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Mr. Cai Ming is undoubtedly an indispensable figure in his brilliant acting career. Her superb acting skills and humorous cells have brought countless joyous moments to a wide audience. Surprisingly, however, this woman, who excels in the workplace, keeps a low profile when it comes to her personal life.
Many fans still have the common misconception that the famous comedian Mr. Guo Da is the husband of Ms. Cai Ming. Even her baby son, Tintin, is a little-known existence.
Time is like an arrow, time is like a shuttle, and now Ding Ding has entered the age of not being confused. As a mother, Ms. Cai Ming is deeply worried about her son's emotional world. Although Ding Ding has achieved outstanding results in his career, his love life has not progressed, which makes Ms. Cai Ming unable to sleep at night and frowning all day long.
Every time Ding Ding came home to visit, Cai Ming would quietly lead the topic to the topic of marriage. She is looking forward to her son entering the marriage hall as soon as possible, so that she will have the opportunity to hold her lovely grandson and enjoy the joy of family.
However, in the face of his mother's ardent anticipation, Tintin always used his busy work as an excuse to perfunctory about marital problems.
Once, when Cai Ming tried to persuade his son again, Tintin had obviously lost his patience and retorted emotionally, "Can you let me taste this meal with peace of mind?" Now I'm so engrossed in my work that I don't have time to worry about marriage.
There was anxiety in his tone.
Cai Ming was deeply disappointed by his son's reaction, and a heated argument broke out between the mother and son. In the end, Tintin left the house angrily, leaving Cai Ming slumped on the couch alone, tears falling silently.
Since then, Tintin has been home less and less often, deliberately avoiding conflict with his mother.
Cai Ming was worried about this, and the deep concern and expectation in her heart became her biggest trouble. She used to be the queen of sharp tongues on the screen, but she was helpless in the face of her son's problems.
As a woman who has worked hard in the workplace for half her life, her only wish is to get along with her son and hold her lovely grandson as soon as possible.
However, his son's indifferent attitude towards marital issues has left him extremely disappointed. She couldn't help but start to reflect on whether it was because of her excessively strict education methods in the past that caused her son's inner tenacity today.
Ms. Cai Ming and her husband, Mr. Ding Qiuxing, their love story began with a grand networking party in 1983. At that time, Mr. Ding Qiuxing was already holding an outstanding directorial position in the China Broadcasting Art Troupe, while Ms. Cai Ming was just emerging as a young actress, who not only had outstanding talent and appearance, but also radiated dazzling light.
When Mr. Ding Qiuxing met Ms. Cai Ming for the first time, he was deeply attracted by her beautiful and moving face, and he immediately made up his mind that he must be brave enough to pursue this heart-warming girl.
However, the encounter of fate is always short-lived, and Mr. Ding Qiuxing knows that if he doesn't seize the opportunity, he may miss the one in his heart. So, at that social party full of warm atmosphere, he mustered up the courage and did his best to hand over his contact information to Ms. Cai Ming.
Surprisingly, Mr. Ding Qiuxing neatly wrote his phone number on the back of a newly purchased plaster, and then cleverly pasted it on Ms. Cai Ming's body.
This unique and creative way of confession made Ms. Cai Ming can't help but smile knowingly.
In the next month or two, Mr. Ding Qiuxing was full of anticipation and couldn't sleep at night, and finally waited for Ms. Cai Ming's call. Since then, he has frequently invited Ms. Cai Ming to spend quality time with him, pouring out his sincere feelings.
In the end, Ms. Cai Ming was moved by Mr. Ding Qiuxing's sincerity and accepted his love, and the two began a warm and romantic love journey.
After two years of passionate love, Ms. Cai Ming and Mr. Ding Qiuxing entered the palace of marriage with the blessings of relatives and friends. Despite the simplicity and warmth of the wedding, almost no one knew about it.
Life after marriage is still as sweet as ever, and soon after, they welcome their lovely son, Ding Ding. Since the birth of Ding Ding, Ms. Cai Ming and Mr. Ding Qiuxing have always stuck to their respective jobs and worked hard to realize their dreams.
However, the question of how to raise the child soon became a point of contention for the couple. Ms. Cai Ming is very strict with her son Ding Ding, and she expects to cultivate Ding Ding into an outstanding talent, so she personally takes charge of Ding Ding's academic counseling every day and strictly controls her child's learning attitude.
Fortunately, Ding Ding is very talented, and Ms. Cai Ming's strict education method has also achieved remarkable results.
As Cai Ming's grand territory in the field of business continues to expand, the time for reunion between mother and son has become more and more rare. The topic of how to raise the next generation is also gradually becoming a clear disagreement within the family.
Cai Ming's husband Ding Qiuxing often had violent disputes with him over trivial matters, and could not settle them Eventually, after Cai Ming's mother-in-law mediated many times, Ding Qiuxing had to choose to back down and try her best to satisfy his wife's various views on the issue of children's education.
Perhaps it was this strict discipline from his mother that left a deep shadow on Tintin in his childhood, which led to a certain degree of resistance to his mother in adulthood.
From childhood to adulthood, Ding Ding grew up under Cai Ming's strict requirements, and in the endless "nagging" of his mother, he gradually adapted to this high-pressure discipline life mode, although he was only a few years old, Ding Ding was immersed in the ocean of learning almost every day, and never experienced the freedom and joy that other children of the same age have.
