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He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

author:Overnight lemon Tea

If it were not for our sudden appearance, Yu Wei might have continued to make leather goods in the rental house in Guangzhou, this young man from Yunnan, not very tall, usually not very talkative, people who do not know him think he is an introvert, really understand others to know that this is not Yu Wei's natural character, this young man came to Guangzhou from Wenshan, Yunnan when he was very young, why did he want to be so far away from home, is it deliberately to stay away from his family or there are other hidden secrets, our arrival will solve his answer for more than twenty years for everyone.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

Lin Tian is located in his hometown in Yunnan

Yu Wei was slightly nervous when he saw us, and he quickly put down his work and asked how we found him. He opened the conversation box and told us about an event that happened twenty-two years ago that I will never forget in my life before the Spring Festival. He lost his four-year-old brother that day while he was in a market. That day was the last market day before the New Year, but also his birthday, his parents went to the street to repair shoes as usual to earn family goods, but he took his brother to a yard next to the market to play, the younger brother because of his young age, he squatted on the ground with a branch and paddled on the ground to play, Yu Wei said that he did not pay too much attention to his brother at that time, may be that he had too much fun, neglected to take care of his brother, he himself did not know how long it took to look back for his brother, this found that his brother was gone, Yu Wei thought that his brother was looking for his parents who were setting up stalls in the market, and he didn't care too much, until he went to his parents' shoe repair stall in the afternoon to find that his brother was not there, and he realized that he had lost his brother.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

The place where Lin Tian went missing

Yu Wei said that their family used to live in the town, the place where they lived was very close to the street, walking four or five minutes to the most lively market, the family was an earthen wall tile house, there was a small road at the door, the people in the village would pass through the path in front of the house, there was a bridge not far from home, there was a river ditch, he and his brother often went there to play, the village was surrounded by mountains. Since the brother disappeared, the original tranquility of the family broke out in full force at that moment, the father began to drink desperately, as soon as there was resentment, it would be sprinkled on him and his mother, and the quarrels between his parents and mothers were also more and more, Yu Wei was afraid of seeing the scene of his parents quarreling, he often sneaked to the street alone to play to avoid the rebuke of his parents, and the complaints that came out of the room caused a great shadow in Yu Wei's heart, he thought that he did not bring a good brother to cause the parents' quarrel. From that moment on, Yu Wei carried a psychological burden that a child should not bear, and it has continued to this day with his childhood growth.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

His brother Yu Wei recounted his brother's disappearance in Guangzhou

Yu Wei dropped out of school prematurely and entered the society, he left Yunnan to enter Guangzhou to work in the factory, he said that he did not dare to face everything around the home when he left his hometown, the shadow of his brother almost accompanied his entire adolescence, his parents have gone a lot of vicissitudes on the way to find his brother over the years, especially when he saw his father sitting under the eaves of the roof smoking a lot without saying a word, at that moment he was particularly sad and self-blamed, although his parents would not blame him for not taking his brother well, Yu Wei always felt that he owed his parents an explanation. As he grew older, this feeling became stronger and stronger, and Yu Wei knew that only by finding his brother, the sadness on his parents' faces and the tranquility of the family could he return to his original state.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

Lin Tiannannan's parents mentioned that he was touched by the scene

Yu Wei later got married and had children, in order to make his parents happy, he and his daughter-in-law discussed putting three children in their hometown in Yunnan to be taken care of by them, so as to distract their parents, and then two elderly people would not be lonely at home. Yu Wei and his wife decided to stay in Guangzhou and search for his brother while working, because he had heard from the villagers that his brother might have been taken to Guangdong or Fujian. Over the years, Yu Wei has not told his parents about his idea of looking for his brother, he does not want his parents to be sad, whenever he mentions the search for his brother, he knows that he will once again poke the scars that his parents have not healed, so at home they are trying to avoid the topic of their brothers.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

