In the blink of an eye in a hundred years of life, the ebb and flow of the tide is a day, the blossoming of flowers is a season, and there is always a time for the curtain to end.
When you reach the peak, understand the laws of impermanence and maintain a clear and transparent heart; when you fall to the bottom, as long as you don't give up lightly, there will always be a day of rebound.
Have a normal heart, treat everyone, and do everything well. Find your own position, do not be swayed by the desire to win or lose, the process is more important than the result.
The world is uncertain, ups and downs are the norm of life, and victory and defeat are common affairs of soldiers. Seeing through the nature of impermanence, you can devote yourself to intense work with an indifferent attitude and sober thinking, and constantly create brilliant results.
Victory is not proud, treated with a normal heart; failure is not discouraged, summing up the experience of failure, the more frustrated and courageous, and finally the dawn of victory will be seen. Everything is considered in the long run, and the gain and loss of the time become less important. Don't drift with success and get frustrated by failure. Learn to be human before you can make things happen.
Can't a gentleman fight a villain? No. The gentleman Xiang Yu was victorious and proud, giving the enemy a chance to breathe; the villain Liu Bang was defeated without being discouraged, and he was given the opportunity to turn defeat into victory.
Liu Bang is full of villains, and Xiang Yu is a gentleman with an open mind. Liu Bang was born in the city, with the egoism of a businessman, fierce and hypocritical, kicking his children off the carriage three times for his own survival, and being rude and like to scold people.
In contrast, Xiang Yu was born into an aristocratic family, was frank and frank, acted brightly and honestly, and had a strong heroic spirit.
Why did the God of War finally kill himself?
In the early days of the Chu-Han War, Liu Bang was repeatedly defeated, and after the proud Xiang Yu Julu Battle was victorious, he looked down on Liu Bang, and he did not take the advice of his subordinates and let Liu Bang go without listening to Fan Zeng's words at the Hongmen banquet, which was really a return to the mountain, leaving a huge hidden danger. Liu Bang, who was defeated and discouraged, was good at using people, and Xiang Yu lacked the insight of people.
Liu Bang knew that people were making good use of them, and his men gathered a group of capable talents. Take the most famous "Han Sanjie", Zhang Liang, who can strategize, can strategize under him; Xiao He, who is good at operation, dares to hand over the rear area; and the military genius Han Xin, who is a great general. Liu Bang is good at putting the right people in the right positions, and employs people in an eclectic manner.
Xiang Yu is not good at using people, pro-Xiang Bo and far away Fan Zeng, although Xiang Yu has five tiger generals under him, but it is difficult to hide the defects in his use of people, his employment is all based on personal likes and dislikes, Han Xin and Chen Ping were all under Xiang Yu, because they could not play their own value before turning to Liu Bang.
Liu Bang recuperated, and finally through his own efforts, he finally made Xiang Yu embattled. Forcing Xiang Yu to kill himself in wujiang, a generation of heroes Hao Jie fell, which made people sigh.
Winning without being proud, losing without being discouraged is a kind of mental strengthening. If a person is complacent after achieving a little success, or if he is devastated after some setback, he cannot become strong. Enhance the external ability and the inner cultivation synchronously, have the assist to overcome the difficulties of life, and win success and status.
He who is king is not proud of victory, and is not discouraged by defeat.
When he was young and poor, Jacour Lafto, the famous French banking magnate, could not find a job for a while, and was idle at home, relying on his parents to live.
One day, he volunteered to go to the chairman of bellow bank and ask him to hire himself. Rafto came with confidence, but after seeing only one side, he was categorically rejected by the chairman and sent out the door.
This experience of touching a nose of ash and finally returning to fruition has long been accustomed to Jaku Raftolai, who has been rejected for the 52nd time. In order to make a living and find a job, he no longer cared about these things.
As he walked out of the bank, he saw a pin on the floor in front of the bank's front door. He thought how bad it would be if someone was injured because of it and affected their work!
So he bent down, picked up the pin and left. The next day, he received an offer from the bank. This unexpected joy almost made him cry with joy. It turned out that when he walked out of the door, he bent down to pick up the pin and was seen by the chairman.
The chairman immediately retracted his life and changed his mind. Because in the eyes of the chairman, he was so careful that he did not even let go of a pin on the ground, which was very suitable for working as a bank clerk, so he changed his mind and hired him and let him go to work.
Jaku Lafto has since taken to a new level. He is a man who strives to start and end in everything he does, and never gives up halfway. He would never be careless, so meticulous that he didn't let go of even something as thin as a pin. It is precisely because he is not willing to fail and be frustrated, and insists on it again and again, so he was able to gain a foothold in the French banking industry, and finally achieved fame and success.
Spoiled and unfazed, idly watching the flowers blossom and fall before the court; to stay unintentional, wandering with the clouds outside the sky. Facing the impermanence of the world with an indifferent attitude, ups and downs, with the quality of winning and not being arrogant and undefeated, is the most insightful and far-sighted person, and also shows the heroic nature of becoming a great thing.
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