A true confidant is a kind of heart that does not need to read and understand you, a relationship that does not need to be in constant contact and does not feel alienated, and a tacit understanding that has nothing to do with choice and abandonment. Life is not as long as we think, confidant, in this life and this life, do I have to find you?
In fact, why should we ask for trouble? In the wind and rain, everyone who meets and knows us is a good relationship cultivated in past lives and this life, and on the road of reincarnation, it is rare that the person who has been with us is not the shadow of expectation in our hearts, and it is better to cherish this truth than to retain a perfect shadow. For the rest of our lives, it is better to let us cast our eyes on the lovers around us.
Moreover, in our lives, confidants always appear in our minds as a perfect image, even if we look for her in our dreams, it is impossible to find. Looking back on the past, the road of life has also gone through most of the way, looking in waiting, looking forward to it in the wandering, is bound to waste too much of our past.
The destination of love is ultimately the family, and the family is our warmest harbor. If we can cultivate our lovers as our confidants, what a thing to celebrate. There is nothing to do to recall some of the first love with the lover, and repackag and put the long-lost love on the shelves.
Pay attention to your own present moment, care for the people around you, you will find: when you look up to and envy the happiness of others, when you look back, you find that you are also looked up to and envied by others
Some people should actually be very happy, but in fact they are bitter; some people should be unhappy, but they are actually very happy. Material and spiritual life become the attributes of happiness that we pursue. Knock on the door early in order to make happiness come! Calm down so you can see what you need more.
That is, it is necessary to read some books on running marriage and improving oneself, draw the power of wisdom from them, keep love fresh, and transform love into reliable family affection as soon as possible.
Through learning, we will understand each other's appreciation, mutual acceptance and mutual tolerance earlier, and through learning, we will be better at mutual understanding, mutual trust and mutual support. In particular, it is necessary to learn and master some communication and expression skills. In this way, there will be no misunderstandings in the transmission of information.
You must know that misunderstanding is the executioner of the estrangement, once there is a gap, the feelings of the two people are easy to produce gaps, if you do not repair the cracks in the feelings in time, then, over time, the of feelings will be broken.
In order to avoid and reduce misunderstandings, we must choose to be a wise person and be a frank person, and my friend Xiao Ai is such a person. For example, every year on Valentine's Day, wedding anniversaries and other special days, her lover will always forget because she is busy. However, the friend Xiao Ai will not wait for the lover to remember himself like some people, or a person secretly sulks for two days. Friend Xiao Ai will take either a gift for herself, or she will take the initiative to remind her lover and get timely feedback from her lover, and everyone is happy.
For Xiao Ai, frankness is really the seed of happiness, and lovers need to express themselves in a timely and accurate manner, so that there will be no misunderstanding, and happiness will come to knock on your door.
Sometimes, distance produces not only beauty, but also a sense of distance. Keep a distance, let each other relax and ease, eliminate the sense of distance, marriage and family work hard to warm each other, happiness and longevity.
Life is not as long as we think, life can not withstand too much delay, when many people understand this truth, looking back, life has passed most of the time, in the pity to learn to cherish, is bound to waste too much of the past. Starting from the present, think about it, do it, on the road of reincarnation, it is rare that someone can accompany us all the way, so we must cherish it when we are together, hold hands, and walk together in this life.
Know: people should pursue something, but they should definitely not pursue everything. So, whether it's a parent, a lover, or a friend, love them.