Recently, the "letter of renunciation" of primary school students has become popular, let's take a look at these cute fairy tales.
"Let's break off the friendship, love and hope are pulled"
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"If I get married, don't come, and I won't attend your funeral!"
"I'm going to break up with you, and if I talk to you, I'm a turtle."
After reading these, I can't help but sigh: the friendship of primary school students is also plastic sisterhood, and the boat of friendship is turned over. So the question is: how do parents deal with friction between children?
First of all, don't be too serious as a parent.
Children often quarrel today and reconcile tomorrow, and occasionally fight for better communication. It is certain that it is painful to bump into parents, but the school class is the child's world, and if the parents intervene in everything, it is not only detrimental to the child's interpersonal relationship, but also seriously isolated. As long as it is not malicious to hurt people, you can properly let the child deal with it by himself, and maybe there will be unexpected gains.
Second, tell your child to protect yourself.
Professor Li Meijin, a famous psychologist, once saw that her granddaughter's ear was swollen near the top, and asked her what was wrong? The granddaughter said that a male classmate picked her up and slammed her on a stool. Li Meijin said to her granddaughter, "The next time there is such a thing, you will pinch his ears on both sides, and when he comes over, you will push him, and if he can't push, you will step on his feet, and if you can't push, you will run." You can teach your child to protect himself, but he can't catch people, can't pit his eyes, etc., to protect himself and reduce the damage.
At the same time, tell the child: there are contradictions between classmates can find a teacher to judge together, solve the problems they can solve, and find a teacher if they can't solve them, but if there is any grievance, you can go home and tell your mother that your mother will help you.
As the saying goes: where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. The class is a small group, noisy, bumpy is inevitable, we as parents must protect the child and avoid making a fuss, so it is also important for the child to learn to deal with interpersonal relationships.
Interactive Topic: How do you deal with small frictions between children? 】