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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Someone said: "Married women exude a charming breath." ”
Indeed, most of the women after marriage are very mature, they are not only intellectual, but also virtuous, and they are particularly attractive in the eyes of men.
Therefore, many married women in life, will be some unruly men to pry, if you can not stick to the bottom line, it is easy to fall into unworthy feelings.
Some women can resolutely refuse men's pursuit and will not be moved by this kind of man at all, while some women are difficult to do, often because of some sweet love words of men, they are easily compromised.
In the face of men's provocation, women's initial choices are different, and the subsequent results are also different.
Therefore, it is particularly important for women to keep a clear head and learn how to reject men in their feelings.
Generally speaking, women have the opposite sex to flirt after marriage, may wish to learn to "cold treatment", so that the treatment can be safe.
First, be cold to him and refuse to communicate
When a woman encounters a man to seduce you, she must pay attention to it, never be enthusiastic about him, and act cold.
You have to tell him with a cold attitude that you will not associate with him, let him be completely dead hearted, so that he will not fall into the vortex of feelings.
When you show an attitude of refusal to communicate, it can make him retreat to a large extent, and if you hesitate, it is likely to make him take advantage of the situation.
Some men like to seduce women, often bad character, they have no sense of proportion, see beautiful women want to pursue, this kind of men are not worth associating.
Women must have basic principles in life, and must not be lost, so as to protect themselves from harm.
If you can't do this and easily accept a man's pursuit, it is likely to affect your own life and eventually pay a heavy price.
Friend Xiaoyan is a very beautiful woman, generous personality, good popularity, deeply liked by colleagues.
Therefore, many men like to chat with her and often make some vague jokes.
However, Xiao Yan did not take it seriously, thinking that it was normal for colleagues to joke with each other, so she continued to fight with them.
Once, at a dinner party at the unit, a male colleague joked with her through wine, and said that he liked her very much and hoped to further develop.
At first, Xiao Yan thought he had drunk too much, but he had been entangled, which made her feel that things were not good.
In the face of the entanglement of male colleagues, Xiaoyan became very cold in an instant, and called her husband and asked him to quickly come and pick her up.
On the phone, she deliberately turned on the speakerphone to let the male colleagues understand her attitude. Seeing this scene, the male colleague also understood that there was no point in dwelling on it any longer.
Therefore, when a married woman encounters a man to pry, she must have her own attitude, and when you treat him coldly, it basically means refusing to interact.
Men see that you are so determined, naturally they will not pestering you anymore, and they will not spend time on you in the future, so as to preserve the dignity of both sides.
Learning to deal with it coldly is actually the best way for women to reject men, neither offending people, but also making each other retreat, while retaining each other's faces, and the ending is basically peaceful.
Second, delete the other party, leaving no contact information
After her friend Miss Jiang and her husband got married, she quit her job and concentrated on being a full-time wife at home.
In the first few years, life was very dull, but when the child went to kindergarten, she also encountered emotional entanglements.
Miss Jiang herself is very beautiful, and she likes to dress up more after marriage, and every time she goes to pick up her children from school, her exquisite makeup is particularly moving in front of other parents.
Therefore, there are many male parents who are particularly impressed with her and always can't help but look at her a few times.
Even, there is a male parent who intentionally or unintentionally talks to her in the parent group, hoping to attract her attention.
Over time, she and the other party gradually became acquainted, and soon they added friends to each other, and they would chat when they were fine.
Until one day, the male parents sent her a lot of ambiguous messages, she felt a little strange, so she deleted the other party in time, and refused to add friends.
After that, the male parents did not dare to add her anymore, nor did they dare to talk to her in the group, so the two sides were treated coldly.
Therefore, if a married woman encounters a man to pursue, the best way is to delete the other party, leave no contact information, and stop the loss in time.
Some men do not have abnormalities at the beginning, often after adding friends, they will show their true faces, which requires women to be decisive in doing things, and must not leave behind troubles.
If you think a man has an idea about you, clear all contact information related to him in time and don't interact with him in the future.
Women don't give men a chance, and they don't leave room in the relationship, they basically retreat.
If you hesitate and are not decisive enough in dealing with emotional issues, it is likely that the other party will find opportunities, and once you fall into this unworthy relationship, the consequences must be heavy.
Smart women, who know how to deal with it coldly, will not give men a trace of fantasy, and when the feelings are still in the bud stage, they will kill them.
In this way, you can protect yourself, basically you can live in peace and continue to live your peaceful life.
Third, learn to treat cold, do not drag mud with water
When a woman encounters a man to pursue after marriage, the best way is to learn to deal with it coldly and treat feelings without dragging mud and water.
No matter how good the other person is, no matter what the relationship is with each other, don't dwell on this feeling.
Some women feel embarrassed to refuse, or in order to take care of each other's face, they have not returned to the absolute party, which will cause themselves a lot of trouble.
Some men are really bad character, and when you don't refuse, he will get in the inches and think more about you.
If this ambiguous relationship continues, it is likely to destroy his life, and it will be difficult to retreat at that time.
The best way is to deal with the relationship coldly at the beginning and stop the loss in time.
No matter how entangled the other party is, you should ignore it, and your words and deeds must remain cold, so that he can feel the indifference of "refusing to be thousands of miles away".
After a colleague Xiaomeng was added as a friend by a boy, she often received ambiguous messages from the other party, because the two sides were in the same unit, and she was not good at directly rejecting.
Unexpectedly, this male colleague was even bolder and spoke more outrageously.
For example, he often posts "You are at ease when you see you at work, and you will miss you when you don't see you after work", "Can we date?" And so on.
This kind of content made Xiao Meng very disgusted, and finally couldn't help but reply: "If you do this again, I will let my husband talk to you." ”
As soon as this cruel sentence came out, the other party really did not move, and later stopped pestering her.
Therefore, women must be decisive in dealing with emotional problems, when it is time to refuse, must not be soft-hearted, do not care so much, at any time to protect themselves is the most important.
Know how to deal with it coldly, explicitly reject unworthy feelings, and do not drag mud and water, in order to keep yourself from being entangled and disturbed by others.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
To sum up, after marriage, if a man comes to seduce you, it is generally safe to deal with it in this way.
Although it is a proof that a woman is being seduced by a man, if the relationship exceeds the boundaries, it will often only bring great harm to herself.
Therefore, learn to deal with it coldly, reject men's pursuit in time, and curb the development of bad feelings in order to protect yourself.
In the face of men's provocations, they are cold to him and refuse to communicate; delete each other, leaving no contact information; learn to deal with it coldly, and do not drag mud and water.
Marriage is not easy, both men and women must be careful to maintain, in a long time, do not covet the wildflowers on the side of the road, keep the inner scenery, in order to reach the other side of happiness.
I hope that married women in life can firmly refuse men's prodding and do a good job in what women should have, in order to get real happiness.
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Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.