asked me if I didn't have enough money to spend and didn't have to work so hard, and I said I just liked to work, you don't think so much.
Until one day, my boss, the business trip also brought me, when we successfully completed the work, we celebrated a bit, and also specially ordered two bottles of red wine, enough to eat and drink, and returned to the room, lonely man and widow, in the alcohol to do a little, we had an ambiguous relationship, I cheated, just like this, we also broke through the layer of screens, became a lover relationship, from that time on, I now face my husband, every time I see him will feel very guilty, Although my husband does not know how to be romantic, my husband does love me, is very kind to me, and has never done anything to be sorry for me, and I have betrayed him.
But anything can not withstand the friction of time, time has been a long time, I also put this kind of thing behind, but I and my boss's intimate relationship is more close, during the day I am the relationship between him and his subordinates, to the evening will be overtime as the reason for the secret date, with my lover's life on the day, I also specially prepared to give him a surprise, I also said to my husband, tonight my girlfriend birthday, the evening will not come back, my husband did not think much, but I actually went to the hotel to prepare a cake gift, When my lover came, he also gave me a deep hug, but when we were ready to eat the cake, he answered a phone call, and he hung up in order not to break the atmosphere, but the phone call was repeated, and finally he hid on the balcony to answer the phone.
When I was thinking about how to proceed with him to the next step, he told me that there was something to leave first, and very urgent, immediately left, so the phone was thrown on the table, ready to change clothes, then sent a voice, I listened, it turned out to be a girl's voice, and then I quit to see that there were dozens of girls who sent him text messages, it turned out that he was a sea king, and I was just one of the clowns, but I took it as the only one, when he came out, I went to question him, And he stopped hiding it from me, he said it was all true, and said let's just do it, let's break up.
And he was so ruthless to me, then don't blame me for being unjust, the next day I took a photo with him, mosaiced me, and sent it to his wife, but when I came home the next day, my husband also gave me a photo album, which was full of intimate photos of me and my lover, the road was one foot high, the devil was tall, he walked my way, let me have no way to go, I cried and asked for my husband's raw materials, my husband said, you are now notorious, I forgive you, now not only me, Even your relatives and friends have intimate photos of you and your dog man, I am sending it to his wife alone, and he has sent it to all my relatives and friends, I never expected him to be so vicious.
In the end I was cleaned out of the house, nothing, where should I go from the company I certainly can't go back, want to find a job again is not so simple thing, the mother's side must also know my scandal, it is really a good thing not to go out, bad things spread thousands of miles, I am now really notorious, if I am given another chance to start again, I will definitely not choose to cheat, regret to die.