Recently watched a family drama "Perfect Partner", in which there are two pairs of partners, in short, one of the couples is strong male and female weak, the other couple is the opposite, male weak female strong.
In modern Chinese society, women's equal rights have long been not awakened, and they are not only able to withstand half of the sky, but now more women have become very powerful, with the ability to reach one to ten to one hundred.
In general, such a phenomenon is a good thing for social progress. But often too late, some women, just to reflect their own rights performance, will deny or even trample on men's rights.
The gold medal of the strong woman law firm in "Perfect Partner" Chen Shan is like this.
She expanded her radiance countless times, and everyone else needed to exist around her. In the family, the efforts of sun lei are taken for granted. On the surface, it seems to add bricks to the husband's career, but it is to dismantle the husband's work as a means to urge the partner to find a job that realizes his social value according to his own wishes. Or to show or imply to the husband, how great he once paid, and now how sacrificial he is to complete his husband's cause. This kind of self-intoxication, after Sun Lei was fired by the new company, got Chen Shan's hysterical outburst. Her outburst, more still around the path she designed for her husband, resentment and unwillingness after being defeated, so that such emotions completely and deliberately ignore her husband Sun Lei's many overtime and late returns, expressing a state of exhaustion to her.
Chen Shan's mother's cultivation of her since she was a child is to get ahead, and to do the second place is a failure. Thus innuendo to marriage, it is also the same demanding. It seems that she is a strong woman with unlimited scenery and outstanding ability, but in work and life, emotional intelligence is so low that it is incomprehensible. At work, the boss repeatedly refused her request to promote her partner with excellent job performance, only to tell her that the reason was precisely because she did not know how to be flexible, the injustice was constant, and the limitations of vision and pattern. In life, the whole tone of eating the husband occupies the initiative at all times, so that Sun Lei simply gives up resistance. Sun Lei, like most men, in the quarrel, the most common thing to say is "Am I wrong?"? Because I know deeply that whether it is wrong or right, the result is the same, and only by admitting mistakes can the other side collect troops.
Chen Shan's mother-in-law, in a serious tone, said to her, "I am much older than you, I know what is the most important, and what is not", in fact, she is mentioning her in person: thinking that you are good, let the other party be wronged and seek perfection, and you will not get a happy life.
Whether it is a man or a woman, in a partnership relationship, it is not necessary to have a master and a subordinate, but it cannot be taken for granted by one party, nor can it be taken for granted as the other party's efforts, let alone under the guise of "I am good for you", and impose their own will on each other. In particular, some women have copied the coarse shapes of individual men, such as full of foul language, to themselves in order to show their gender equality.
Truly powerful people, both men and women, can live in harmony with the world around them with peace of mind and wisdom. The law has been forgiven, and disputes have been eliminated, and righteousness has begun.