The second treasure mother who runs with the baby is touching and inspirational, and the annual inventory

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Sister Meow is a very, very good and attentive mother of the Knowledge Planet. With the two children, they obtained the CPA exam and the senior accountant certificate. My 9-year-old daughter was selected for the Chinese Poetry Conference, and in order to encourage the children, I also wrote a reply to her "Happy Birthday to My Nine-Year-Old Fan"

Sister Meow once shared a course with everyone, telling how she insisted on learning and improving in the cracks of the Erbao family. During the narration, I was in tears several times. I remember that night, I was wearing a furry pajamas, and after listening to it, the cuffs were soaked, especially when I said the words "My daughter, it's my soft ribs", she cried, and I cried with it.

At the end of the year, I assigned an assignment to the students of the Knowledge Planet, wrote my own "Annual Review", this article is her homework, share it, I hope to inspire and empower you as well.

Life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian

The end of the year for financial people is always full of all kinds of busyness, and this year is no exception.

On the last day of 2021, overtime work in the morning, falling out of bed after returning home at noon, headaches, low back pain, joint pain, throat fire, hoarse voice... This year-end summary began on New Year's Day, and was finally completed after experiencing the illness of children, the death of relatives, and several shelvings.

Looking back on 2021, the most joyful, encouraging and positive energy brought to me and my family is the knowledge planet of Xiaoran Xuejie, who has never met, responded to every need, gave me strength, and brought me growth, which may be the love from the heart.

01 Health

In April, I was shocked to find out reflux esophagitis and atrophic gastritis. Later, I went to the hospital for follow-up consultation, and although the situation was not as bad as I thought, it also sounded an alarm bell for my body.

Not long ago, my colleagues and I joked that the place I went to today was probably the hospital, except for my home and work. The son's physique is weak, the kindergarten can not go for a week will definitely be sick, but the sisters and brothers stick together every day, cross infection is inevitable, often the younger brother is better, the sister is sick again. In the spring, the little guy's tracheitis lasted for more than a month, and I was also exhausted.

Other people's homes are where the parents take turns to take care of a baby, and my family is my own day and night to take care of the two babies. Throughout this New Year's Day holiday, all I can do is lie flat and think wildly, about life, family, work, life... I experienced that feeling of powerlessness again, and my inner voice told me that health was the most important thing!

The most joyful and relaxing time during this period is the workplace home cloud party on New Year's Day.

It was precisely the warmth given by this group of friends who had never known me that made me forget about my illness.

Sentiment

1. The body is not only the capital of the revolution, but also the foundation of the whole family. As a "sandwich layer", on the one hand, the elderly parents, on the other hand, the unsophisticated children, personal health can support this small family.

2. If you are in a bad mood, vent and relieve it in time, and turn the page as soon as possible. You can find friends to chat, sing, watch movies, etc., even if no one is crying, avoiding the repeated internal friction and quitting emotions.

3. The body is the capital of the revolution, and the body is the best business card. The spiritual outlook should not only be pleasing to others, but also pleasing to oneself. Although it is an "easy to thin physique", the lumbar back muscles obviously lack strength, and in the future, consciously correct the pelvic forward tilt, starting from the sitting and standing posture, and always pay attention to inhaling and closing the abdomen. The Swan Arm and The Eight-Dan Nishiki still have to continue, and swim after the weather is warm.

02 Family

Xuejie said that the father's career affects the length of the child's growth, and the mother's emotions affect the breadth of the child's growth.

In order to support my husband who works in a different place, I have to take care of my children and family, do a good job in the daily work of the unit, and prepare for various exams, and the physical and mental pressure is very high.

How many times have tears wet the pillow, how many times have I seen Haoyue in the sky, how many times have my child been sick and sleepless...

Once I was even triggered by a small thing, my mood broke down, I cried, I was so aggrieved that I couldn't calm down in the car for a long time. But for the career development of the baby father, the education and growth of the child, and the beautiful future of the family, all I can do is to persist.

Whenever my colleagues mentioned this issue, they all cast sympathetic glances at me. However, I know in my heart that no matter how difficult the path I choose, I must continue to walk on my own.

In the morning of two babies, even if life is chicken and dog jump, I will paint a simple makeup to make myself like a warrior in armor, so that the children can feel that their mother is full of spirit and vitality today;

On the way to work, mr. telephone accompaniment, every day to communicate with him children's funny things, family trivia, work problems, reflection is insufficient;

After returning home from work, ask your daughter about her homework, accompany her son to read and write after dinner, help her daughter practice English... I am a mother running with a baby, which gives me unlimited strength!

1. Complaining doesn't solve the problem, and complaining won't help. Treat your family with peace of mind to solve the problem.

2. You are responsible for the future of the children, and I am responsible for the children's present. As a wife and a mother, all I can do is take care of your children's daily lives and accompany them to grow up happily.

3. It is not terrible to live apart from the two places, but to fear separation of hearts. It is said that the affection is not as good as the long-term companionship, although the two places are separated, fortunately, our soul mate has always felt sorry for each other. Now I'm able to handle all sorts of things big and small in my family.