However, as she grew older, Tintin began to resent her mother's overly intrusive behavior. He longed to be free from his shackles and pursue his own free life. On Chinese New Year's Eve, when he was 15 years old, Tintin summoned up the courage to express his desire to study abroad to his parents, which was undoubtedly a strong response to Cai Ming's education style.
Surprisingly, Cai Ming did not object to this, but fully supported his son's decision. She hopes that Tintin can bravely chase her dreams and experience the beauty of life's path to freedom.
So, the fearless Tintin embarked on a long journey to study in the UK alone, which lasted for 8 years.
Eight years later, Tintin finally completed his studies and returned to his homeland with full expectations. At this time, Cai Ming, as a mother, was full of great joy in her heart, and she and her husband Ding Qiuxing carefully prepared a table of delicious hometown delicacies, hoping to send the most sincere blessings to her son.
However, to everyone's surprise, Tintin doesn't seem to be interested in these traditional Chinese dishes, preferring more Western dining culture. This made Cai Ming feel a little lost in her heart, but she understood that this was actually Tintin confronting her in a special way, venting her dissatisfaction that had been tightly controlled for many years.
In the coming days, Ms. Cai Ming decided to go all out and strive to reach a higher level of cooking skills, with the aim of regaining the affection and appreciation of her son Ding Ding for the well-prepared food, and thus relieving the conflicts and tensions between them over trivial matters.
After returning to China, Ding Ding quickly found an ideal choreographer position in the workplace with his outstanding talent. However, his special status as the "son of Cai Ming" was quickly known to everyone, and his colleagues and superiors cared for him, which made him feel pressured, as if he could never break free from the shackles of his mother's aura.
Faced with such a situation, Ding Ding made a decisive decision to leave after a short work experience.
He switched careers to a financial institution, but unfortunately, Ding Ding was once again unfairly treated because of his status as a "second generation star". The company's top leaders even suggested that Tintin use Tsai's popularity and influence to drive growth in the company's performance, promising handsome rewards.
However, this offer undoubtedly pierced Tintin's heart deeply, and he preferred to leave this stressful environment and quit his job again.
At that moment, he had a strong aversion to his identity as the son of Cai Ming, and longed to become a truly independent person. Later, with the understanding and support of his parents, Ding Ding successfully raised 500,000 yuan in entrepreneurial capital and founded a cultural media company as he wished.
With the expertise he has accumulated over the years, he has been able to build the start-up from the ground up and down in a short period of time.
In 2012, the movie "Thai Embarrassment", written by Ding Ding himself, caused a sensation across the country and won an astonishing box office of nearly 1.3 billion yuan in one fell swoop. This is undoubtedly the greatest recognition of Tintin's hard work, and he has finally found his own stage in the field of screenwriting.
As the mother of a well-known actor, Cai Ming has always been unwilling to let her son Ding Ding carry the heavy burden of the "second generation of stars". She expects Ding Ding to be able to carve out a sky of her own in the society with her own strength, so she has implemented strict education management for Ding Ding since she was a child.
Despite his busy schedule, Cai Ming still finds time to personally guide Ding Ding's studies, and his attitude towards completing his children's learning tasks is extremely demanding. As Ding Ding grew up, Cai Ming's control over him also increased.
The young Tintin immersed himself in the ocean of knowledge almost every day, and rarely felt the carefree childhood that children of the same age should have.
Cai Ming's strict education method undoubtedly made Ding Ding develop the good quality of diligence and studious since he was a child, but as the years passed, Ding Ding gradually became resistant to his mother's strict discipline.
On the eve of the Spring Festival when Ding Ding was 15 years old, he plucked up the courage to express to his parents his strong desire to study abroad. This is undoubtedly a brave struggle and challenge to Cai Ming's strict education method.
Although Cai Ming's heart was full of helplessness and loss, she still chose to let go and fully supported her son's pursuit of self-worth. Since then, Tintin has spent a long 8-year study career in England, gradually breaking away from his mother's control.
After returning to China, Ding Ding encountered many difficulties in the workplace, and was never able to get rid of his mother's dazzling halo and find it difficult to find a stage that truly belongs to him. He once tried to get involved in the field of choreography and finance, but he was treated unfairly because of the special status of the "second generation of stars" and had to leave again.
At that time, Ding Ding was deeply disgusted with his identity as Cai Ming's son. He longed to be an independent individual and break free from his mother's influence. With the encouragement of his parents, Ding Ding finally ushered in the opportunity to establish his own cultural media company and made a significant breakthrough in his screenwriting career.
In 2012, the movie "Thai Embarrassment" written by Ding Ding himself was shockingly released, setting an astonishing box office record of nearly 1.3 billion yuan in one fell swoop. Facing his son's brilliant achievements, Cai Ming's heart is full of pride, but at the same time, he is also worried about his son's emotional life.
As a high-profile celebrity mother, she only hopes that her son can have a happy family and enter the marriage hall as soon as possible. However, Tintin always responds perfunctorily to this, using his busy work as an excuse to avoid marital problems.
As a result, fierce conflicts and quarrels broke out between mother and son, which also became the biggest problem in Cai Ming's later life.