I don't know if you have ever had the experience that when we pay special attention to a thing, even if we are fully prepared, we are not sure in our hearts, so we will be particularly nervous and forget everything we have prepared before. The more you think about it, the more your brain goes blank.
There was once such a female singer, and as a newcomer at that time, she was very nervous when she first performed on stage. Behind the scenes, so many audience friends under her stand, afraid of being nervous, forgot the lyrics and actions. But the more she thought about it, the faster her heart beat, the more she couldn't remember anything. Instead, my heart beat the retreat drum, and my palms were sweaty.
Soon she's going to be on stage, and she can not listen to her at all. At this time, a senior, smiling, walked over to him, and stuffed him with a note, and said softly, Rest assured, if you really forget the words on stage, you can look at the note in your hand. At this time, the performance began immediately, and she didn't have time to think about it, clutching the note and leaving. Looking at the note in her hand, she has a super sense of security, and her heart is also a lot more solid, this performance is very successful, he played very well, won a round of applause.
Excited, he stepped off the stage and ran to thank the senior. The senior smiled faintly and said, I did not do anything, in fact, I only gave you a blank piece of paper, there is no lyric on it, but you yourself find self-confidence, challenge yourself, in fact, you are good enough, rest assured and bold to rush forward.
The female singer did not expect that she could get through the difficulties and succeed just by holding a piece of paper. Since then, she no longer holds a blank piece of paper in her hand, but instead seizes her confidence to achieve success again and again. Why shouldn't we? In fact, it is already good enough, as long as you grasp the sense of security and self-confidence, you will be brave enough to move forward.
Next, let's tell the story of a famous symphony conductor, Seiji Ozawa.
When he was young, he participated in various symphony competitions, large and small. Once, in the final, he conducted the performance according to the musical score given by the organizers, but he found many incongruous places when conducting the performance, resulting in the symphony music not perfect. At first he thought there was something wrong with the band, so he stopped and prepared to re-conduct the performance, but it turned out to be wrong.
So he looked at the score carefully again, and thought that there might be a problem with the score. He immediately questioned this. But the judges and composers on the stage said that there was no problem with the score provided, and repeatedly stressed that he was a conductor error. In the face of everyone's doubts, he carefully looked at the score and analyzed the band's performance, and considered it for a while. Finally, he said out loud that the score must be wrong and pointed out the wrong place. Unexpectedly, at this time, everyone on the jury immediately stood up, congratulated him on winning the championship, and gave him a warm applause.
In fact, we are all well prepared enough, most of the time it is just a lack of security, resulting in no self-confidence. Find the reason, then believe in your own strength. What you see in front of your eyes may really be close to the truth. Don't ruin all your previous efforts because of your momentary lack of confidence.
Even if there are voices of doubt around us, we must believe in ourselves, after all, there are very few people who are successful.