4. The temperature and atmosphere of the family are related to the healthy growth of children. Although mr. Li has been away for many years, his father is peaceful, generous and patient, and the children can still feel the father's love.

03 Work

Who am I? In the workplace, I will be labeled as "outstanding business", "strong learning ability", "solid work", "honest person" and so on.

At work, I often play the role of a firefighter, and some colleagues take sick leave, and the work will be directly on top of me. Many times I really feel the troubles of honest people in the workplace.

But fortunately, I was lucky, and the effort was still seen after all. The leadership recognized my ability to work more and gave me more trust. Later, when he encountered difficulties, he would take the initiative to ask me to help him with his opinions, hoping to remind him more at work.

Recently, there have been some adjustments and changes in the unit, and the leaders have also expected me, so before going to the leader for the last time, I did a night of psychological construction, thought of various possibilities, and got the answer in a few seconds, which caused me to direct a night's movie in vain!

1. Debriefing is an important way for leaders to understand themselves. Leadership is not a choice, but the way of getting along can be chosen. In any case, every leader wants to be valued, and the reporting work should not only report on the results of the work, the completion of the situation, the difficulties encountered, and the measures taken, but more importantly, highlight the role of the leader in it and maintain the authority of the leader.

2. Man may be weak, but he cannot be weak. In the work, it is inevitable to encounter workplace PUA, prevarication and other situations, and only with principles and a bottom line can we win the respect and attention we deserve.

3. Think from the perspective of leadership. In terms of work, we can share the worries and difficulties of the leaders, and we can narrow the distance with the leaders as soon as possible.

4, the choice is not terrible, the terrible thing is that there is no other choice. Giving up is a shame, but giving up is also an experience.

04 Interpersonal

All along, I have been a very Buddhist transparent person in my unit.

When you see a leader, you just simply say hello.

Two days ago, the unit ate several times. As the only woman who does not drink alcohol, I practiced the advice of Niu Dada and Caesar's classmates on the planet at the dinner table, storing clothes for the guests, pouring wine and renewing tea, and sharing meals. The effect is quite good, and it has been affirmed by the big guy.

The big guy at the dinner table frequently led the topic to me, and I also introduced myself in a timely manner, and when I went downstairs and got out of the elevator, the big guy gave me a thumbs up. A few days ago, I needed to contact the relevant departments for a situation statement because of my work. Because I have not been in touch for many years, the other party's contact information has been changed, and I have inquired about the new contact information, and the other party is very enthusiastic after clarifying the reason, and suddenly pulled me back to the university era, not only had a pleasant communication, but also sent out documents at the first time. After this incident, I also reflected on myself, although they are separated from each other, busy work and business, and family chores, I also have to contact my classmates and friends regularly.

1. You must have a shining point in yourself in order to have the possibility of being seen. It will be impressive. Otherwise, even if there is a recommendation from a noble person, the big guy may not remember you.

2, the noble is around, be good at finding the noble people around you. After all, Maxima is often there, and Bole is not often there.

3, look at the trouble from another angle. Trouble can increase feelings for each other.

05 Learning

2021 is the year I have gained the most, not only with more gray hair, helpless tears, painful regrets, but also new hopes, the joy of life, and the joy of success.

This year, through the platform provided by Xiaoran Xuejie, I met very good students such as Qingchen and Bronze, and took me to see the world of Jia Ding Ding and Niu Dada and many other excellent students.

It is also because of joining this big family that I have added iQiyi, Xiaohongshu, GitMind, Hammer Sticky Notes, Weibo, OneNote, Dubbing Show and other APPS to my mobile phone, making mind maps for the first time and sharing them with Kaogong's family, using Weibo and other apps for the first time, abandoning the prejudice against iQiyi, Xiaohongshu and Weibo.

For the first time, I made a personal sharing on the live broadcast platform, and defeated myself step by step.

Originally, I had given up on taking any exams, but towards the end of the year, I was in a hurry to prepare for a work exam. For a middle-aged mother, although she did not try her best, she was also physically and mentally exhausted, so that she fell ill after the exam and spent a long period of time recovering.

After several years of hard work moving bricks, I finally knocked on a door with it and competed with a group of post-90s graduate students for jobs.

In the preparation stage of the written test, I made full use of the information and resources accumulated before and carried out a concentrated raid in a short period of time. During the interview stage, in the evening, my father helped me collect and sort out the information. The next day during the lunch break, I studied and absorbed, and on the weekend, my baby father came back from out of town to help me practice, and during this period, I also received the enthusiastic guidance of Tian classmates of Planet, and I would like to express my gratitude!

1. Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. This CPA and senior accounting are my magic weapon to pass the customs clearance, helping me successfully pass the resume screening pass.

2. The back wave is turbulent, fortunately ten years early. Seeing such excellent you, I have a sense of panic from the bottom of my heart, although I am not young, although I lack of energy, but I make a little progress every day, and I am also moving forward.

06 With a baby

Because of my work, I was seconded to work for a while, so that my two children became "left-behind children". At that time, I could only rely on telephone contact every day. Often when the kids ask for videos, I'm working overtime, and when I come back at night, the kids are already asleep.

