Text: Zi Qian on the top
There is a saying that the real network is not what you ask for, you attract.
This is also the "law of attraction", who you are, you will meet whom.
People with the same magnetic field will attract each other. People with the same energy will get together.
Individuals want to break the circle, they need to become excellent people first, in order to get the qualification to join a good circle. Networking is actually a natural result of personal growth.
There is a saying in the I Ching:
"Corresponding to the same voice, the same breath."
01
There is a very hot question in Zhihu: "How to get out of the trough of life?" ”
One high-ranking person replied, "Take a few more steps." ”
People in the world do mostly seven seconds of initial intention, three minutes of heat, in this fast era of pursuing speed and chasing fame and fortune, how many people are willing to cultivate themselves in a down-to-earth manner?
Not long ago, Zhang Yi won the Golden Rooster Film Emperor with "On the Cliff". On the podium, he said a sentence: "God cares for poor people." ”
A poor one, the Word exhausted his countless heartaches. Only he himself knew the pain behind this obscurity for more than twenty years.
At that time, he served the job of an actor, others were the protagonists, and he was running a dragon set. Do field notes, officers, recorders, screenwriters, write string words, and voiceovers. Even if there is a role, it can only play a passerby.
"In this circle, it's not good enough, it's not ugly enough, it's your fatal flaw." The implication is that it is difficult for him to get out of the circle, and many people have advised him to give up.
Hu Mei once told him meaningfully when filming "Qiao Family Compound":
"If the actor is not out of the house before the age of 28, go home and wash and sleep."
At that time, he was 27 years old and was still a small supporting role in the crew of "Joe's Family Compound". Zhang Yi cried while drinking, and more than once he thought about changing careers, but he was really too unwilling. After drinking the wine and wiping his eyes dry, he sank his heart and decided to fight himself to the end.
For a substitute role, he secretly practiced while others were resting, memorizing the lines well. In order to be able to speak a more authentic dialect, he lived with the locals and made a "dialect manual". During the filming of "The Climber", in order to accurately express pain and emotions, he stepped barefoot in the snow and froze half of his feet.
He also knows that he makes money on variety shows and reality shows, but he does not take advertisements, does not go to variety shows, and only cultivates his acting skills. He was directly included in the North Film Textbook in a scene of eating noodles on the street in "The Pursuer Also". After more than ten years of groping and fighting, he understands that there is no one-shot and popular life, and it is more reliable to act every shot well.
Polish yourself, and the resources are slowly moving closer to him. Operation Red Sea, One Second, Above the Cliff... The circle slowly found him.
It is the countless times with their own death that there is this later ten-billion film emperor.
In "Strange Story", Fu Seoul said a sentence:
If I make everyone feel that there is some light on them today, it is because I have spent the most beautiful years of women on that cold bench.
This sentence is also the true portrayal of Zhang Yi's deep cultivation of himself. Zhang Yi said that one of his favorite sentences is:
But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.
If you want to do great things, you must be steadfast. Only when a person has walked enough roads and accumulated his ability to a certain height, will life be a different situation, will he meet a higher circle, and will he achieve a better self.
The Book of Time reads:
"You do things in March and April, and you have your own answers in August and September."
02
The writer Mai Jia once said that the most important thing in our time is smart people, and what is most lacking is actually the "stupid people" who are dead with themselves.
Times are evolving, progressing, and people really have more choices, but it seems that it is difficult to immerse themselves in time and insist on one thing.
Many of the friends who wrote together at the beginning have broken off. There should not be many people in the group who silently insist on writing. A few days ago, the editor of insight left a message, I wrote an article "People to middle age: tolerate the scenery of others, well can hold their own arrogance", they want to reprint.
I don't want to mention how happy I am, the insight is the big number of millions of fans on the whole network, I am excited that I have been seen, which invisibly seems to give me a lot of power. I remember very well that it was my 724th day in the headlines. I believe that I will get closer and closer to the circle of excellence, and I will believe more and more in the meaning of perseverance.
Others may be making money in "staking land", and I prefer to cultivate deeply in my own "one acre and three points of land". In the face of time, what I can do is to arch one day and one pawn, and the merit is not donated.
The Qing Dynasty calligrapher Yi Bingshou once had a Yan inscription:
"But the bricks are made of fields, the salty songs are happy, the ink crops have autumn, and the pen cultivation has no tax."
The ancient literati "only made a field of bricks", regarded pen and ink as a living, and used yantai as a field. Old Mr. Qi Baishi specially carved a seal of "Yantian Old Farmer" and encouraged himself.
He said, "Three days without painting, the pen is not crazy." Even in their old age, they still paint every day without interruption. From morning to night, it is either silent contemplation or lying down. In his lifetime, he would only stop writing for a few days when he encountered a few serious illnesses and the loss of his parents.
In his later years, he once wrote "three houses with iron fences, the pen is busy like a farm tool, the Yantian cattle are not resting, and the sunset shines on the east box."
No matter what field it is, all those who achieve great things know how to cultivate themselves deeply. Life does not seek more, only refinement, sink your heart in your own field, and cultivate deeply with an ingenuity, in order to achieve something. Only the "stupid people" who are willing to work hard are the people closest to success.
As the writer Liu Zhenyun said:
"The masters are very stupid people. Only very stupid people are willing to work hard, will persevere to the top, will grind a sword for ten years, a sword and a sword. ”
03
In the adult world, there is a heart-wrenching truth: it is either outstanding or out.
No matter what field, if a person wants to be "outstanding", there is never a shortcut, and he must go through the purgatory of time.
There is a saying in the I Ching:
"Chu Jiu: Hidden Dragon, Don't Use It."
When your momentum cannot rise, the dragon lurks in the abyss, and the yang is hidden deeply. What people need to do is to sink into the ground, stoop to the ground, practice their skills, and wait for the upward turnover.
When the positive potential energy you accumulate is greater than the force of inertia, you can break the status quo, and the things you work hard will naturally turn around. If you bloom, the breeze will come.
Jundang dried up all day, survived the loneliness of the thousands, crossed thousands of rivers and thousands of journeys, and was tenderly reunited with the best of himself.
I am a son of Qianshang, and I am willing to encourage you with the king
Wen: Zi Qian is on the top, focusing on the law of attraction, warm to the sun, going up and going up. Thank you all, stay tuned.