We long for a lifetime, but the initial heartbeat is difficult to maintain a lifetime, sometimes because of the accumulation of contradictions in the process of getting along, it may also be found that each other is not suitable, it is more likely that we feel that the other party is not in the right version, it is more likely that we like the new and dislike the old and have a new goal, but for whatever reason, the change of feelings sometimes even the parties themselves can not say how long they can have the sincerity,
And what remains unchanged is the change of love, beware of not being there, basically it is difficult to go on, the difference in the thinking of men and women so that whether it is in the early stage of the relationship reaction to the process of getting along with the mentality and needs are very different, even if it is a change of feelings, there will be slight differences, and for example, when a man starts to dislike you, basically he will appear the following attitudes, women you do not want to be stupid to understand.
First, he indulges in mobile phones, not only does not interact with you, but also will have antipathy towards your initiative, completely ignoring your feelings and moods.
Second, start to become impatient, often get into trouble with you, and will inexplicably lose your temper because of a small matter.
Third, start to criticize your faults, in his eyes at this moment you are useless, always staring at your shortcomings and deficiencies, sarcastically degrading and even humiliating jokes as a humorous interaction method, constantly suppressing you, lack of basic courtesy and respect.
Fourth, I am not interested in everything you say or do, and I will show disgust.
Fifth, do not ask you the schedule, do not tell you the whereabouts, even if you have friends of the opposite sex or blue face he does not matter.
The man's heart is in, the attitude will have the most direct performance, even if he has not yet said the breakup, does not mean that he is not willing to share this feeling and this person, but there may be concerns and fear of being entangled, or it may not want to be a bad person, become an emotional executioner, so temporarily delayed, and may even have not really found a spare tire for the time being.
When a man is immersed in the mobile phone world, ignoring your existence, he can laugh at the mobile phone video and do not want to talk to you more, completely regard you as air, and even if you take the initiative to pander, try to save the relationship warmth, he refuses to be unmoved, and may even appear disgusted with the expression to let you do what to do, this is not greedy, or there is a serious thing, but the real person is too disgusted with you.
When men love a person or initially pursue a beloved woman, everyone is a warm man, everyone is not low in emotional intelligence, women's bad temper is cute, women's alternative is maverick, this is not really a woman is good, but men are really in love at that time. But when men say that you begin to lack tolerance and tolerance, you must pay attention to such emotional turns.
No one is perfect, no one is perfect, we all have our own innate advantages and disadvantages, but when men only start to stare at your shortcomings, or take some words that demean you as a topic, but also think that they are the adjustment and humor of the atmosphere, it is not simply that everyone is familiar with it for a long time, do not treat you as an outsider, but his feelings are not there, and instinctively begin to hold on to the shortcomings he thinks he thinks and does not need to respect and care.
So sometimes the constant pickiness, denial, not entirely because you have regressed or really so bad, but because of your position in his heart, affecting your own value is different.
After getting along for a long time, we will inevitably lose our original passion and vows and lingering romantic love words. But there will be basic communication, and normal communication. But when a man is not interested in everything you say, everything you say, then he is not interested in you as a person, not simply because of the thing itself.
Women have to understand that when a man starts to dislike you, it must start with communication and attitude. He doesn't want to say another word to you, and he instinctively keeps his distance from you, doesn't want to get close, and doesn't bother to disguise his disgusted expression. And if a woman is too humble at this moment to redeem herself and cater to the feelings of prayer, it will only make the other party despise and dislike herself even more.
At the same time, men's possessiveness is much higher than women, as long as it is the woman they really love, as long as it is a quasi-partner in their future life, then men will not allow their women to have blue faces, or have too frequent contact with other people of the opposite sex. But when this man, his own whereabouts become mysterious, he will not ask you about your daily schedule, what kind of life you live, and will show no concern about you having other friends of the opposite sex, or even excessive behavior, then he must be disgusted with you and even decide to leave. Because in their eyes, the "opposite sex" at this moment is the successor, and it is also a good way to get out of their own smooth departure.