During this time, in life, grandma and grandfather take care of the children's daily living and eating, and the daughter is completely autonomous in learning.

In addition to my son's illness, I am more worried about my daughter's learning.

In fact, in the absence of his mother at night, the son did not cry and make trouble. The daughter's study is also steady, completing the day's homework on time and actively participating in school activities. The class teacher and the classroom teacher also highly affirmed her evaluation.

When to let go?

In the second half of this year, my daughter entered the third grade. Prior to this, I saw some articles on some parenting public accounts that mentioned the habits of the first and second grades, and there would be a watershed in the third and fourth grades, and I often heard colleagues say that their children's grades in the third grade had a slippery slope. Therefore, there are also some worries in my heart.

Due to the landing of the "double reduction" policy, the teacher clearly asked not to let parents check the homework, and I just had limited energy, so after checking the homework several times, I decided to let go completely, believing in the child, and only providing the necessary help when she needed it.

I try to be a listener, sharing school anecdotes, life trivia with my children.

Care about your child's daily life and pay attention to her inner feelings.

When she fails the test, she does not pay too much attention to her child's grades, helping her to correct her learning attitude and analyze the reasons for her mistakes.

When there is a conflict with her classmates, help her to examine her own problems and deficiencies first, find the shining points in her classmates, and guide the children to solve problems on their own.

In short, when she encounters difficulties, her mother must be a strong backing.

Suddenly the child is grown!

Because my brother is sick at home, the family has limited manpower, and the daughter does not agree to go to the care class, so she can only go to and from school with her classmates every day, sometimes accompanied by the parents of her classmates, and sometimes she is alone.

During this time, she met friends from the next class and agreed to go to and from school together.

Not only that, sometimes when Grandpa was out, she would coax her brother to be at home, sometimes playing with toys together, sometimes watching TV together, and sometimes teaching her brother to read. Sometimes, when I drive them out, my sister will take the initiative to take care of my brother and take the initiative to remind me of this important matter of confusion, which makes me sigh: the children of the poor have long been home! She was no longer the timid, dark-fearing little girl! She will be the strongest and most reliable reliance in my life in the future!

When I write the year-end summary, the little one will often come over and peek, so I decided to let her be the first reader of this summary.

This year, there have been several outings, and I have taken my daughter to Sanlian Taofen Bookstore, Eslite Bookstore, Sisyphus Bookstore, and Zhong Shuge.

Every time we go to the bookstore, children always have new discoveries and are completely immersed in it, here we find Hillier's full set of vivid and interesting "Physics Big Bang" series and popular science books "Tell Children About Artificial Intelligence" and so on.

This year, my daughter read a lot of books, such as Harry. Potter", a full set of four famous books, the speed of reading books is comparable to nibbling on books, and it is not tired. A bit Ouyang Xiu read the meaning of "three on", as long as there is a book, do not care about anything, even during the hospitalization, reading books can not only manage fullness but also relieve pain, the little guy has not eaten a painkiller after surgery, it is by reading books to survive.

1. If the child freezes badly, he can also understand the disease. Boys' daily wear is best to look at the men in the family.

2. Raising a good baby can not only save time and money, but also enhance the overall combat effectiveness of the family team.

3. The mother is the role model for the child, and the sister is the role model for the younger brother. Do yourself well and teach your sister well to bring your younger brother well.

07 Gratitude

The Father gave birth to me, and the Mother bowed to me.

I came all the way from the town, whether it was work, with a baby, exams, my parents gave the greatest support, so that I have the energy, time, and confidence to go all out.

Knowing that I was going to travel alone, my father silently checked the condition of the car for me;

In order to let me sleep a little more every day, my father got up at 5:30 every day and carefully prepared breakfast;

In order to encourage her daughter to learn poetry, the mother in her 60s began to learn poetry, and the number of poems exceeded 1,000 in two years, and three generations of our grandchildren participated in the poetry conference;

In order to fully support my work and not to distract me from my work, the mother takes care of her sick son alone;

In order to allow me to spend more time with my children, my parents took on most of the housework. Although they are not good at talking, I will not express, but the family is happy and harmonious, every word and deed, every move is full of love.

08 Future Chapters

Recently, I had the privilege of getting to know Sunshine classmates on planet and her lovely daughter, and together we developed a punch-in plan for our children's holidays. At present, the next day, the child's feedback is good. I plan to organize a family poetry conference on the 28th of January (January 30), and students with elementary school students can sign up if they are interested, and the specific activity format is to be determined.

Write to yourself

Yesterday is history,tomorrow is a mystery,today is God’s gift,that’s why we call it the present.

In 2022, I will take my baby on a new journey.

The road is obstructed and long, and the line is coming. Since you have chosen a distant place, you are doomed to go through both storms and rains.

Intermittent hesitation,

Don't like the present, and can't see the future,

Can't pass the test, can't read the book,

I can't read it, I can't write it, I can't write it and I can't say it...

Search Xiaoran Xuejie to cure you intermittent writing ineffective efforts.