In Guangzhou, the two brothers are about to reunite

They had been searching for the answer to where their brother had gone, and many years later, when a young man named Lin Tian, who also worked in Guangzhou, appeared, the mystery that had lasted for twenty-two years was finally solved. Lin Tian said that he knew from childhood that he was a child bought by the family, that year the man could not have children because of a serious illness, in order to continue the family's so-called incense, spent a lot of money to buy back Lin Tian from others, Lin Tian came to this home not long ago, the man died of illness, the hostess also married someone else out of Lin Tian not long ago, leaving him in this home unattended. The man's brother saw that he was still small and had nowhere to go, and finally left Lin Tian by his side to raise him, raising him, in Lin Tian's memory he did not get the so-called love of his adoptive parents, but another family he called his uncle gave him some warmth, from childhood to adulthood he grew up in an extremely insecure environment.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

Lin Tian chatted with volunteers who helped him find his relatives

In order not to disturb the uncle who raised him, Lin Tian left his uncle's house after graduating from junior high school to work in Guangzhou, he started from scratch and took root in the city with hard sweat, Lin Tian said that his uncle would leave one day when he was old, he had to learn to face life alone, these years he had a sense of urgency, he didn't know where to go during the holidays every year, his uncle also had his own family and children, if he always bothered them, he would feel a little overwhelmed, but he wanted to have a decent home feeling What he lacked for more than twenty years was this kind of visible affection.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

The brothers finally sat together twenty-two years later

Lin Tian thought for a long time, in the middle of the night he contacted us through the Internet, of course, we and he did not know that when we took him to play and accidentally lost his brother, he also lived with him in Guangzhou. Lin Tian said that he wanted to find his relatives to relive the taste of home, he did not know the taste of maternal love since he could remember, but he had a little impression that he was brought to Shantou, Guangdong by a deaf and mute grandmother, and when he came to Guangdong, he spoke Mandarin, so he himself firmly believed that he was from another province. Lin Tian said that he had a scar physique, he asked the doctor, the doctor said that the scar physique is inherited, he judged that the biological parents must also have a scar physique, and other aspects of the memory Lin Tian said that he did not have any impression, looking for relatives may only be resigned to fate.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

The brothers are recounting their respective experiences

Lin Tian did not think that this search is six years, he hardly holds out any hope, but he will often ask us through the Network whether we have any news, but what all of us did not expect is that his brother has also been living and working in Guangzhou, but the brother does not know that he can find his brother through the convenient way of the Internet, and there is a convenient way to find his brother at the beginning of the article, he was surprised to ask how we can find him, in fact, Lin Tian can find his family in Yunnan thanks to the new family search technology, A drop of blood matched the brothers, and found the person they had been looking for in their lives in the vast sea of missed people. Yu Wei learned that his brother had been found, and at that moment he suddenly cried, saying that the brother he had thought about for so many years was actually by his side, and it turned out that no matter how far their brotherly fate was, the two hearts were closely linked and did not want to be separated.

He lost his brother on his brother's birthday, and he finally found his brother after more than twenty years of self-blame

Lin Tian took a group photo with the volunteers looking for relatives

When we told Lin Tian the news, he hesitated for a long time on the other end of the phone, he may be choking, he does not want us to know, or maybe he is too nervous, excited, do not know how to express, two minutes later Lin Tian came from the phone voice, he asked his brother is okay? Are the parents still alive? We told him that my brother was waiting for you in Guangzhou and was going to take you back to Yunnan to meet your parents, but Lin Tian didn't hold back his sobs anymore and cried loudly on the phone. The next morning, we took the agreement of our brother and made an appointment with Lin Tian to meet again, in Guangzhou, after more than twenty years of separation, the two brothers finally held hands together again in a foreign land, Yu Wei hugged his brother and said: "Brother, I'm sorry, I lost you", Lin Tian said, "Brother, it is not your fault, I am back safely now, everything is fine, tomorrow we will go home together to see my parents."

Twenty-two years ago, on the eve of the Spring Festival, Yu Wei went out to play and lost his brother, he carried more than twenty years of baggage and did not let others know, a person lived in deep self-blame; twenty-two years later, on the eve of the Spring Festival, the story of him and his brother experienced a great reincarnation, at the same time node, he personally brought his brother home, the parents' hearts are no longer worried, the brother has since unloaded the heavy shell and traveled lightly, in the future days, they will never be separated, the two brothers will certainly live up to expectations, the home will be built more comfortable and worry-free.

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